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Al Swearengen
Yep, I'mn certainly coming to that conclusion. I dont think theres many things that a few hundred more punts wouldnt fix!
Yep, I'mn certainly coming to that conclusion. I dont think theres many things that a few hundred more punts wouldnt fix!
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colzilla
That's the spirit... Relationships are for wimps.
Punt and punt often.
Punt and punt often.
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Thatguy
There's the trade off.. if your ok with just punting and having different girls etc.. whenever you want/afford... which is fine..
but on the other hand sometimes its not about the sex, its about the company too...
punting is great, until its shower time and go home.
I don't know, I am of two minds about it.. sometimes I like the single life, do what I want when I want and report to noone, but then I go home to an empty house and want company..
that said, I have a date on Saturday now.. so who knows what will come of that...!
but on the other hand sometimes its not about the sex, its about the company too...
punting is great, until its shower time and go home.
I don't know, I am of two minds about it.. sometimes I like the single life, do what I want when I want and report to noone, but then I go home to an empty house and want company..
that said, I have a date on Saturday now.. so who knows what will come of that...!
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colzilla
If you want company get yourself a woofer or a meow.
Dallas
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Probably the only thing I miss from relationships is waking up in the morning and she's still there, although even with relationships that's hit and miss. At least with an overnight Outcall I can be sure she'll still be there although trying to sleep is really difficult for obvious reasons 
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colzilla
Do you sleep on the wet spot or does she MrD?
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colzilla
MrD do they charge as much when they're asleep and are any of you're lovelies snorers?
Dallas
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I've only done two full overnights with PG's and we worked out a rate up until the fun ended, then sleeping was a gift, the hotel suite cost almost as much as the lady so it's good the sleeping wasn't included.
I think the meter might get reset if you get the 4am hornies but I've not tested that as I'm usually wrecked after about six hours. Also my sleep apnoea machine drowns out their snoring so it's all good that's a joke ladies :0
I think the meter might get reset if you get the 4am hornies but I've not tested that as I'm usually wrecked after about six hours. Also my sleep apnoea machine drowns out their snoring so it's all good
that's a joke ladies :0
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Hey there can you give us some more info on this lifstyle I'm interested in doing the same thing A PM would be great thanks Perth Boy
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Thatguy
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Contrarian
To tell you guys the truth, which I think you all deduced from earlier answers anyway, I find paid sex very unfulfilling. It certainly may meet a need but not the need I have or want or need. Certainly in my younger days, sex was the be all and end all and getting it whichever way was good. But now, paid sex... apart from the sexual relief does nothing for me - so I don't engage in it any more.
Mind you, when I've met women whom I've been in relationships, close friendships with - the sex has been incredulous and mind blowing.
Mind you, when I've met women whom I've been in relationships, close friendships with - the sex has been incredulous and mind blowing.
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colzilla
Perhaps you were picking the wrong hookers Contrarian.
Castro
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There is a lot of truth in what you've said. But I guess you could look at punting as a hobby, that way it's more of a fun activity.
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Thatguy
I have to agree with Contrarian... punting can be fun and the time spent with a young lady is enjoyable.. while it lasts..
but ultimately is not fulfilling...
and I am looking for something more..
but ultimately is not fulfilling...
and I am looking for something more..
Dallas
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As much as I'd ultimately love a fulfilling relationship again with an intelligent, fun, confident and highly sexed lady capable of real intimacy, I have found that the working ladies that I've met set a very high standard that as yet I can't even come close to finding in the real world.
honestman
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+1 in all regards.
As a graphic designer working in a total of four agencies in experience; witnessing and catering all the cashed bogans/corporate mining sector/s (Annual Reports = necessary evil to attract those only in suits, and an abuse to the intangible creative industry) - I am well accustomed to the fact upon a very (plausible) and possible belief about this generation we're about to shift.
And that generation seems to now have a turned in favour onto the hands of the young women we see today. And these are the women whom we deemed and see both as intelligent and attractive. So would I think most men welcome this change? Absolutely. It's about time and there could be nothing else better in life now that we have seen the young women of today to be not only educated and independent but seemingly stronger in every sense of a word.
For all the W/Ls out there you will of course expect nothing but continued praise, respect and gratitude from us. Many of us I hope.
...But what would I think this change would bring? Shift/s of power, balance and caused even more anxst and hunger among the male species for one thing: competition. What does this mean? You now have women who are at the turning point of this generation who will; at some stage - be in control of most aspect/s of life in favour of freedom & self-liberation, in many cases more so than men. This, I believe - combined with social media (in some ways I am against it, believe it or not coming from a graphic designer) - create increasingly fierce/r competition among the males, as well as beginning to realise the futility / uselessness of attempting to be within a relationship; for the sake of being in a relationship, in turn for the sake of being accepted in predominant society, etc - all which again goes in cycles infinium.
In other words, this brings an age where relationships no longer exists for one's sake to just be 'in a relationship'. Perhaps more in line as looking for a job. Traits of selectivity, relativity AND accountability of asset/s interests will be seen as a criteria of mateship; only now it's more abundant, and importantly - insistently expected than ever before.
It is already far 'too difficult' for them to look beyond the consistent, stereotypical trait of men that we are more than just porn obsessed maniacs; much the same as they think as their important criteria to us is all appearance as all that matters to them. Us males have our concrete, objective deficiencies to account for the everyday functioning of our reasoning to live much as the same way as ladies do with their reasoning for expanding not only their wardrobe, their shoes, but ultimately; their career and life in general.
Any sort of reasoning and arguments is futile and pointless; because of the already apparent shift to the above generation invariably brings greater spread of fear, and overall insecurity to anyone considering of starting a (conditionally) loving relationship.
Is it still possible then to be in for relationship? Yes. But I feel a lot of questioning, communication and of all things my favourite in all subject of life - raising awareness and acknowledgement in the deficiencies of everyone; are ultimately required.
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PS. As of today, I've just turned my annual dial to #"28". Just another humble day and dinner without a cake.
I've been much in your case during my study years as I am always screamed at of this classic example of unsolicited advice = "Don't worry. You'll be fine, just go out more.". ...And after failed experience/s at five ("5") online dating sites, I grew numb and quiet on the outside ever since, but still ever so loud on the inside.
I've brought this topic often in random places in front of women (yes in public) and seemingly enough I seem to receive the same conclusion; however confusing and contradictory it seems:
Girls are as nervous as guys. But they are not so twitchy or nervous in giving out advice/s that is just plainly unsolicited as explicitly stated in our upbringing and circumstances; of which ours are not easily understood. Advice/s that we seek with well thought-out time all but are given and discounted in a mere second. The more we rationalise our need for a thought out response, the more they feel violated and disgusted.
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Re: Stay single or not
Been great reading so here is my two cents worth.
The lines are blurred, there is so much gender confusion. What is a relationship now. Do we look for stereotypes from the television. Lets see there is Modern Family, Brady Bunch. What's normal?
My dream as a child was Mum home bringing up the kids and running the house while Dad worked and mowed the lawns at the weekend.
So my dream went up in flames pretty quick and soon enough I was a solo parent with a weekend Dad.
Recently I joined a dating site and was horrified to learn the expectations of men my age. THEY HAVE NONE?
Two of my dates told me that having a beer every week and watchin footy was all that we should expect at our age. OMG I have dreams and ambitions. My kids are gone and its my turn to live. They don't want a relationship they wanted someone to fetch their slippers.
I want someone to share my life and adventures with, someone to fall asleep and wake up with.
I remember that feeling of falling in love. The anticipation of that 1st kiss and I want to experience that again. I have to admit I love being in love x
Been great reading so here is my two cents worth.
The lines are blurred, there is so much gender confusion. What is a relationship now. Do we look for stereotypes from the television. Lets see there is Modern Family, Brady Bunch. What's normal?
My dream as a child was Mum home bringing up the kids and running the house while Dad worked and mowed the lawns at the weekend.
So my dream went up in flames pretty quick and soon enough I was a solo parent with a weekend Dad.
Recently I joined a dating site and was horrified to learn the expectations of men my age. THEY HAVE NONE?
Two of my dates told me that having a beer every week and watchin footy was all that we should expect at our age. OMG I have dreams and ambitions. My kids are gone and its my turn to live. They don't want a relationship they wanted someone to fetch their slippers.
I want someone to share my life and adventures with, someone to fall asleep and wake up with.
I remember that feeling of falling in love. The anticipation of that 1st kiss and I want to experience that again. I have to admit I love being in love x
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Tania Admin
And Vivien you are a very special lady, you deserve to have that kind of love xo
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...these guys wouldn't know a good thing if it leapt up & bit them on the bum! I've never really had any long standing type of relationship and, now at my age, I doubt that I will if that's what is being bandied around.
Dallas
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Yes, I totally agree Viv, this is my experience talking to guys in my age group too and women for that matter, I have nothing in common with them and my workplace and world is an emotional wasteland.
I have dreams, I want to have fun, I like to be spontaneous, I like music, dancing, adventure holidays, exercise, romantic surprises, intimacy, love, sex, I like everything you've mentioned but it just doesn't seem to exist in the outside world where I am as I write this. I only seem to find it with Outcalls.
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Perth boy
Well since this thread started I have become single after knowing my wife for most of my adult life.
Anyway so now I'm about to see the single side. To be honest I'm scared shitless. I haven't darted for over 20 years. In the next few weeks will give that Internet darting a go but I think I will stay single for a while.
If any of the lady's on this site want to catch up for coffee / wine would love the company.
Anyway so now I'm about to see the single side. To be honest I'm scared shitless. I haven't darted for over 20 years. In the next few weeks will give that Internet darting a go but I think I will stay single for a while.
If any of the lady's on this site want to catch up for coffee / wine would love the company.
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colzilla
I get enough affection from hookers and strippers.
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Ahoy;- Good Luck with the dating scene GUYS;- LOL
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colzilla
Why is everyone so scared about being alone?
Like I've said Mr or Mrs Cash solves so many problems... If I love anyone it's Mr or Mrs Cash
Like I've said Mr or Mrs Cash solves so many problems... If I love anyone it's Mr or Mrs Cash
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colzilla
I don't need outcalls a $160-200 for 30 minute booking once a week was all I once needed.
Now a couple of 10 minute private strips with a nice peepshow girl is enough.
Mrs Cash... She's a sweetie.
Now a couple of 10 minute private strips with a nice peepshow girl is enough.
Mrs Cash... She's a sweetie.
