I'm in love with an escort. I really love her as a person, not only as a body to "buy". How do I establish a relationship with her? How do I court her

WildBrumby

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@poiuytrewq, For some of us it’s not our first rodeo so yes maybe learn from our mistakes but don’t be hard on yourself if you trip just get back up.

Another saying is: Better to put a fence at the top of a cliff than an ambulance at the bottom.

People still like to climb fences though for the thrill then wonder why the fall happened.
 
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mrys

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@ozwarlock67, Yes agree the ladies do like a social life but starting a relationship mostly wouldn’t work. I had a few that I used to socialise with outside of their work, they appreciated just doing normal things. I found finding a restaurant that served their traditional foods from home was a favourite for most.
I have done something similar at restaurants with a couple of long term favourites. It's funny when they see a customer and they tell you all about him :) Trouble is I'm sure they probably talked about me to others too!!
 

Jasmine Malika

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Probs best to leave it alone… as hard as it may be it just business xx
 

No idea what to do

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You are paying for sex, not falling in love. Escorts love Money and making customer happy is her job.
And additional to this
Even when they tell you

"They Love You"
They Don't

It's there job to keep sucking the money out of your bank account and increasing there own funds.
And they do it well most of the time

If you don't understand this, Don't Punt

🐸 The Frenchman🐸
 

stovo82

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Pretty Woman is a hit Hollywood film. Rarely does the story end between escort and client ends happily ever after.
Sex worker wants money and puts on an act to get more money by boosting the customers ego.
 

Aang

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I'm gonna revive this for a bit to tell you that it's not in your best interest to do it. It's gonna hurt. I'm going through it right now and I never really understood when Rodo said this.

One heart will be broken, and it won't be hers, believe me I know first hand, fell head over heals for one pretty little thing, I ended up a wreck!

It stings quite a bit. Gonna be a while to get over this hahahahahaha.
 

mrys

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I'm gonna revive this for a bit to tell you that it's not in your best interest to do it. It's gonna hurt. I'm going through it right now and I never really understood when Rodo said this.



It stings quite a bit. Gonna be a while to get over this hahahahahaha.
Hang in there mate. Time is your friend. The wounds will heal and you will be wiser for the experience.
 

Billyknob2

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Pretty Woman is a hit Hollywood film. Rarely does the story end between escort and client ends happily ever after.
Sex worker wants money and puts on an act to get more money by boosting the customers ego.
Well said Indigo. I’m going through the same heartache atm. Wish I’d read this forum last year.
 
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One heart will be broken, and it won't be hers, believe me I know first hand, fell head over heals for one pretty little thing, I ended up a wreck
 
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Darklord

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Pretty Woman is a hit Hollywood film. Rarely does the story end between escort and client ends happily ever after.
Sex worker wants money and puts on an act to get more money by boosting the customers ego.
Exactly stovo82, if they remade pretty woman in Perth, Richard Gere is a fifo truckie, the girl a Taiwanese uni student who cranks dicks on the weekends to make ends meet and needs permanent residency and after a few bangs it all goes to shit 😂
 

Lingus

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Covid restrictions are pretty much non-existent now ... the visa situation must be returning to normal, as notably in the last six months I've experienced five marriage proposals, one of which I received by text ... 😘
 

Be Nice

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Covid restrictions are pretty much non-existent now ... the visa situation must be returning to normal, as notably in the last six months I've experienced five marriage proposals, one of which I received by text ... 😘

How many did you accept? 😂
 

sircurious

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Covid restrictions are pretty much non-existent now ... the visa situation must be returning to normal, as notably in the last six months I've experienced five marriage proposals, one of which I received by text ... 😘
Student visa situation is slowly returning to normal although with China only opening their borders back last month - only 5,000 Chinese students have returned (this was quoted by ECU Vice Chancellor on the news last night). I expect a bigger influx of Chinese students in second semester (July), although as the Vice Chancellor also remarked there is a distinct lack of suitable and affordable rental properties for international students, and this has deterred some from coming back to Australia. Being a graduate of ECU, I received an email from the ECU Alumni Association last week to see if Alumni members would be interested in housing an international student which I politely declined.
 

Lingus

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Student visa situation is slowly returning to normal ... the Vice Chancellor also remarked there is a distinct lack of suitable and affordable rental properties for international students ... Being a graduate of ECU, I received an email from the ECU Alumni Association last week to see if Alumni members would be interested in housing an international student which I politely declined.

I understand your situation ... however, have you considered trading up that existing single bed to a double or queen ... ;)
 

Noah11

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I've had to 'break up' with several clients who have fallen In love.
Unfortunately with GFE sometimes those lines get crossed or confusion grows! With sex comes intimacy and some can't seperate the two meaning I have to pull the pin.

When I start getting messages saying they can't stop thinking about me they are obsessed with me or when they tell me they love me is when I pull away because that is definitely not something I'm after and I don't want to lead anyone on.

It's very easily done to fall for someone who is giving you the things you've been missing but please remember it's all part of what your paying for. You pay for the girlfriend experience, doesn't always mean the girl is wanting to be your girlfriend.
with so many offering their opinions, you have put everything into the correct perspective. Thanks
 

tsmith

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I've had to 'break up' with several clients who have fallen In love.
Unfortunately with GFE sometimes those lines get crossed or confusion grows! With sex comes intimacy and some can't seperate the two meaning I have to pull the pin.

When I start getting messages saying they can't stop thinking about me they are obsessed with me or when they tell me they love me is when I pull away because that is definitely not something I'm after and I don't want to lead anyone on.

It's very easily done to fall for someone who is giving you the things you've been missing but please remember it's all part of what your paying for. You pay for the girlfriend experience, doesn't always mean the girl is wanting to be your girlfriend.
Oh shoot...I am going through this at the moment. I can't stop thinking about her and have told her that as well. I think I am fucked (in more ways than one).
 
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