I'm in love with an escort. I really love her as a person, not only as a body to "buy". How do I establish a relationship with her? How do I court her

[DT4eva]

It rarely works out. Didn't for me.
The worst thing you can do is treat her more like a girlfriend than a WL.

You could say so.

 

[Tyla Chris]

Oh boy! you are fucked up. Run out of her sight. Do not meet her again. you will loose your money and sanity both hun xx

 

[Anna LD]

My experience says you need to decide on two things -

1. Is your feeling for some time or is it permanent? If the first one is yes, book her in for a few days have sex ad get over with it. Book a GFE if you want. If it's a yes to the second question - ask her out, discuss it with her and learn what she wants or does she love you back.

2. If you have taken her out, it means she agreed to meet out apart from the brothel/apartment she probably is interested in something else. It's time you speak about your feeling if she agrees to it, marry her. if not respect her feelings and let her go!

 

[georgo]

Best not go down that road. As somebody already said. It can be a world of hurt.

In the three times so have done this, two were like open relationships, while one demanded that I was faithful only to her.

None of them were functional and soon after or after a while, feelings were disfunctional from both sides.

Treat it like restaurant food bro, can’t eat it everyday, and don’t try and replicate it in the home. They are different contexts for different occasions.

Regards

Yoda

Been there done that cost over 70 big ones, leaves you with a lot of pain and she still keeps in touch must have been her sugar daddy with out the reward????

 

[Master Yoda]

Been there done that cost over 70 big ones, leaves you with a lot of pain and she still keeps in touch must have been her sugar daddy with out the reward????

I see you’ve been down that road too friend. Hey each to their own. Some may need to go down this road for themselves to learn what we have learned.

Wasn’t all bad, yet I wish it on no one

 

[georgo]

I see you’ve been down that road too friend. Hey each to their own. Some may need to go down this road for themselves to learn what we have learned.

Wasn’t all bad, yet I wish it on no one

Totally agree Master Yoda.

 

[Kenny]

Have you got her profile link?

 

[Ramper]

Treat her like any other woman, with respect, be honest, have fun, and don't get serious enjoy her as a person and woman, and don't get jealous, and make sure all her customers wear condoms, if they don't give her the arse.

 

[DeletedUser]

Reading this thread, my thoughts are shared with majority of posts.
Best advice I could give, If you’re easily ‘smittined’ then it’s a risky move to go and see a WL or AMP girl on a regular basis, rotate and see multiple girls in different locations.
If you start to feel you’re falling, stop seeing her, and go somewhere else, move on to avoid deeper feelings and possible hurt and heartbreak.
Having a GFE with someone repeatedly is probably also not the best move. You are paying for the ‘experience’ and don’t let that fool you that their feelings may be reciprocated as they’re probably not.
I feel your pain, I really do.
Wish you the best, but please take a good think about it, (not with your cock) your mind.

 

[James3006]

Always be a gentleman and respectful to them. You have to remember falling for these types is like putting a noose around your neck to see what will happen next. It’s about money and only money. If your that lonely go out and buy a Labrador.

 

[Ramper]

Always be a gentleman and respectful to them. You have to remember falling for these types is like putting a noose around your neck to see what will happen next. It’s about money and only money. If your that lonely go out and buy a Labrador.

Yes it's a business transaction and I feel if wanting a relationship.with a WL would be very hard for the average bloke.

 

[DT4eva]

Commonly heard amongst some Thai girls is the phrase: “No money, no honey.”

yes , indeed

 

[DT4eva]

Thanks for the reply mate

 

[James3006]

Yes it's a business transaction and I feel if wanting a relationship.with a WL would be very hard for the average bloke.

It be hard for any bloke if you want a relationship just date real women.

 

[Lingus]

It be hard for any bloke if you want a relationship just date real women.

WLs are real women ... I've found some of them to be more real than many "real women".

All relationships have their hurdles ... it's more so the hurdles that are hidden which test you.

 

[asianguy77]

Book her for 1 week, no sex where you spend 24/7 doing Boring mundane things.

By the end of the week you might start despising each other and this will pop the fantasy you had

 

[Devos]

Book her for 1 week, no sex where you spend 24/7 doing Boring mundane things.

By the end of the week you might start despising each other and this will pop the fantasy you had

sounds like a marriage

 

[James3006]

G

WLs are real women ... I've found some of them to be more real than many "real women".

All relationships have their hurdles ... it's more so the hurdles that are hidden which test you.

Good luck mate

 

[asianguy77]

sounds like a marriage

Lol exactly.

 

[WildBrumby]

Book her for 1 week, no sex where you spend 24/7 doing Boring mundane things.​

By the end of the week you might start despising each other and this will pop the fantasy you had

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[Deudermont]

I was in a relationship with an escort once, it lasted for a year. I think she grew bored of me. The sad part was she wouldn't look me book her when we were courting.

 

[jjjohn977]

 

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[Sally Sexting]

Stay

Book her for 1 week, no sex where you spend 24/7 doing Boring mundane things.

By the end of the week you might start despising each other and this will pop the fantasy you had

yes, I would say that makes her feel how special she is. And as it is said every action has a reaction so wait and observe things more closely. At the end of the week you will get your answer

 

[Aang]

I Know I Love my Favourite

Yes I pay and expect to, No Pay ( How will she survive ) It is support the Lady
We go on dates have lot's of fun both inside and outside the bedroom.
We learn from each other.

All this is good enough for me, She will never Love me , and I know this.
we do have a good relationship though.

She Fuck's who she want's to.
To me it is about establishing life experience's as a WL​

The Frenchman

This is soo me right now. Thank God I seen this.

Thank you

 

[ozwarlock67]

I've socialised with several WL's " outside the circle" over the years.......going to the Royal Show and even getting invited to Christmas lunch.

But as much as you may like her, it's never a good idea to fall in love unless there's a two way street.

This is real life, not an American rom-com.

 

[WildBrumby]

@ozwarlock67, Yes agree the ladies do like a social life but starting a relationship mostly wouldn’t work. I had a few that I used to socialise with outside of their work, they appreciated just doing normal things. I found finding a restaurant that served their traditional foods from home was a favourite for most.

 

[Aang]

I'm soo glad I join this community, cause before coming here all my feeling and emotions was all over the place. Reading all the comments here made me realised that what i was feeling was normal haha.

"A smart man makes a mistake, learns from it, and never makes that mistake again. But a wise man finds a smart man and learns from him how to avoid the mistake altogether."

 

[Rodo]

Dont do it, pay her the money, leave it there!

 

[Rodo]

One heart will be broken, and it won't be hers, believe me I know first hand, fell head over heals for one pretty little thing, I ended up a wreck!