I'm in love with an escort. I really love her as a person, not only as a body to "buy". How do I establish a relationship with her? How do I court her
Tjxxxxxx
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From my experience if you give an escort more money they will like you more. But do not ask for extra services/time. In fact I would suggest giving her money without the expectation of seeing her. Send her every dollar you have. Working 2-3 jobs will allow you to send more money. Also take out loans if needed. Whatever it takes!!!
If you run out of money and she no longer wants you around do not get discouraged. Take some time and rebuild your financial situation. Once stable again find a new escort and repeat.
If you run out of money and she no longer wants you around do not get discouraged. Take some time and rebuild your financial situation. Once stable again find a new escort and repeat.
feifei
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A mate of mine went through the falling in love period in Malaysia. His method of testing was if he doesn't pay, and she still wants to see him, then it's love....
Yeah his thinking was a little f'ed up
Last time I used to see this girl often, cute and young and love to experiment with different things.... she is always very happy to see me and would come to the shop even when she is not rostered to work when I come in.
One day she suddenly asked me how she should tell a customer she is in love with him...... with my ego then i thought she was talking about me, I got worried and bugged out and stop seeing her after. Don't know why....
Last I heard she may have married the owner of the business and retired.
Oh well....
Yeah his thinking was a little f'ed up
Last time I used to see this girl often, cute and young and love to experiment with different things.... she is always very happy to see me and would come to the shop even when she is not rostered to work when I come in.
One day she suddenly asked me how she should tell a customer she is in love with him...... with my ego then i thought she was talking about me, I got worried and bugged out and stop seeing her after. Don't know why....
Last I heard she may have married the owner of the business and retired.
Oh well....
IceFragmatic
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Take her and move in together... there are many people have done that you are not the first one mate..... 
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Maybe give yourself time to come off the boil and cool down. Sometimes we see things with clarity when not continuously near the fire.
Wooper
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you are paying for her company that is all, if you can’t seperate real feelings from that you should remove yourself entirely as all you’ll do is cause yourself emotional and potential financial problems and even problems for her and that being said if you can not seperate your emotional from working girls you’d better stay away from all of them
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Personally myself I have had the same feelings for a working lady and after a poker night at the royal hotel I went to Gotham City with one of my associates and the same thing happened again saw her many times then after a win on the pokies at crown I went the boardroom and another girl just totally swept me off my feet saw her many times although after a dinner and a night at the movies we went to a hotel with a spa and breakfast and a late check-out the magical connection just wore off.
I say it there is a good connection go for it.
I say it there is a good connection go for it.
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nightrider
Simple - keep the business and the personal separate - ask her out on a date - you’ll get your answer quick smart - heaps of punters posting on the forum of failed attempts to “court” the WL through bookings only seem to end badly
Lingus
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I can relate to this line of thinking ... I've been in situations where after becoming familiar with a lady I've later received extras without paying any extra
... at the very least, I reckon the girl must like me ... but, love, that's always a tricky situation to navigate.
feifei
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Sounds like alot of Thailand girls with the FIFO foreign boyfriends....
Wooper
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My grand parents loved Thailand and they use to laugh at the amount of people crying and hugging these Thai girls as they parted ways and then see them try flirt and talk to people who have just flown in. If money is involved there is no real feelings being reciprocated and people need to learn that
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Commonly heard amongst some Thai girls is the phrase: “No money, no honey.”
mountainbikingateve
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Ask her out on a date like you would any other lady.
Be prepared for dealing with her job - which is only her job… it is her having sex with other men.
Don’t try and save her - she might like her job. Which is a real job!
Read plenty of blogs and articles of others that have and are dating a sex worker. You will gain a good understanding of what you need to think about and deal with.
Most of all - before diving in - be honest with yourself on your ability to handle your emotions and thoughts.
Good luck!
I’m a solid 2 years and still going strong in my relationship.
My tips -
1. Don’t try to save her.
2. Remember- others pay her for sex and her company, she gives this to me for free.
3. Talk often and always clear the air. If I feel jealous or a bit off - I tell her and we talk through it.
4. She doesn’t want friends and family to know her job - so we have a well rehearsed back story.
5. Set boundaries for both of you.
Be prepared for dealing with her job - which is only her job… it is her having sex with other men.
Don’t try and save her - she might like her job. Which is a real job!
Read plenty of blogs and articles of others that have and are dating a sex worker. You will gain a good understanding of what you need to think about and deal with.
Most of all - before diving in - be honest with yourself on your ability to handle your emotions and thoughts.
Good luck!
I’m a solid 2 years and still going strong in my relationship.
My tips -
1. Don’t try to save her.
2. Remember- others pay her for sex and her company, she gives this to me for free.
3. Talk often and always clear the air. If I feel jealous or a bit off - I tell her and we talk through it.
4. She doesn’t want friends and family to know her job - so we have a well rehearsed back story.
5. Set boundaries for both of you.
No idea what to do
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I Know I Love my Favourite
Yes I pay and expect to, No Pay ( How will she survive ) It is support the Lady
We go on dates have lot's of fun both inside and outside the bedroom.
We learn from each other.
All this is good enough for me, She will never Love me , and I know this.
we do have a good relationship though.
The Frenchman
Yes I pay and expect to, No Pay ( How will she survive ) It is support the Lady
We go on dates have lot's of fun both inside and outside the bedroom.
We learn from each other.
All this is good enough for me, She will never Love me , and I know this.
we do have a good relationship though.
She Fuck's who she want's to.
To me it is about establishing life experience's as a WL
To me it is about establishing life experience's as a WL
The Frenchman
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Well put, I pretty much followed similar. Never really had any issues.
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I've had to 'break up' with several clients who have fallen In love.
Unfortunately with GFE sometimes those lines get crossed or confusion grows! With sex comes intimacy and some can't seperate the two meaning I have to pull the pin.
When I start getting messages saying they can't stop thinking about me they are obsessed with me or when they tell me they love me is when I pull away because that is definitely not something I'm after and I don't want to lead anyone on.
It's very easily done to fall for someone who is giving you the things you've been missing but please remember it's all part of what your paying for. You pay for the girlfriend experience, doesn't always mean the girl is wanting to be your girlfriend.
Unfortunately with GFE sometimes those lines get crossed or confusion grows! With sex comes intimacy and some can't seperate the two meaning I have to pull the pin.
When I start getting messages saying they can't stop thinking about me they are obsessed with me or when they tell me they love me is when I pull away because that is definitely not something I'm after and I don't want to lead anyone on.
It's very easily done to fall for someone who is giving you the things you've been missing but please remember it's all part of what your paying for. You pay for the girlfriend experience, doesn't always mean the girl is wanting to be your girlfriend.
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Best not go down that road. As somebody already said. It can be a world of hurt.
In the three times or so I have done this, two were like open relationships, while one demanded that I was faithful only to her.
None of them were functional and soon after or after a while, feelings were disfunctional from both sides.
Treat it like restaurant food bro, can’t eat it everyday, and don’t try and replicate it in the home. They are different contexts for different occasions.
Regards
Yoda
In the three times or so I have done this, two were like open relationships, while one demanded that I was faithful only to her.
None of them were functional and soon after or after a while, feelings were disfunctional from both sides.
Treat it like restaurant food bro, can’t eat it everyday, and don’t try and replicate it in the home. They are different contexts for different occasions.
Regards
Yoda
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feifei
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Could be worst...
Know 1 guy from work who took a Thai girl as his "wife"
After buying an apartment (under her name because he can't own the house) and have a joint banking account.....well..... one day she sold the place, cleared the account and disappeared why this poor SOB was working in Africa.
Now the stupid bugger moved on to another Thai WL and also a Bali WL in their respective countries.
I guess he is splitting his nesteggs
Wooper
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Jesus you’d think he’d learn
asianguy77
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Punters want the GFE but they can't handle the GFE experience 
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He should have just bought shares in a Thai brothells
mrys
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@Goodstuff36 Thats exactly what a friend of mine did. Thai bars and brothels on the beaches, he had a great life and enjoyed every moment! Sadly he went too young thanks to cancer but wow he crammed a lot in before he went
Willow West
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Just tell her openly how you feel and ask if you have a chance. Hopefully she'll be open and honest too, then you can move on if she doesn't feel the same. (Not to be too negative but she likely doesn't. And it's better to know now then to spend more and more time and money getting more invested only to be more heartbroken).
No idea what to do
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Have to agree with the Wise Master Yoda
Until she is ready to have a relationship
There will not be one
My Opinion
You can't Court an Escort while she works
You can have fun though
They are Free Spirits
And will be
Until they don't wanna be
It Has To Be There Decision
You can't Court an Escort while she works
You can have fun though
They are Free Spirits
And will be
Until they don't wanna be
It Has To Be There Decision
They actually get paid to perform a GFE
And be your Fuck Buddy
And some could even win an actress award.
The FrenchmanThat's how well they can act
ozwarlock67
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It rarely works out. Didn't for me.
The worst thing you can do is treat her more like a girlfriend than a WL.
The worst thing you can do is treat her more like a girlfriend than a WL.
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you took the words right out of my mouth xx