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what were your overall thoughts on this ad?

  • did you look at the pictures attached?

    Votes: 4 80.0%

  • Do you think the advertiser is genuine?

    Votes: 4 80.0%

  • How long have you been a member?

    Votes: 2 40.0%

  • Are you in Perth?

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • Total voters
    5
  • Poll closed .
It is concerning and disturbing. well said mrys! We need to talk more on this issue so victim-survivors don’t feel stigmatised to come forward with the abuse
 
I hate Annies 124 is a drug front they barely get clients women are all psychotic constantly fighting and so many overdose the place is disgusting why is it still around it stinks it's overcrowded it's a biological hazard it like exists for the most horrible punters this society does not care for women if it allows such a absuivr place to exist there is no love on this town if this stupid place runs makes me sick
 
johnmatilda said:
I'm glad someone said it. You cannot believe how some of the men I know have been emotionally destroyed by the women in their lives to the extent they are contemplating suicide. They lose their homes, their children, their financial stability and finally their sanity.

Men can abuse mostly physically but women can abuse physically, emotionally and mentally.
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There is NO excuse for physical harm or murder of women by men.
 
vivlamoore said:
I hate Annies 124 is a drug front they barely get clients women are all psychotic constantly fighting and so many overdose the place is disgusting why is it still around it stinks it's overcrowded it's a biological hazard it like exists for the most horrible punters this society does not care for women if it allows such a absuivr place to exist there is no love on this town if this stupid place runs makes me sick
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Could be wrong, but getting a vibe you are not fond of this place?
 
Could someone take my profile down iv written some shit I'm not proud of why is there no way for us to take profile down
 
Channelle said:
Could be wrong, but getting a vibe you are not fond of this place?
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The council etc must be getting massive bribes or free sex and Intel on underworld maybe it's to spot where the hive honey bee is if U get my drift
 
vivlamoore said:
The council etc must be getting massive bribes or free sex and Intel on underworld maybe it's to spot where the hive honey bee is if U get my drift
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Would not be surprised if Annie got paid to sell womens lives nothing surprises me with this she probably patd tax on her drug dealing
 
vivlamoore said:
Gee looks like I'm pissing off people again can someone take down my post before I go missing
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If they are going to tax and shun us from polite society the least the government could do is provide a rehab program and accomodatiin retraining and rehousing so women have half W chance to rebuild their broken lives rather than ending up dead
 
vivlamoore said:
If they are going to tax and shun us from polite society the least the government could do is provide a rehab program and accomodatiin retraining and rehousing so women have half W chance to rebuild their broken lives rather than ending up dead
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I've removed my ads as in person is too dangerous and now inrononku fans. I would rather clean toilets and scrub shit off shoes then go near a client again
 
I'm such an idiot writing about dangerous things I mean everyone knows it's true anyway it's been said before not the bribes bit maybe that's implied I'm trying eat icecream asbim worried could someone take my fucking profile down we should have our heads checked before allowed to post
 
vivlamoore said:
I'm such an idiot writing about dangerous things I mean everyone knows it's true anyway it's been said before not the bribes bit maybe that's implied I'm trying eat icecream asbim worried could someone take my fucking profile down we should have our heads checked before allowed to post
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Lay off the meth hey
 
James3006 said:
You can talk about this issue til your blue in the face but you know what nothing is ever gonna change ever.
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The only thing that's never going to change is you I suspect James. The old saying 'if ignorance is bliss, tis folly to be wise' was written for you I think.
 
mrys said:
The only thing that's never going to change is you I suspect James. The old saying 'if ignorance is bliss, tis folly to be wise' was written for you I think.
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😂😂😂 yes continue with your virtue signalling and wokeness mate. Lucky you’re sitting behind a keyboard.
 

"As the old adage goes, if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem. Not harming women yourself isn’t enough – you also need to be part of the solution."

Apparently every man is part of the problem when it comes to DV. And this isn't even written by Mary Madigan!

Nothing in the article about what women can do e.g. mothers/sisters to guide their daughters/sisters to chose wisely, nothing in the article telling women to choose wisely.
 
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I read somewhere a few days ago that the government will throw about 900m over 4 years towards DV. Let's gather here after 4 years and see how that went.

I don't think throwing money at the symptom is a solution. I am very keen to understand the root cause of DV. Is it drugs, alcohol, a man's history of being subjected to family violence? Is it women choosing the wrong men despite the red flags? Is it because a man faces the threat of losing his house, his kids and his finances due to impending divorce?

I think it is more important to understand the why and how and only then can the root cause be addressed. I agree with another poster here that trying to eradicate DV completely is wishful thinking, just like trying to eradicate road accidents or drink driving.
 
johnmatilda said:

"As the old adage goes, if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem. Not harming women yourself isn’t enough – you also need to be part of the solution."

Apparently every man is part of the problem when it comes to DV. And this isn't even written by Mary Madigan!

Nothing in the article about what women can do e.g. mothers/sisters to guide their daughters/sisters to chose wisely, nothing in the article telling women to choose wisely.
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Given the above, I would also like to put the onus on women because if they are not part of the solution to men's mental health, suicide rates, violence against men and homelessness (especially when it comes to divorce and the woman taking his house, his children and his sanity), then they are part of the problem.

You will never hear this being mentioned in mainstream media.
 
James3006 said:
😂😂😂 yes continue with your virtue signalling and wokeness mate. Lucky you’re sitting behind a keyboard.
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Youre just type type of asshole everyone is talking about....wanting to physically fight the first person who disagrees with you. Lame.
 
Westozman said:
Youre just type type of asshole everyone is talking about....wanting to physically fight the first person who disagrees with you. Lame.
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With the benefit of hindsight his Avatar says it all. Not sure which is uglier though the Avatar or the attitude!
 
There's another thing (actually that's wrong - it's probably one of many, many things) I suspect that contributes to domestic violence and bullying. In the same way that we're brought up and trained by media and the world around us e.g. we must have a brand new car, a huge white wedding or be a bloke's bloke or an alpha man he man a la Chuck Connors or Vin Diesel men and to an extent women are trained to accept and be violent.

I was in a pub today watching the Dockers game which is a rarity for me. I noticed that the huge pub were 3 humongous rooms. One room was devoted with several screen about the footy.

Another room was following some caged fighting/mixed martial arts and the third to some rugby game. The biggest cheers and applause was generated from the MMA room which many sports pundits describe as an excuse for full on/no holds barred violence with gloves.

And I thought about it - Australian rules football is a high contact game tending to violent episodes. Crickets going that way in a genteel way.

All this leads me to think that we're being bred and immersed in violence more and more.

There's something more and this is rambling on my part - as nations around the world have people who spend less time reading books, handwriting snail mail letters, we're getting less intelligent and less able to express ourselves and our emotions with words. Like Jagger and Lennon-Mccartney have said - they became a voice of marginally post-war baby boom who were getting steadily unhappy and didn't know how to express themselves 'til their music came along.

So as a nation's people or a world's people become less articulate and wordy, they then become voiceless and resort to... using their fists to express themselves.

Fists + weaponry + violent sport + violent movies + drugs + drugs + drugs + alcohol + gambling + job dissatisfaction and job bullying + two sexes who even in the pre-70s found it difficult to understand each other and all of that = murder, robbery and violence.


Domestic violence and random violence. WE NEED TO CONTROL OURSELVES SOMEHOW. THERE ARE NO INVISIBLE PARENTS TO DO IT FOR US. GOVERNMENTS AND THEIR LEGISLATION CAN ONLY DO SO MUCH.
 
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johnmatilda said:
I read somewhere a few days ago that the government will throw about 900m over 4 years towards DV. Let's gather here after 4 years and see how that went.

I don't think throwing money at the symptom is a solution. I am very keen to understand the root cause of DV. Is it drugs, alcohol, a man's history of being subjected to family violence? Is it women choosing the wrong men despite the red flags? Is it because a man faces the threat of losing his house, his kids and his finances due to impending divorce?

I think it is more important to understand the why and how and only then can the root cause be addressed. I agree with another poster here that trying to eradicate DV completely is wishful thinking, just like trying to eradicate road accidents or drink driving.
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I don't think anyone has a firm understanding of what's driving the increase in DV, it's such a complex problem. I guess the Govt is recognising that by making more funds available to women who need to leave (not enough money IMO) rather than finding immediate causes and solutions as that will take time many women don't have. Do men feel dispossessed of their traditional place in society and relationships? Do they feel like failures, are they unable to process their anger (drugs and alcohol are effecting this IMO) I was married for a lot of years and yes there were disagreements. My 2nd wife loved a good argument, yes there were raised voices and I did get angry sometimes, right at that point I would take myself for a long walk somewhere. Walking away, cooling down and thinking clearly was the circuit breaker to those arguments. Never violence. We would then agree to disagree and move on. I was always mindful of setting the example for my kids, for my daughter what she should expect as a minimum and for my son how he should conduct himself in similar situations.
 
mrys said:
My 2nd wife loved a good argument, yes there were raised voices and I did get angry sometimes, right at that point I would take myself for a long walk somewhere
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One of my ex's was like that. I would remove myself from the conversation but that made her even more angry because she didn't feel like she won the argument and she had a need to be right. She would follow me and try and provoke a reaction to continue the argument. I permanently took myself out of that situation and dumped her. She was a psycho.
 
johnmatilda said:
One of my ex's was like that. I would remove myself from the conversation but that made her even more angry because she didn't feel like she won the argument and she had a need to be right. She would follow me and try and provoke a reaction to continue the argument. I permanently took myself out of that situation and dumped her. She was a psycho.
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Maybe our wives were sisters :-)
 
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