Post 29 below explains the topics relevance here and a very modest attempt to help others if needed. At worst we will be dumb motherfuckers who tried.
I'm sorry to keep banging on about DV. But it's a men's issue for the most part. Yes our 'relationship roles' are changing as the years progress but that's no excuse for violence towards those we love who have little chance of defending themselves. Words, including mine are cheap. I'm immeasurably sad, disappointed and confused about the behaviour of some of my brothers who lash out rather than talk it out......and walk away if needed. Here is just a thought for you all on TS to consider. TS is about paying for sex for the most part. TS would therefore have some members that are paying for sex because they have unsatisfactory relationships at home. I'm sure 99.9% of those unsatisfactory relationships don't involve DV. It just is what it is and we blokes just need something to make us feel good and SW's do just that! However If there is the 00.1% that are struggling to cope with their relationships and anger maybe we should have a seperate link on here for guys to DM other guys to have a chat. TS is anonymous so there is privacy to message and discuss sensitive stuff. I guess I want to take action, offer support and do something to help. Reading the news every morning to see lives lost to DV can be changed but we all have to help that change.