WL Ghosting

[ozwarlock67]

The golden rule in the industry is not to develop feelings for your WL.
But has anyone been ghosted by a lady they had been seeing for a long time and had come to regard as a friend? Professional girlfriend, if you like.

I've had it happen and with the flimsiest of excuses. Family issues, sudden medical issues, moving to the country.....etc etc.

Is it that she's done with you or is your time up?

 

[nobby01]

The golden rule in the industry is not to develop feelings for your WL.
But has anyone been ghosted by a lady they had been seeing for a long time and had come to regard as a friend? Professional girlfriend, if you like.

I've had it happen and with the flimsiest of excuses. Family issues, sudden medical issues, moving to the country.....etc etc.

Is it that she's done with you or is your time up?

Positive thoughts
She may have developed a connection to you and is not sure how to proceed
Maybe

 

[Bigmick]

The golden rule in the industry is not to develop feelings for your WL.
But has anyone been ghosted by a lady they had been seeing for a long time and had come to regard as a friend? Professional girlfriend, if you like.

I've had it happen and with the flimsiest of excuses. Family issues, sudden medical issues, moving to the country.....etc etc.

Is it that she's done with you or is your time up?

I’m sure you already have asked. But ask her directly to be honest and tell you why the change in communication?
The above post may be onto something also.
She may also have found someone else and would rather deal with it this way rather than potentially upsetting you.

 

[The Voice]

Many WLs are only in it for a short time for various reasons to make money. Often when they achieve their objectives the easiest way to exit the industry is to leave it in the past by severing all ties with shops, clients and wl friends. It's not personal and can be emotionally difficult for them too.

 

[2daysoff1]

I was ghosted by a girl I saw. 8 visits over three years each time I travelled interstate.
We seemed to get on well, I prepaid for a few bookings when she had bills to pay and we'd catch up via email every few months.
I made an enquirery before I was due to travel a few months before covid and got a reply apologising for a slow reply and a promise to email the next day. No reply came and I think I waited a week before messaging again. Got the same, sorry and I'll reply tomorrow.
That was the last contact. I decided to let things go. Being realistic about the SW/client relationship I figured she didn't "owe" me anything and it was best to respect her decision.
I thought about the possible reasons and compiled a mental list from the worst to the least bad.
The worst being that I'd hurt her in some way then down to it not being worth the effort to travel for an hour each way, to she just didn't like me or thought I was becoming too close or attached.
I had some amazing times with her, I took the risk of chasing a fantasy and she left me with memories that exceeded my dreams, even if she did pull a shower rail down on my head!
I figure her life moved on and I wish her the best, but I guess I'll aways wonder why?

 

[ozwarlock67]

Thank you to everyone who replied. I think in my case, kink/fetish may have had something to do with it also.

Not every WL is unflappable, although mine is pretty tame compared to what some guys want.

Just how things work out sometimes, I guess.

 

[Master Yoda]

What an amazing topic

 

[Phoebe]

The golden rule in the industry is not to develop feelings for your WL.
But has anyone been ghosted by a lady they had been seeing for a long time and had come to regard as a friend? Professional girlfriend, if you like.

I've had it happen and with the flimsiest of excuses. Family issues, sudden medical issues, moving to the country.....etc etc.

Is it that she's done with you or is your time up?

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