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Why do you punt?

mrys

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We all have different reasons to punt. My question is what motivates us to chase 60 minutes (or whatever minutes) of pleasure?
Is it:
A lack of sex in a committed relationship
A desire for more than our partner wants to explore
The high of a new sexual partner (variety)
Kinks we have that we don't share with others but want to explore with anonymity
Loneliness
Addiction
Validation
Too busy to form a relationship so punting works
Anxiety about performance
NSA

Please feel free to ad more that I haven't included. For me I think I could have ticked a number of the above at some stage in my life. What about you?
 
I adore women as the most beautifully sculptured artform and never book less than an hour as I enjoy studying the arts....

One lady for intense study up to three in a foursome for a sensory overload.

The female form is magnificent....

I punt to broaden my appreciation of the female majesty and from resolve not to get involved in relationships again.
 
I adore women as the most beautifully sculptured artform and never book less than an hour as I enjoy studying the arts....

One lady for intense study up to three in a foursome for a sensory overload.

The female form is magnificent....

I punt to broaden my appreciation of the female majesty and from resolve not to get involved in relationships again.
Thanks WB. There is something magical about a beautiful and skilled woman, no question. All the pleasure and no commitment has so much going for it!
 
I think being with a womans gonna feel better than masturbation but I'm always disappointed afterwards. I've never had a masseuse tease me, might be why I'm disappointed afterwards.
 
Something very AFL about punts and multiple shots on goal....but Westcoast wouldn't know about that would they....🤔
 
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Something very AFL about punts and multiple shots on goal....but Westcoast wouldn't know about that would they....🤔
Careful mate that’s a lot of noise for a team still allergic to silverware. West Coast may be down now, but we’ve got four cups to dust off. Freo? Might want to worry about Gold Coast pinching one before you even crack the seal on your trophy cabinet
 
Careful mate that’s a lot of noise for a team still allergic to silverware. West Coast may be down now, but we’ve got four cups to dust off. Freo? Might want to worry about Gold Coast pinching one before you even crack the seal on your trophy cabinet
I don't follow AFL but has been noticeable West Coast's losses.
 
I do it for a couple of reasons.

The first is definitely "addiction". I am a bit of a gym junkie, so I have always had relatively high testosterone levels, and my sexual drive is really high.

Add to that my wife having a very low libido, I do it to satisfy a need. Intimacy with a woman is one of the most important things in life. I've tried to go cold Turkey and it just makes it worse. My wife is hot, and I'm really attracted to her, but I'd rather not have a trophy wife that I rarely get to be intimate with. I'd prefer an uglier wife who had a high libido, honestly. 😂
 
Many seek brief escapades for the excitement and variety they lack in their current relationships and the fulfilment of unmet desires. Whether driven by curiosity or a quest for validation, the pursuit often serves as a temporary escape from deeper issues.
 
Interesting question.

Short answer, is because I can. However if I reflect upon the question a little deeper, for me there are a myriad of reasons.
I am no longer in a relationship and now choose not to pursue one, so there is the physical need aspects that are fulfilled by punting. However for me its not just the physical, need. I have somewhat of an eXhibitionist nature and enjoy the opportunity to be naked in front of a woman.

There is also the "social taboo" aspect that I find eXciting. As much as we are a liberated society there are still social norms that look down upon such endeavours.

I guess finally it is the transactional nature of punting that appeals, there is no underlying eXpectations by either party, no hidden agenda, purely a negotiated eXchange, which is not subject to repercussions.
 
I'm not good at relationships so I need touch and close eye contact. I also seek the stress reduction caused by the oxytocin released by sex. Oxytocin is the hormone that mammals use to organise stuff for surviving childbirth and to encourage relationships. I started seeing sex workers with a plan of learning to be better at sex for use elsewhere, but I haven't used it elsewhere yet.
 
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