This is a great post thanks for sharing. More grounded in reality than most posts I read.
I usually avoid the touring girls in any case. Anyone who's here to make a quick buck and leave is just not someone who's going to give the kind of service I look for.
Thank you, I appreciate that.
I understand why some gentlemen prefer to see local providers. In my case, though, touring isn't about making a quick dollar—it's about managing legal risk. In my home state SA, sex work is still not fully decriminalised, and as someone who owns a home, investment properties and mainstream businesses, I have far too much to lose by working locally. Touring interstate allows me to work in jurisdictions with different legal frameworks while protecting the life I've built. Plus being recognised in my own state. I have been outed online several times from my own social media because people know me from this industry. My service doesn't change because I'm touring. In fact, it would be a terrible business model to travel to different towns and provide a poor service. Regular gentlemen are your bread and butter, especially when times are slower, and I value the men who choose to see me again. I have many regular gentlemen in the towns I visit and a growing list of requests for places to return to.
Every provider has a different business model. Mine has always been centred on discretion, longer bookings, quality time and creating an experience that my regular clients return for. But there is no denying things have slowed for a variety of reasons
There are people that value class, discretion, maturity and quality that can't afford it. They're not necessarily just cheap skates or 'budget shopper's'.
I agree, and that’s a fair point. Not everyone who can’t afford higher rates is a cheapskate or a “budget shopper.” There are absolutely respectful, mature gentlemen who value class, discretion and quality but simply may not have the disposable income for longer or higher-end bookings.
My point was more about the difference between genuine respect for value, and those who try to haggle, push boundaries, or expect a luxury experience at a low-value price. Affordability and attitude are two very different things. At no point have I called anyone a cheap skate they are your words. I always say shop within your budget.
When men try to offer me half, or even a third of my asking price, I simply ask them: do you walk into Coles and tell them what you’re willing to pay? My rates are my rates. They reflect my time, experience, discretion, maturity and the quality of service I provide. I completely understand that not everyone can afford them, and there’s no judgment in that. But trying to haggle with a woman over the value of her time is not respectful.
After 20 years in this industry, I’ve earned my place, and I stand firmly behind what I offer.
I think we also need to be honest that within this industry, there are women who are working from very vulnerable places. Some may be dealing with addiction, financial desperation, coercion, trauma, or unsafe personal circumstances.
That is not said with judgment at all. It is said with compassion and awareness. There is a very big difference between a woman choosing this work from a place of stability, boundaries, and control, and a woman feeling like she has no real choice because she is trying to survive.
For me, that is why ethics, boundaries, safety, and standards matter so much in this industry.
am not here to please everyone, and I understand not everyone will agree with me. I will always stand by my truth, my ethics, and the way I choose to conduct my business.
I’m open to respectful debate, healthy conversation, and different perspectives. I just ask that it remains respectful and doesn’t become personal or targeted.
Now, let’s get back to the subject at hand
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