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When Does a Fetish Cross the Line??

Personally - a fetish crosses the line when animals (illegal and unnecessary I believe) or "children" come into it. Not schoolgirl costumes (you're right, that cancels 90% of red blooded males!) But when it's INCEST play or realistically roleplay and someone's underage, just NOPE! Nope, nope nope! (......although *she ponders* I guess it's better than the sickening alternative.....)
Others that concern me - the gang-rape fantasties I sometimes see advertised (mostly M4M), the Gay-bashing fetishes (makes me sad) and the one where people "risk" getting preggers?!?! Seriously? Play with fire.......
 
Two terms that help SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and the better RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink).
The problem with SSC is the sane word, who defines that in a heavy BDSM scene?
And safe is relative hence risk aware is better.

Clear limits, safe word etc. are needed, albeit the safe word can go if you have been working together for a while, i.e. the Dom and really read the sub and there is a still an extreme medical emergency signal.
 
Fettishes are all good and dandy as no one's physical or mental health is at serious risk. For me that'd mean things like blood play, needle play, knife play etc, As well as things like DDLG. Personally I'll be uncomfortable as soon as someone gets nappies and pacifiers out.
 
Find someone who is okay with your fetish needs, role play and fantasies....and hang onto them!

That said, some of the stuff described here makes my fetish look pretty tame by comparison.
 
A multi-agency investigation into people who purchase childlike sex dolls has led to a series of raids and the arrest of three NSW men.
Police allegedly discovered dolls dressed in children’s clothing in three raids in the Grafton area and in Sydney last week, and are now forensically analysing electronic devices for further offending.
The investigation began after Australian Border Force officers intercepted three separate importations of the dolls in April and March.

An investigative team was subsequently formed involving the ABF, Australian Federal Police and NSW police.
Purchases were then tracked through the Australian Transaction Reports and Analysis Centre’s Fintel Alliance, with the support of PayPal Australia and NSW police.
“These dolls sexualise children, they are not harmless and do not prevent people from offending in the future,” said AFP Assistant Commissioner Lesa Gale, from the Australian Centre to Counter Child Exploitation.
“Childlike sex dolls can desensitise people who use them to the physical, emotional and psychological harm caused by sexual abuse.”
 
So what do you do when a persons fetish crosses the line... What's the deal breaker for you??
What's your worst fetish encounter??

The Snail Man!

It was the most freaky booking I ever did. I have told some who I have worked with about it. I took a couple of days off after that booking. I was still pretty industry fresh (had only been in the industry as a WL for 2 years so still had much much much more to learn) and umm yep that booking was quite ummmm out there.
 
A multi-agency investigation into people who purchase childlike sex dolls has led to a series of raids and the arrest of three NSW men.
Police allegedly discovered dolls dressed in children’s clothing in three raids in the Grafton area and in Sydney last week, and are now forensically analysing electronic devices for further offending.
The investigation began after Australian Border Force officers intercepted three separate importations of the dolls in April and March.

An investigative team was subsequently formed involving the ABF, Australian Federal Police and NSW police.
Purchases were then tracked through the Australian Transaction Reports and Analysis Centre’s Fintel Alliance, with the support of PayPal Australia and NSW police.
“These dolls sexualise children, they are not harmless and do not prevent people from offending in the future,” said AFP Assistant Commissioner Lesa Gale, from the Australian Centre to Counter Child Exploitation.
“Childlike sex dolls can desensitise people who use them to the physical, emotional and psychological harm caused by sexual abuse.”

Bloody cops. Always bringing your fun to an end.
 
The Snail Man!

It was the most freaky booking I ever did. I have told some who I have worked with about it. I took a couple of days off after that booking. I was still pretty industry fresh (had only been in the industry as a WL for 2 years so still had much much much more to learn) and umm yep that booking was quite ummmm out there.
Call me naive
The Snail man?
 
Snail man - alias "Escargot Eddie".
After reading this thread, I've never felt more normal in my life :)
 
Hmmm,, When you wife finally finds out you wear her clothing... and you pray she won't mind....
 
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