lol,basically it is a Q about what the male expects from sex from the first promiscuous touch/feel to when he is up to his nuts in guts,his climax then finish,and vice versa about what she would expect from the first caress through into fore play,love making,her multiple orgasms to cuddles after and then sleep,its my way of learning ,hrough what others find sexy,then i might use some of the better ideas for myself so that i can be more pleasurable to her,i see it as a way to make myself a better lover.