What Do Men Really Think Of Girls That Fuck On First Dates?

[Happy2]

I often think the first through third date rule are a throwback (Im late 40's) to
Nice women Like our mothers etc Didn't do that sort of thing . And I want a girl
I could take home to visit her If Im saying it right I dont know
But now we have a new generation who just have a different view on how the should
live their own lives And so the perception is changing Though probably slower than I thought it would
Or I'm just jealous when I was 20 it was just that much harder to get a girl
to put out on a first date

 

[msmagdelena]

Why would someone want someone to make them jump through hoops???? That's just pure psychological game playing, and has no place in relationships. Adult ones, that is. Children are into that stuff, leave it to them. If you don't want sex on the first date, don't bloody ask for it. Simple really.

Well said sweet heart... you make me laugh with your abrasive candor... much like myself.

regards,
Ms M

 

[sexycrystal]

depends on how good of a lay you are , and if you can rock his world tehehehehe me I have never had a complaint so there you go .... And may I say I always get asked out for a second date mwah mwah xoxoxo

 

[Castro]

I will have to agree that child's play should be left to children. If sex is going to happen it will happen, 1st date or not.I wouldn't judge a girls' character based on a first date fuck. That's really an old idea, there is more to see in a person's character beyond fucking them.Sex is just that, sex, don't overthink things!

 

[wcmonger]

I had sex with Chanel & Lillian Tan on first date. I still love them both!!!!!!!!!!!

I would have been a little distressed if they both said no !!!!!

Does that count??????????

 

[Jasmine69]

Personally I think that the guy should take what he says about the girl and go look in a mirror and say it about himself also as it takes two to fuck on first date and most of the time the guy is the one that makes the move...... That's my thoughts:-X:nono::love10::icon_blow:la:

 

[crazytuna]

If the chemistry is there it shouldn't be an issue. It's what happens next on both parts that counts.

 

[grimlock]

I don't think it cheapens my opinion of the person at all. I know that I am a very sexually minded person and meeting somebody with the same mindset is what I would want. would make for a more relaxed second date too

 

[Saige]

Im sorry but I need to correct you here, no girl sacked from City West has ever been asked to come back.

We have certainly had girls ask to come back after being told to leave. Im glad it worked out for you and you were able to continue seeing her.

I agree that from a business and ethics stand point you should not take a "companys" client as a "private"..would not be tolerated in other industries.

I worked at City West for some time and never heard of anyone being sacked for this....I do believe it is acceptable to suspend for a short time or restrict certain shifts as punishment....if verbal warnign not sufficient. The treatment from Mandy, Lyn (big love) and other receptionist was very good at CW I thought....very caring and family like!!! Yes sometimes girls are let go but punters make sure you are getting the full factual story...as there could have been a alot of other reasons factoring in on the situation.

As for the cuts of establishments...its is a hard one as..it costs money to run a business and it all adds up...yes the girls are doing the actaul job..but this is the way/where they have choosen to work...as it works for them..the house provides safe premises and the clients and roster to suit your lifestyle needs...the girl does the rest...that is how it works!!!

Yes the brothel working girls would love a larger cut but not at the expense of keeping the house standard of cleanliness, presentation and maybe even having fewer places of work to choose from as the operators cannot survive financially....and I know clients dont want to pay more money...

However the houses/operators then MUST ensure that the basic standards and the houses standard of cleanliness and presentation is upkept...so ensuring some of those profits are reinvested to upkeep the standard of the place...this benifits the company and the girls...it is not acceptable when they take 40% plus shift fee and the place is not upkept to suitable standards!!!! I had a client lose a cufflink under the bed, he knelt down to pick up and the dirt etc under the bed looked like it had not been clean in months...how embarressing for all parties, that as a standard house does not supply mouth wash or anti bactirial spray for beds after shift is WRONG.

I also believe that it is a house responsibility to assist WL to be better workers with training, assisted marketing/self promotion..also better training of receptionist on how to "sell" & better cusomter service skills.

Why does CW not provide girls with computers for forum....after all when they bring clients in from here benifts you finacially...doesnt make sense??

 

[Saige]

also...the girls would not tollerate from other girls if they stole a client from them...with full intent...so why different to to steal from operator???

 

[Madam Jacqui]

Even when a W/L takes a client, sooner or later they do come back. Clients do get tired and need a change unless they want something more, like a relationship.And this is from experience. Thanks, Lisa. xxxxx

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

Well I disagree with all of you...which isn't unusual.
The client or guest as I prefer owns the right of where he is spending his money.
If he like a particular lady he will follow her.
I prefer the private ladies (they are self employed business woman) who work with Langtrees to keep where possible their own contact with the clients.
40% of the ladies will never take a guest as private
20% of ladies will always do whats best for her at the time (these ones usually get caught when the client rings and says she is late)
40% will sit on the fence, meaning if management is good and fair, they will keep the client in the system, if they have a don't care attitude which we all get to at times she will do a bit of both.
I allow ladies to have work mobiles so that regulars can call them and they also use these to communicate with new clients. To date not enough have bothered, but the ladies that do seem to, respect themselves and there business more.
If a lady organizes a private for off shift I take a much lower percentage and still give her the protection if out on a escort. If they wish they can bring client in house and do not have to do a full shift.
We I came back one year ago Lillian Tan and I started the first Langtrees private relationship, where she worked three days from home in the day shift and two nights at Langtrees. This is good for the ladies that like the adventure at night, as most privates only feel safe in the daytime or the early evening hours. It is also helps take away the isolation feeling that the privates often get.
Back to the guest, most like variety, and a sex interlude needs a bit of mystery which is why most have a multiple selection.To expect one to eat the same thing day in and day out would make life boring.
This should be the same for the ladies as well, they need to experience different places and management systems.
I often used to say to the ladies which was better Happy haven of Langtrees. They used to yell Langtrees of course.My reply was I worked at Happy Haven for one afternoon and did 8 clients back to back (I was there for an interview)
and whilst there system didn't suit myself, it certainly suited lots of guests and ladies. I remember Happy Haven with goodwill of what it taught me. When I had the chance of a business I knew no one can cater for the whole market place, and decided that if I went for the top 40% I would have less dramas. To offer the service and back up I wanted I needed to have a higher margin but not necessarily a higher profit.
My research told me that I would have to spend a certain percentage of the turnover for advertising and marketing to maintain my percentage of the market place.
Now days after my three holiday I have decided that my best position in the market place is to train the ladies to be independent and then if things don't work out over personalities, or reliability, they still have choices.It also gives me a fresh variety of ladies which in the long run is easier as when woman work together for a long time together, familarity starts to cause problems and we then get to involved in their personal lives and dramas.
We all have problems in life, I feel it is better to train the ladies to accept responsibility for their own lives and when it is time to move on to full private it can be done with goodwill.

 

[Farm Boy]

That was very enlightening Maryanne how long ago was that ( year) who interviewed You and did you ever meet Mary Howard and why only one shift

 

[colzilla]

I haven't had a good run lately. Excellent W/L's either retiring or getting the sack.
Until recently I was a regular with a more mature W/L at La cherie.
Saw her plenty of times and she was great at her job and she was a lovely woman and we got on very well.
I rang up to make a booking for her and was told that she no longer worked there as she had been sacked for being to old. "Just a little to old for this industry" is what the receptionist said.
I was flabbergasted. WTF.
Went into La Che a week later. Made a booking for a (younger) W/L that I also see. The two W/L's are both good friends.
Management know me well as a regular. Madam can recognise my voice on the phone.
Exchanged the usual pleasantries with reception. We got talking and I did a little probing.
All smiles and laughs "Seriously mate you have absolutely no idea what goes on behind the scenes in a place like this".
The mind boggles as to what really goes on in an establishment.
In the booking with the younger W/L we got chatting. Got some gossip.
Who knows what to believe. Two sides to every story.
Always seemed like one big happy family everytime I've been to La Che.
My loyalty belongs with the W/L.

 

[Farm Boy]

Well I disagree with all of you...which isn't unusual.
The client or guest as I prefer owns the right of where he is spending his money.
If he like a particular lady he will follow her.
I prefer the private ladies (they are self employed business woman) who work with Langtrees to keep where possible their own contact with the clients.
40% of the ladies will never take a guest as private
20% of ladies will always do whats best for her at the time (these ones usually get caught when the client rings and says she is late)
40% will sit on the fence, meaning if management is good and fair, they will keep the client in the system, if they have a don't care attitude which we all get to at times she will do a bit of both.
I allow ladies to have work mobiles so that regulars can call them and they also use these to communicate with new clients. To date not enough have bothered, but the ladies that do seem to, respect themselves and there business more.
If a lady organizes a private for off shift I take a much lower percentage and still give her the protection if out on a escort. If they wish they can bring client in house and do not have to do a full shift.
We I came back one year ago Lillian Tan and I started the first Langtrees private relationship, where she worked three days from home in the day shift and two nights at Langtrees. This is good for the ladies that like the adventure at night, as most privates only feel safe in the daytime or the early evening hours. It is also helps take away the isolation feeling that the privates often get.
Back to the guest, most like variety, and a sex interlude needs a bit of mystery which is why most have a multiple selection.To expect one to eat the same thing day in and day out would make life boring.
This should be the same for the ladies as well, they need to experience different places and management systems.
I often used to say to the ladies which was better Happy haven of Langtrees. They used to yell Langtrees of course.My reply was I worked at Happy Haven for one afternoon and did 8 clients back to back (I was there for an interview)
and whilst there system didn't suit myself, it certainly suited lots of guests and ladies. I remember Happy Haven with goodwill of what it taught me. When I had the chance of a business I knew no one can cater for the whole market place, and decided that if I went for the top 40% I would have less dramas. To offer the service and back up I wanted I needed to have a higher margin but not necessarily a higher profit.
My research told me that I would have to spend a certain percentage of the turnover for advertising and marketing to maintain my percentage of the market place.
Now days after my three holiday I have decided that my best position in the market place is to train the ladies to be independent and then if things don't work out over personalities, or reliability, they still have choices.It also gives me a fresh variety of ladies which in the long run is easier as when woman work together for a long time together, familarity starts to cause problems and we then get to involved in their personal lives and dramas.
We all have problems in life, I feel it is better to train the ladies to accept responsibility for their own lives and when it is time to move on to full private it can be done with goodwill.

I also am interested , please tell more Maryanne about your first last and only Happy Haven combat mission ( bloke I know has fond recollections of this place )

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

The year was 1983,(August) no I never meet Mary, and I didn't like the pokeiness of the place and preferred escort work so went to work with Sue Devereaux and ended up buying it 6 weeks later.

 

[AmyMonroe]

I have worked both privately and for a couple of parlours here in Adelaide - from my viewpoint, I didnt advertise to the parlour clients I worked privately, and only took private bookings from clients who contacted me via my website or other advertising I had.

I also found that the majority of clients I saw in the parlour simply were not the type of client who would book my services privately as I cater for an entirely different market privately (extended bookings, dinner and play, overnight, travel etc), so I never saw it as a conflict of interest.

Since working privately, I have referred many client enquiries to places I have worked when it was clear they were interested in booking a standard parlour type service.

So I think in my case even if go back to doing a few shifts at a parlour there is no way I would be poaching clients, as especially here in Adel, brothel clients tend not to book privates for extended bookings anyway - they usually dont book longer than 30mins to an hour at brothel, and my min private bookings are 1.5-2 hours

Amy

 

[Picworm]

I would definitely say age could be a factor for my answer, younger girl 18 for example may feel she has to which is wrong.

Older girls i feel its normal these days connections start in many ways if sx draws two people together thats what worked for that couple thats how they found their soul mate

 

[tracking2011]

This is what all men want anyway, why bother to ask...

 

[sexnut]

I'd probably try and go straight for desert underneath the restaurant table....:la:

 

[Perth boy]

Absolutely no way. I find if a girl fucks on the first date she is not the girl for me.

However if money changes hands its a hole new ball game.

In saying all that I havent been on a no money changes hands date for about 20 years.

 

[whilom]

Hey babe that's it in a nutshell.
With you all the way.

On the other hand what do girls think of Guys that fuck on a first date??

 

[Maxxy]

Men who think like this are fucktards.

Exactly Alecia - I can never figure out guys that think a girl is cheap or a slut if she is willing to have sex on the first date. Some girls are out for a bit of fun at times just like guys are so for me there is very little difference and if the girl and guy click then why not enjoy the night together. I reckon many a serious relationship has developed after a rollicking good one night stand.

 

[Happy2]

Maybe its just throwback My old man is the typical Catholic hypocrite in this
To the sons it was Go out and experience the world while your young Get it all out of your system F*** yourself silly Then come home and marry a nice girl
Woe betide any bloke who came to collect little sister for a date though.

 

[Langtrees VIP Perth 2]

I've always been a bit curious about the male general consensus on what punters prefer in general... Is you coming to us more popular or do you prefer the lady to come and visit you?

I suppose there are pro's and con's on both sides?

If a lady comes to you, at least you get to roll over and go to sleep... Seems to be a pretty popular after sex activity (or lack of activity)

If you come to us you have the choice of lady, rather than us pick the lady based on what you tell us you're after (although, I'm particularly good at this, so no need to really worry about that one if you talk to me! ;-)

If the lady comes to you there's no worry about driving after a few drinks, or waiting around for a taxi each way? Both could be an issue at this time of year especially?

If you come to us it can also be more of a social event...can have a beverage, a chat with the ladies, a game of pool?

So, what are your views? Pro's...? Con's...?

Lisa xxx

 

[wingman]

Yet to partake in either, but would never do inhouse. Would definitely prefer home delivery

 

[happytimes]

I wanted to click both,Did i do it wrong or can you only pick one? 50, 50

 

[Demon]

In-house, I like to meet and talk with ladies first.

 

[Gentleman]

I do inhouse for two reasons, first I get to have a chat with the lady before the booking and second it is cheaper. It's already expensive enough without having to fork out more money for the lady to be taken to me.

 

[Madam M]

I do inhouse for two reasons, first I get to have a chat with the lady before the booking and second it is cheaper. It's already expensive enough without having to fork out more money for the lady to be taken to me.

Cheaper is it? I wonder which place it is and what you are paying there, Gentleman?? Hmmmmm...

When I have pizza I generally have it delivered,

So many pros and cons, we could brainstorm for hours!


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