• If you are having any problems posting threads plz message Kate. since latest update we have had 6 members with problems, sorted those but yet to find the problem.

W/L and Punters please please read.

P

Perth boy

A W/L (and forum member) sent a text to me very late Monday night. The text was possibly sent to all her clients. It read HI DARLING ITS ******* I HAVE NOW MOVED AND NOW AT ************ Unprofessional!

Well as the text was sent in the middle of the night and my daughter was not home yet so my wife got up and checked to see if it was my daughter texting me. NOT GOOD.

My wife went through my phone bills yesterday and found a few phone calls and texts from this W/L’S number. The wife then called this W/L wanting to know why she was in contact with me. She threatens the W/L and said she will come to the address on the text she sent if she did not tell her what she was doing.

******** told my wife who she was.

Girls you need to be very careful when sending texts to clients and I know most of you are.

For the punters that have a partner at home this goes to show how important it is to have another sim card. I used my normal phone. My stuff up.

Any girls that have my number on your phone can you please delete it in case you accidently send me a text.

I don’t know how the W/L react when receiving a call from a clients wife I would hope most would be professional.

Discretion is number one.

Punting = I took the punt and it’s my problem.


Regards a very in the shit Perth boy!
 
Perth Boy, Horrors......I have always been very aware of this sought of thing...... a while ago I received a call from a WL wanting to drum up business...... I was very upset with her and wondered what would have happened if SHMBO answered in my absence.
I am checking my phone now for any messages.
 
Worst nightmare and absolutely unacceptable behaviour from a WL. Thanks for taking the time to share.

A very good reason NOT to use your real name when visiting a WL (at least then you have some chance of claiming it was a spam SMS or a wrong number!). And just for the record, they do occur....
 
Hi Perthboy, not very good at all when your married. Can i ask was she a private escort or sent from an agency?
Either way she should of asked you was it ok to text you at all.
Put it down to a lesson you never want to experience again, i only hope you have worked things out with your wife.
There is a fine line between love and lust, hopefully your wife believes you that you do love her. Good luck anyhow. H.T.:
 
happytimes said:
Hi Perthboy, not very good at all when your married. Can i ask was she a private escort or sent from an agency?
Either way she should of asked you was it ok to text you at all.
Put it down to a lesson you never want to experience again, i only hope you have worked things out with your wife.
There is a fine line between love and lust, hopefully your wife believes you that you do love her. Good luck anyhow. H.T.:
Click to expand...

Although I am very pissed offffff I would rather not say who she is in a public forum.

She knows she stuffed up.
 
Good luck PB, I get the feeling your going to need it...

Is she on this forum? Name and fucking shame if you ask me. Sunyun was hung and quartered for far less.


Trust me i know how tight things are in recent months but Chanel summed it up a few weeks ago perfectly. Discretion, discretion, discretion.
 
Perth boy said:
A W/L (and forum member) sent a text to me very late Monday night. The text was possibly sent to all her clients. It read HI DARLING ITS ******* I HAVE NOW MOVED AND NOW AT ************ Unprofessional!

Well as the text was sent in the middle of the night and my daughter was not home yet so my wife got up and checked to see if it was my daughter texting me. NOT GOOD.

My wife went through my phone bills yesterday and found a few phone calls and texts from this W/L’S number. The wife then called this W/L wanting to know why she was in contact with me. She threatens the W/L and said she will come to the address on the text she sent if she did not tell her what she was doing.

******** told my wife who she was.

Girls you need to be very careful when sending texts to clients and I know most of you are.

For the punters that have a partner at home this goes to show how important it is to have another sim card. I used my normal phone. My stuff up.

Any girls that have my number on your phone can you please delete it in case you accidently send me a text.

I don’t know how the W/L react when receiving a call from a clients wife I would hope most would be professional.

Discretion is number one.

Punting = I took the punt and it’s my problem.


Regards a very in the shit Perth boy!
Click to expand...

VERY STUPID when Discretion is our business and what a client pays for.

TO THE MORONS OUT THERE WHO NEED TO TEXT CLIENTS, THIS IS ONE I USE FOR MISSED CALLS OR LATE REPLIES:
"Are you going to the game tonight?"

- That's code for, "Need a fuck? or How can I help you?" - Let them come back to you and start the conversation, is someone scrolls through a client's messages, most WAGs will tune out of texts regarding sports and you pass yourself off as a workmate and you maintain your client's discretion and sneak through the WAG radar. Texts along this theme always work without fail and have always been complimented from clients on "my style" when it comes to texting this way if there's ever a need to (which there shouldnt). Otherwise - No excuse for this.

But as a general rule - never SMS clients first, when they do, you know the coast is clear and you can talk freely...
 
Last edited by a moderator:
WRXXXR said:
Good luck PB, I get the feeling your going to need it...

Is she on this forum? Name and fucking shame if you ask me. Sunyun was hung and quartered for far less.


Trust me i know how tight things are in recent months but Chanel summed it up a few weeks ago perfectly. Discretion, discretion, discretion.
Click to expand...

WRXXXR I am not going to name her because I do practice Discretion, discretion, discretion as Chanel put it.
 
Guys, for the price and availability of prepaid mobiles, get a second "fun" phone FFS!

Leave it at work, wherever, but don't bring it home!

I'm only a single guy, but have never used my normal phone, and never will. When I've had enough of this game I want to be able to put it behind me with no chance of any "unwanted texts or calls".

Also comes in handy for the randoms you want to give a number to on friday night, or when you've gotta put your number out there for whatever reason, selling a car etc etc.
 
Perth boy said:
Although I am very pissed offffff I would rather not say who she is in a public forum.

She knows she stuffed up.
Click to expand...
Hi Again, i wasn't really interested in her name or who she worked for, the reason i asked is if she is a private escort she will obviously have your nmb.
Though if she works for an Escort agency she shouldn't have exsess to your number, as has been said it's supposed to be discreet.

I know it happened to me by a girl from an agency (not that i was married at the time, i was single, it was just at a very akward time) and when i rang the Madame who i knew, she said to me the Lady should not of had my nmb and worked out it was given to her by a receptionist.
That was my point for asking not for her name, as you say whats done is done, i just hope for you it worked out ok for you. H.T.
 
Perth boy said:
A W/L (and forum member) sent a text to me very late Monday night. The text was possibly sent to all her clients. It read HI DARLING ITS ******* I HAVE NOW MOVED AND NOW AT ************ Unprofessional!

Well as the text was sent in the middle of the night and my daughter was not home yet so my wife got up and checked to see if it was my daughter texting me. NOT GOOD.

My wife went through my phone bills yesterday and found a few phone calls and texts from this W/L’S number. The wife then called this W/L wanting to know why she was in contact with me. She threatens the W/L and said she will come to the address on the text she sent if she did not tell her what she was doing.

******** told my wife who she was.

Girls you need to be very careful when sending texts to clients and I know most of you are.

For the punters that have a partner at home this goes to show how important it is to have another sim card. I used my normal phone. My stuff up.

Any girls that have my number on your phone can you please delete it in case you accidently send me a text.

I don’t know how the W/L react when receiving a call from a clients wife I would hope most would be professional.

Discretion is number one.

Punting = I took the punt and it’s my problem.


Regards a very in the shit Perth boy!
Click to expand...

Perth boy whom every she is she should know better discretion is everything and im sure she wouldnt have liked it if you msged her so late and she was at home with her partner ect if she does have one .. but that is not professional to send that sort of msg at all and that late as well is completly unacceptable i hope you and your wife and working things out all the best perth guy ....
 
Sorry Perth boy but you deserve everything you get..

I didn't realise you were married, but if you are visiting W/L's behind your wife's back, you are a worthless f***.

Don't even make excuses for that sh*t.
 
Unbelievable how stupid some w/ls are, are they so desperate for business that they have total disregard for discretion?


Perth boy said:
I don’t know how the W/L react when recieving a call from a clients wife- i would hope most would be professional.
Click to expand...

I have recieved the odd phonecall from a clients wife who has usually found my number on their patrners phone bill or in their pocket. I usually just say that no i dont know who x is and they must have the wrong number. Its then up to the client to come up with an explanation.
 
~Dragons_Princess~ said:
...I didn't realise you were married, but if you are visiting W/L's behind your wife's back, you are a worthless f***...
Click to expand...

...DP, your post would suggest that all punters are either single or, if married, have their wife's consent? I don't think you have thought that post through and, if you did, then with respect I don't think you are aware of the client base in this industry as a whole.

Fudd
 
I got a text aswell from a popular girl last nite who used to work at a massage place in GE hwy. PM aswell. This girl thinks everyone likes her. I could be from her pimp!
 
Fudd said:
...DP, your post would suggest that all punters are either single or, if married, have their wife's consent? I don't think you have thought that post through and, if you did, then with respect I don't think you are aware of the client base in this industry as a whole.

Fudd
Click to expand...

No, my post would suggest that I find it disgusting that a married man would be visiting prostitutes.. Unless ofcourse, his wife was aware and ok with it (as unlikely as that would be)...

As somebody who has been cheated on, I consider anybody who cheats as one of the lowest forms of life on this planet.

If you cannot remain faithful, don't ruin somebody else's life and commit yourself to them in marriage, if you simply must sleep with other women, get a divorce, cheating is nothing short of f*cking selfish and says a LOT about a person as a whole.

If you are married and visiting W/L's, you are scum, simple as that, you are wasting somebody else's life and costing them time that they could be finding somebody who is genuinely faithful and committed to them.
 
JadeTV said:
VERY STUPID when Discretion is our business and what a client pays for.

TO THE MORONS OUT THERE WHO NEED TO TEXT CLIENTS, THIS IS ONE I USE FOR MISSED CALLS OR LATE REPLIES:
"Are you going to the game tonight?"

- That's code for, "Need a fuck? or How can I help you?" - Let them come back to you and start the conversation, is someone scrolls through a client's messages, most WAGs will tune out of texts regarding sports and you pass yourself off as a workmate and you maintain your client's discretion and sneak through the WAG radar. Texts along this theme always work without fail and have always been complimented from clients on "my style" when it comes to texting this way if there's ever a need to (which there shouldnt). Otherwise - No excuse for this.

But as a general rule - never SMS clients first, when they do, you know the coast is clear and you can talk freely...
Click to expand...

DP - assuming clients are single is a bit of a far stretch... I think that's the appeal with clients, no emotional content wrapped in hot physical sex - though I prefer not to know about the wife/girlfriend as I'd rather dodge the bad karma where possible hahahhaha. I have always though that as the technicality as to whether using the W/L is cheating - its very anonymous (first name basis), there's light conversation and really, is that a reason to to jeopardise a longterm relationship? It my eyes, it doesn't count...

Main point tho - let the punter message first, cant stress enough... this is a bit off topic now hahahha
 
I only punt while single :D If I have to punt while in a relationship then I would get out of that relationship.

Hope it all sorts itself out PBoy. Hope the w/l has learned her lesson.

I think I know who this is lol

Dragon - I am of the same view as you, I was cheated on aswell and personally could never hurt some one like that so if I were in a relationship, I wouldn't be punting. I would love it if the girl and I could punt together for 3some fun :love10:
 
~Dragons_Princess~ said:
No, my post would suggest that I find it disgusting that a married man would be visiting prostitutes.. Unless ofcourse, his wife was aware and ok with it (as unlikely as that would be)...

As somebody who has been cheated on, I consider anybody who cheats as one of the lowest forms of life on this planet.

If you cannot remain faithful, don't ruin somebody else's life and commit yourself to them in marriage, if you simply must sleep with other women, get a divorce, cheating is nothing short of f*cking selfish and says a LOT about a person as a whole.

If you are married and visiting W/L's, you are scum, simple as that, you are wasting somebody else's life and costing them time that they could be finding somebody who is genuinely faithful and committed to them.
Click to expand...

DP I understand what you are saying but many married guys see w/l for one reason or another. Ask any W/L. I was cheated on in my first marrage and I moved on. I do understand.

However now I am in long term relationship and have a great marrage better than most people. So why do I see a W/L every now and again. I had to make a decission a few years ago do I leave the girl I love so much so I can have more sex or do I stay in a great sexless relationship with my best friend and see a W/L with no attachment. I would never have a girl on the side and w/l was a good option for me.

Sorry if you dont agree.
 
Wow Dragon Princess - it would be nice if everything in the world really was black or white like you seem to think it is. Unfortunately, where personal relationships are involved, it's a lot more complex than that.
 
Least it'll be warm and probably a lot more fun than heaven :D

I hope no one takes offence to this but are these predominately Asian w/l?
 
Wow, I had that happen once and it wasn't a W/L just a friend and the ex went ballistic. Needless to say glad I'm single and free to do as I please.
 
~Dragons_Princess~ said:
No, my post would suggest that I find it disgusting that a married man would be visiting prostitutes.. Unless ofcourse, his wife was aware and ok with it (as unlikely as that would be)...

As somebody who has been cheated on, I consider anybody who cheats as one of the lowest forms of life on this planet.

If you cannot remain faithful, don't ruin somebody else's life and commit yourself to them in marriage, if you simply must sleep with other women, get a divorce, cheating is nothing short of f*cking selfish and says a LOT about a person as a whole.

If you are married and visiting W/L's, you are scum, simple as that, you are wasting somebody else's life and costing them time that they could be finding somebody who is genuinely faithful and committed to them.
Click to expand...

:BangHead: FFS, with an attitude like yours, you totally give other professional sex workers a bad name. Honestly if you feel like that about clients with partners, YOU should NOT be working in this industry.

Do everyone a favour and get out of it, as its very clear you are unsuited for being a sex worker.

Amy
 
lateralthinker said:
the morals and the ethics in this thread , are amazing !!

we are all going to hell !! lol
j
Click to expand...

Thought we were in hell and supposed to go up to somewhere better,(Heaven) mmm still haven't quiet worked that one out. No offence to anyone and i am not serious, but on a serious note i don't think anyone has the right to judge anybody, whether married or not.

Maybe alot of marriages would last if guys did see the occasional W/L instead of having a full on affair, and vice versa. At least 99% of the time it's only lust not love and that's what P.B is saying, the way i see it.
We don't live in the perfect world and never will, well maybe theres a few exceptional people.
 
AmyMonroe said:
:BangHead: FFS, with an attitude like yours, you totally give other professional sex workers a bad name. Honestly if you feel like that about clients with partners, YOU should NOT be working in this industry.

Do everyone a favour and get out of it, as its very clear you are unsuited for being a sex worker.

Amy
Click to expand...

Amy I am sure Dragon Princes is a somewhat idealistic young woman and not working in the sex industry. also when giving Perth Boy a rev up did not realise WLs would be ticked off.
 
I agree with Amy.

Try and imagine what sort of punt it would be if you were with Dragon Princess and you let slip you were married!
 
wagin said:
I agree with Amy.

Try and imagine what sort of punt it would be if you were with Dragon Princess and you let slip you were married!
Click to expand...

I can't imagine the topic of relationships coming up on a punt.
 
Dragons Princess

Your post rocked me to the core - so much anger and venom.

You made me feel like a real s••t for just thinking about seeing a W/L.

Tell me DP, what if you've committed your life to someone and given them every possible thing you can possibly give - be it in material items, a secure home environment and all the love and respect you can muster and to you "cheating" for all those years has been an anathema and you've avoided all the cheap "opportunities" that have come your way - work colleagues, business trips friend's amorous partners, christmas parties etc etc.

What if your own sexual desire burns so strongly but you find that you and your life partner are in ever diverging sexual and physical time zones.

Do you simply just give up your own life and take up bowls or the like, just to find that your desires gnaw at your innards until you become bitter and resentful to all around you.

W/Ls are professionals who if any good at their role enjoy what they do and create an opportunity for their clients to escape for a fleeting moment in time without complications. Is that really "cheating"? Or is it just a way to retain a sane existence that doesn't threaten every other aspect of your family life around you.

Also DP, it may be that you are bitter about your own experiences in life and I am really sorry that bad things have happened to you. But you need to be less insular in your approach to such things and there are many situations and circumstances in life that are complex and this topic is one of them.

Finally, "Prostitutes" might be a generic term covering the service providers you refer to. However, that word has in time developed a socially negative connotation and dehumanises the persons tagged with it. From what I have learnt through my time on this site, the great majority of the W/Ls who participate in this site are real and generous people who deserve the description "ladies".
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top