Last Saturday night, was our company Christmas party.
We all met up at a hotel. Many people brought their partners/kids with them.
I was one of the few people there that is single.
There is this lady at work – who is also single, and we have sort of been very friendly at work but other than chatting, we have had no interaction.
Anyway, I found myself seated next to Jane (not her real name) and we really got on very well.
I am guessing an abundance of alcohol had something to do with that.
The evening festivities had started at 6:00pm and by 9:30 most people had gone home.
Jane and I, together with another married couple were finally asked to leave some time after mid-night.
Jane asked me if I could drive her home as she had got a taxi to the hotel. **
Being a proper gentleman I agreed.
The weird thing is that even up to this point I never even considered that anything would happen between us.
Anyway, on the way home she started becoming ”affectionate” – nothing serious but certainly enough for me to start considering that the evening wasn’t quite over yet.
When we arrived at her place, we sat in the car and chatted a while and then she asked me if I wanted to come into her house for a coffee.
I should just stress this point – both of us had way too much to drink during the evening, and I don’t drink coffee.
Nonetheless, I decided to join her inside for the coffee. Of course the coffee never materialised but I did soon find myself giving her a back rub.( Her shirt and bra had come off a bit earlier).
While I was tickling/massaging her back (and surrounding areas), I gave the whole situation some thought (And yes – I was thinking with my head and not with my dick).
I realised we were both pretty wasted and I really didn’t want to have any “issues” at work. I thought that if we were to have an evening of wild passionate steamy hot sex, we should both make that decision when our judgement was less “clouded”
And it would seem as though this is where I f#cked up.
By this time it was almost 2:00 am. We were both pretty tired and I suggested that we would reconsider this whole situation in the morning. (BTW - this lady is hot - she has legs that go on forever and has an extremely sexy butt).
Anyway, almost a week has since gone by and I can say that despite my very best efforts, the only interaction that we have had is a few phone calls and swapping of text messages,
In fact, things seem to have completely unraveled since last week and she has made it pretty clear that the chances of anything further happening are not good.
So my question is: On the night, should I have listened to my dick or was I correct to think with my head?
(It's going to be a hard sell to try and convince me that I did the right thing).
** - Yes, I am aware that I should not have driven home
We all met up at a hotel. Many people brought their partners/kids with them.
I was one of the few people there that is single.
There is this lady at work – who is also single, and we have sort of been very friendly at work but other than chatting, we have had no interaction.
Anyway, I found myself seated next to Jane (not her real name) and we really got on very well.
I am guessing an abundance of alcohol had something to do with that.
The evening festivities had started at 6:00pm and by 9:30 most people had gone home.
Jane and I, together with another married couple were finally asked to leave some time after mid-night.
Jane asked me if I could drive her home as she had got a taxi to the hotel. **
Being a proper gentleman I agreed.
The weird thing is that even up to this point I never even considered that anything would happen between us.
Anyway, on the way home she started becoming ”affectionate” – nothing serious but certainly enough for me to start considering that the evening wasn’t quite over yet.
When we arrived at her place, we sat in the car and chatted a while and then she asked me if I wanted to come into her house for a coffee.
I should just stress this point – both of us had way too much to drink during the evening, and I don’t drink coffee.
Nonetheless, I decided to join her inside for the coffee. Of course the coffee never materialised but I did soon find myself giving her a back rub.( Her shirt and bra had come off a bit earlier).
While I was tickling/massaging her back (and surrounding areas), I gave the whole situation some thought (And yes – I was thinking with my head and not with my dick).
I realised we were both pretty wasted and I really didn’t want to have any “issues” at work. I thought that if we were to have an evening of wild passionate steamy hot sex, we should both make that decision when our judgement was less “clouded”
And it would seem as though this is where I f#cked up.
By this time it was almost 2:00 am. We were both pretty tired and I suggested that we would reconsider this whole situation in the morning. (BTW - this lady is hot - she has legs that go on forever and has an extremely sexy butt).
Anyway, almost a week has since gone by and I can say that despite my very best efforts, the only interaction that we have had is a few phone calls and swapping of text messages,
In fact, things seem to have completely unraveled since last week and she has made it pretty clear that the chances of anything further happening are not good.
So my question is: On the night, should I have listened to my dick or was I correct to think with my head?
(It's going to be a hard sell to try and convince me that I did the right thing).
** - Yes, I am aware that I should not have driven home
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