how long can we go without sex?

[Dakota Cameron]

thats one of my questions? For working ladies and for clients. For everyone. What is a normal amount of sex to have? How many times per week is it considered healthy to masturbate? What if you went from having a lot of sex to almost no sex? Can such a dramatic change have an impact? does life become more boring without sex?

 

[Terti]

Women can have a dry spell for years and years and be 100% ok with it. I know heaps of women who just can’t be bothered having sex .Men need sex though at least twice a week.

 

[22 Blue]

I have hungry sex drive and need sex on a regular basis. On average I have sex about five times a week, I am fortunate to have quite a few girl friends and seem to be popular, it is not always down to sex personality and being nice person is important

 

[Terti]

I have hungry sex drive and need sex on a regular basis. On average I have sex about five times a week, I am fortunate to have quite a few girl friends and seem to be popular, it is not always down to sex personality and being nice person is important

How many women do you have on rotation, do they all know about each other ?

 

[22 Blue]

I have four girls two are from my gym and the other two don't know but I did tell them that I'm seeing other women. Two of the girls date me so I'm quite fortunate

 

[baal6007]

I once went about 2 years without sex. I'm not going to pretend I enjoyed it but i survived.

 

[pause78]

thats one of my questions? For working ladies and for clients. For everyone. What is a normal amount of sex to have? How many times per week is it considered healthy to masturbate? What if you went from having a lot of sex to almost no sex? Can such a dramatic change have an impact? does life become more boring without sex?

Great question! Have been struggling with a key word of that, “normal”, because for a part of my life I’ve been told (directly and indirectly through societal norms) that my desires were monstrous.

I have ranges, at the higher end I’ll masturbate twice in the morning, at the office, and two or three times in the evenings. The lower range is two or three times a day.

As it happens this week I’ve gone 7 days without masturbating at all, the first 2 days were really hard but now I’m at an acceptable level of craving. In some ways it’s like a drug detox.

 

[MistressBetty]

Women can have a dry spell for years and years and be 100% ok with it. I know heaps of women who just can’t be bothered having sex .Men need sex though at least twice a week.

I agree. I'm fine with a dry spell haha it's not a necessity for women. I think we just crave intimacy like cuddles and attention

 

[pause78]

I’m a bit like the old joke:

Guy goes to the doctor and gets told “You’ll need to stop masturbating”, he asks why and the doc replies “Because I’m trying to examine you”

 

[Historian]

2 minutes.

 

[saucy]

One week...tops

 

[Terti]

Personality seems to be

I have four girls two are from my gym and the other two don't know but I did tell them that I'm seeing other women. Two of the girls date me so I'm quite fortunate

wow four is impressive , do the women ever ask if you are sleeping with others , or don’t think to ask this , I guess you are not leading them on saying you are seeing other girls .

 

[Terti]

Great question! Have been struggling with a key word of that, “normal”, because for a part of my life I’ve been told (directly and indirectly through societal norms) that my desires were monstrous.

I have ranges, at the higher end I’ll masturbate twice in the morning, at the office, and two or three times in the evenings. The lower range is two or three times a day.

As it happens this week I’ve gone 7 days without masturbating at all, the first 2 days were really hard but now I’m at an acceptable level of craving. In some ways it’s like a drug detox.
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Good on you pause. Don’t listen too much to societal norms , it’s all slanted with what the media want you to believe anyway. I once had a partner who masturbated in the office, had his system going and never got caught . Virtual hug for you pause.

 

[Farm Boy 2]

thats one of my questions? For working ladies and for clients. For everyone. What is a normal amount of sex to have? How many times per week is it considered healthy to masturbate? What if you went from having a lot of sex to almost no sex? Can such a dramatic change have an impact? does life become more boring without sex?

Good question Dakota what is your answer?

 

[Terti]

I agree. I'm fine with a dry spell haha it's not a necessity for women. I think we just crave intimacy like cuddles and attention

Women tend to hug each other more and have girly chats where as men don’t really get that from male friends . I believe everyone needs hugs , it makes you feel better .

 

[Happy2]

Hell l went 18 years without sex Then l turned 18

 

[Terti]

I think it really depends on the individual person , I don’t think it’s a black or white answer , more shades of grey . Some men and women need sex , some men and women are happy satisfying themselves . Some need a bit of both and everything in between. Sure we learn about learn at sex education in school but it’s more “mechanical” than anything else . Everything else ppl learn from friends or others , or the net but sometimes that information is incorrect, or slanted.

 

[Terti]

I’m a bit like the old joke:

Guy goes to the doctor and gets told “You’ll need to stop masturbating”, he asks why and the doc replies “Because I’m trying to examine you”

You do like to tell jokes don’t you

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

8 years and a few months......no I did try once and age had sealed it over...

 

[Rancorel]

thats one of my questions? For working ladies and for clients. For everyone. What is a normal amount of sex to have? How many times per week is it considered healthy to masturbate? What if you went from having a lot of sex to almost no sex? Can such a dramatic change have an impact? does life become more boring without sex?

1. Normal is anything that doesn't I intentionally hurt others or yourself.
2. Personal preference but do you require porn to find arousal?
3. Certainly does have an impact and is important to talk to someone about it to help decide whether to confront or cope.
4. No

 

[Pluck a Duck]

8 years and a few months......no I did try once and age had sealed it over...

Sealed it over? You gotta be kidding love!

 

[Terti]

1. Normal is anything that doesn't I intentionally hurt others or yourself.
2. Personal preference but do you require porn to find arousal?
3. Certainly does have an impact and is important to talk to someone about it to help decide whether to confront or cope.
4. No

I agree , to hurt others is deliberately is cruel, well said .

 

[Annoyance]

Women can have a dry spell for years and years and be 100% ok with it. I know heaps of women who just can’t be bothered having sex .Men need sex though at least twice a week.

Then you have Abnorms like me Terti, Longest dry spell I think was 5-6 years and then younger days 1-2 years once. Just juggling things in life & bucket list things and places to go, that sex was always in 2nd place. If a gal of interest crosses my path sure I'll be keen, but other then that there's more things to learn, see and do out in the world.

 

[Terti]

Then you have Abnorms like me Terti, Longest dry spell I think was 5-6 years and then younger days 1-2 years once. Just juggling things in life & bucket list things and places to go, that sex was always in 2nd place. If a gal of interest crosses my path sure I'll be keen, but other then that there's more things to learn, see and do out in the world.

I agree with you , great minds think alike

 

[Dakota Cameron]

Sealed it over? You gotta be kidding love!

Not even kidding ...

 

[awcouncil]

2 weeks tops. Not a minute longer

 

[Penny S]

What would you do if you're offered this

 

[Dave9090]

I need it everyday few days

 

[stovo82]

Masturbation and porn addiction can make up for a lack of sex.
Paying for sex is expensive and I am too ugly to attract a woman in a bar/club.
My options are limited.

 

[Morgan Sapphire]

thats one of my questions? For working ladies and for clients. For everyone. What is a normal amount of sex to have? How many times per week is it considered healthy to masturbate? What if you went from having a lot of sex to almost no sex? Can such a dramatic change have an impact? does life become more boring without sex?

I think everyone is different in that we all have different sex drives. When I wasn't a WL , I went without for a couple of years. however, our libidos can be different all the time. A bit confusing I know.