The issue is most Men are selfish lovers, By the time a woman is getting into the session her male partner has came, and is thinking of rolling over and going to sleep, which he has had his fun, but she has not, so she waits till he is asleep and gets out her vibe... I have been reading about loads of American women whom try love making with another woman and never ever go back to men ever, as they say women are so much better to be with, and are less selfish in the bedroom! The issue men need to cum as fast as possible thinking that is what she wants...