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scarface
A fishy affair
This is quite a hard one men/women why do they have affairs. I think there would be many reasons. Perhaps say a man is in a relationship, lets say all communication is non existent. Both parties are bored . Sex has become a habitual drag for both parties. Both parties could both be to blame.If the women is not working say looking at screaming kids all day hubby gets home wifey has not done much to herself and rabbits on about nothing. Hubby goes to bed and of course say after ten years of marriage not much happens in the sack, or perhaps if anything they just go through the motions. If they do not communicate or get away hubby might start looking around at the office or at the pub.Wifey may do the same she may take a night class or get a part time job. If wifey starts getting attention lets say from another man and she just does not get that at home or the same for hubby . Maybe just maybe there might a little more excitement in life when they find that they can meet someone in private something on the side. Excitement something a little out of the ordinary.
I have often heard women in there thirties without a hubby or regular boyfreind ,these are attractive professional women , saying all the good fella's are already taken . Some do fall in love with sucessful men who are in fact married and have affairs. Unfortunately they are the ones that genuinely get hurt as the blokes normal go back to there spouses. The scorned women then normally blows the lid and whole familys get broken up.
Why do people have affairs? I think for many reasons some people change , they grow up they need different things in life. Some people require more sex . Some women go through the change of life pretty early at times late thirties . They are just not intrested in sex at all.People fall in and out of love . Chemistry is a strange thing how many times have you met someone of the opposite sex and somethings gels there is a spark. If the circumstances are right things can and will happen. There are just so many intresting people out there. Sometimes it is so hard to keep control.
I by no means say that it is anything right to cheat on your partner it is wrong. But circumstances can evolve and things just happen and there is just no turning back.
Well that my five cents worth.
This is quite a hard one men/women why do they have affairs. I think there would be many reasons. Perhaps say a man is in a relationship, lets say all communication is non existent. Both parties are bored . Sex has become a habitual drag for both parties. Both parties could both be to blame.If the women is not working say looking at screaming kids all day hubby gets home wifey has not done much to herself and rabbits on about nothing. Hubby goes to bed and of course say after ten years of marriage not much happens in the sack, or perhaps if anything they just go through the motions. If they do not communicate or get away hubby might start looking around at the office or at the pub.Wifey may do the same she may take a night class or get a part time job. If wifey starts getting attention lets say from another man and she just does not get that at home or the same for hubby . Maybe just maybe there might a little more excitement in life when they find that they can meet someone in private something on the side. Excitement something a little out of the ordinary.
I have often heard women in there thirties without a hubby or regular boyfreind ,these are attractive professional women , saying all the good fella's are already taken . Some do fall in love with sucessful men who are in fact married and have affairs. Unfortunately they are the ones that genuinely get hurt as the blokes normal go back to there spouses. The scorned women then normally blows the lid and whole familys get broken up.
Why do people have affairs? I think for many reasons some people change , they grow up they need different things in life. Some people require more sex . Some women go through the change of life pretty early at times late thirties . They are just not intrested in sex at all.People fall in and out of love . Chemistry is a strange thing how many times have you met someone of the opposite sex and somethings gels there is a spark. If the circumstances are right things can and will happen. There are just so many intresting people out there. Sometimes it is so hard to keep control.
I by no means say that it is anything right to cheat on your partner it is wrong. But circumstances can evolve and things just happen and there is just no turning back.
Well that my five cents worth.
