At what point does kinky become creepy?

[Ciao Baby]

I just read this in today's West.
At what point does "kinky" cross the line & become "creepy"?

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

Kinky can be very hard to control and the creepy is very close

 

[Ginger Spice]

I wonder how they decided it was not sexually motivated? What a curious case indeed.

 

[Miss Monique]

I wonder what motivated him then is not sexual.
I think with anything kinky as long as consent is there and no one is harmed

 

[TantraShiva]

Kinky everyone consents, creepy not everyone has consented.

 

[Ciao Baby]

I wonder how they decided it was not sexually motivated? What a curious case indeed.

I ain't no lawyer but I'm thinking "indecent acts in public" is a bit more serious than being charged with "indecent exposure" or even "lewd behaviour"?

 

[Ciao Baby]

Kinky everyone consents, creepy not everyone has consented.

That is a very good answer to my original question

 

[Joe Ozzie]

Kinky everyone consents, creepy not everyone has consented.

Yes!

SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and/or RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and/or PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink) apply 1st and foremost.

A pro definition https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/sex-sexuality-and-romance/201901/what-is-kink helps.

 

[Joe Ozzie]

Kinky can be very hard to control and the creepy is very close

I respectfully disagree. See above. Kink has everyone involved in the session happy at the end of it. I see creepy as not at all related to kinky.

 

[Rochelle]

Kinky everyone consents, creepy not everyone has consented.

yes that's where I draw the line as well, as long as it is a mutual decision, it is kinky, if not and/or one party is not aware of what is going on, it is creepy

 

[Ciao Baby]

Similar question...
So when does "fetish" cross the line & become "indecency"?

 

[Joe Ozzie]

So when does "fetish" cross the line & become "indecency"?

Please define your understanding of those terms... and if you do that the answer might become clear; i.e. consent

 

[Ciao Baby]

Please define your understanding of those terms... and if you do that the answer might become clear; i.e. consent

Hmmmm
So a faeces fetish for example would not b deemed indecent if both/all parties consented?

 

[stovo82]

Creepy like a weirdo on FetLife. Fetlife is 90% men and the 10% "women" are a combination of Men pretending to be women, Transgender and Real Women. The Real women on Fetlife are as rare as hen's teeth.

 

[Down boy]

Kinky could be masturbating in front of your partner.
Creepy would be doing it whilst they’re about to serve in a game of tennis.

 

[aaron.lee]

When he or she asked...do you love me?

 

[aaron.lee]

WTF? If I hear that, I would just hit the pub.

 

[AusGopher]

Kinky is using a feather, creepy is using the whole chicken..

 

[Jacqui Luxe]

I think the line between kinky and creepy is 100% to do with consent - a stranger listening to me pee is creepy, me giving a client a golden shower at work is kinky (and sexy)