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Appreciate your regular(s)

DickieWu

DickieWu

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Just wanted to share a couple of my experiences.
(Not going to share names.)
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a wl I have seen before. She was good in the past, which is why I returned.
But this visit, she seemed rushed, and she decided to put lube on before the condom. It was abit too slippery for me and took longer than usual. She became frustrated, and got verbally aggressive. (I felt that she wanted to slap me)
I apologised many times and keep telling her that the lube made the condom a bit loose, by the time I left, I think she realised she had overreacted a bit.
The whole experience was uncomfortable, but it was a learning experience for me. (Never let them put lube on before the condom)
My second experience was better but still leaving me half hanging. I decided to try someone random and ended up with a bait-and-switch.
She was friendly enough, but the session was about 30 mins shorter than I pay for and came with a lot of no this and no that. Surely, she became very friendly again as I was leaving and asked me to return soon.
After that I was a bit frustrated and I went to see one of my regulars, who was very happy to see me. I was relieved and very relaxed afterwards.
Overall, I just wanted to say that treating your regulars well really matters. The comfort and consistency they provide can be worth far more than money.
Merry Christmas
 
DickieWu said:
Just wanted to share a couple of my experiences.
(Not going to share names.)
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a wl I have seen before. She was good in the past, which is why I returned.
But this visit, she seemed rushed, and she decided to put lube on before the condom. It was abit too slippery for me and took longer than usual. She became frustrated, and got verbally aggressive. (I felt that she wanted to slap me)
I apologised many times and keep telling her that the lube made the condom a bit loose, by the time I left, I think she realised she had overreacted a bit.
The whole experience was uncomfortable, but it was a learning experience for me. (Never let them put lube on before the condom)
My second experience was better but still leaving me half hanging. I decided to try someone random and ended up with a bait-and-switch.
She was friendly enough, but the session was about 30 mins shorter than I pay for and came with a lot of no this and no that. Surely, she became very friendly again as I was leaving and asked me to return soon.
After that I was a bit frustrated and I went to see one of my regulars, who was very happy to see me. I was relieved and very relaxed afterwards.
Overall, I just wanted to say that treating your regulars well really matters. The comfort and consistency they provide can be worth far more than money.
Merry Christmas
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Well said DickieWu totally agree .
 
I used to see a mistress at The Correction Centre in Melbourne. On what was my final visit, she gave a poor service and in retrospect, I think she wanted to get rid of me.

She's still there, but I've never been back.
 
I've had a couple of times where I guess she was just having a bad day. What had been great service and familiarity became cold and rushed. Lets face it, everyone has bad days and you never know what is happening in their life. I know we expect the best experience every time but how often do you go to work and not want to give it your best? in general our job does not demand anywhere near the level of emotional labour to compare with a SW. Both times I decided to give it another go and things were back to normal. She didn't explain (and I didn't expect it) and I never mentioned it.
My take is this, from a regular, we have come to expect a high level of service both physical and emotional. It's often hard enough to maintain feelings on a long term normal relationship but here we are expecting a woman to turn it in and make us feel special at the drop of a hat.
And maybe she has had enough. I had a favourite I saw for a few years, great times (for me!), great chats more than just sex but still with boundaries. She would contact me from time to time (in an agreed safe way) and then one day crickets! i only sent one message and left it at that. I'll never know why but also realised that what ever had happened was none of my business. I never tried to contact her again but the memories are still mine!
 
DickieWu said:
Just wanted to share a couple of my experiences.
(Not going to share names.)
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a wl I have seen before. She was good in the past, which is why I returned.
But this visit, she seemed rushed, and she decided to put lube on before the condom. It was abit too slippery for me and took longer than usual. She became frustrated, and got verbally aggressive. (I felt that she wanted to slap me)
I apologised many times and keep telling her that the lube made the condom a bit loose, by the time I left, I think she realised she had overreacted a bit.
The whole experience was uncomfortable, but it was a learning experience for me. (Never let them put lube on before the condom)
My second experience was better but still leaving me half hanging. I decided to try someone random and ended up with a bait-and-switch.
She was friendly enough, but the session was about 30 mins shorter than I pay for and came with a lot of no this and no that. Surely, she became very friendly again as I was leaving and asked me to return soon.
After that I was a bit frustrated and I went to see one of my regulars, who was very happy to see me. I was relieved and very relaxed afterwards.
Overall, I just wanted to say that treating your regulars well really matters. The comfort and consistency they provide can be worth far more than money.
Merry Christmas
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Can you share who’s your regular?
 
I agree. I totally appreciate my regulars. Most of my other punts is to find more to roster in, since regulars come and go. But yes, definitely, I appreciate them when I have or find one.
 
MrFister said:
Can you share who’s your regular?
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My regular(s) are more mature age.

(One of them has stopped advertising but we still meet up occasionally)

Mature age Vivian at Vic Park, nothing fancy but provide good services.

Also, the African lady called Joy at Clermont is good.

They are not 5 stars but cheerful and consistent enough for me to revisit.
(Just my own experiences and YMMV...)
 
Have about 4 regulars for different occasions. All private independent WLs. Visited them all before years end. Gave them all a present which they all appreciated.
 
DickieWu said:
My regular(s) are more mature age.

(One of them has stopped advertising but we still meet up occasionally)

Mature age Vivian at Vic Park, nothing fancy but provide good services.

Also, the African lady called Joy at Clermont is good.

They are not 5 stars but cheerful and consistent enough for me to revisit.
(Just my own experiences and YMMV...)
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Hi. Where does Joy advertise - do you have a link? I prefer more mature too. TIA
 
2daysoff1 said:
I've had a couple of times where I guess she was just having a bad day. What had been great service and familiarity became cold and rushed. Lets face it, everyone has bad days and you never know what is happening in their life. I know we expect the best experience every time but how often do you go to work and not want to give it your best? in general our job does not demand anywhere near the level of emotional labour to compare with a SW.
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Agreed, have said it many times on here.
Me and many will primp and prepare and focus for a whole week for that 1 hour booking we've made expecting everything to run smoothly and meet our perfect expectations.
But from the other side, we do not know the issues in their lead up to our booking.

(Although quite obviosly, once they know their booking is with me, the primping and preparation would be off the charts)
 
Being a punter, I realise punting is a business transaction with no strings attached and I treat it as such.

The term 'regular' has no defined meaning and is subject to different interpretations by both punter and WL.

Some of the above posts point to an unhealthy emotional and psychological investment in your 'regular' which I think is inappropriate and even dangerous unless you can read her mind and know she feels the same about you.

Nearly all WLs have told me they dont like needy and clingy clients. They are an emotional and psychological drain on them.

For that reason I try not to use the word 'regular' but refer to them simply as someone I'd seen before and had a good time. Generally I try to avoid seeing the same sex worker no more than three times.

Make sure you're not an unwanted baggage to your 'regular'.
 
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Jack Ripper said:
Being a punter, I realise punting is a business transaction with no strings attached and I treat it as such.

The term 'regular' has no defined meaning and is subject to different interpretations by both punter and WL.

Some of the above posts point to an unhealthy emotional and psychological investment in your 'regular' which I think is inappropriate and even dangerous unless you can read her mind and know she feels the same about you.

Nearly all WLs have told me they dont like needy and clingy clients. They are an emotional and psychological drain on them.

For that reason I try not to use the word 'regular' but refer to them simply as someone I'd seen before and had a good time. Generally I try to avoid seeing the same sex worker no more than three times.

Make sure you're not an unwanted baggage to your 'regular'.
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Agreed. No harm in a simple gift. They're there for a bit of fun, nothing else. That said I can't blame some guys, getting attached.
 
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Jack Ripper said:
Being a punter, I realise punting is a business transaction with no strings attached and I treat it as such.

The term 'regular' has no defined meaning and is subject to different interpretations by both punter and WL.

Some of the above posts point to an unhealthy emotional and psychological investment in your 'regular' which I think is inappropriate and even dangerous unless you can read her mind and know she feels the same about you.

Nearly all WLs have told me they dont like needy and clingy clients. They are an emotional and psychological drain on them.

For that reason I try not to use the word 'regular' but refer to them simply as someone I'd seen before and had a good time. Generally I try to avoid seeing the same sex worker no more than three times.

Make sure you're not an unwanted baggage to your 'regular'.
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After many visits a conversations gonna happen. But yeah they don't want 'obsessed' guy's thinking she is the only one. I verbally greet and verbally thank them but keep my mouth shut and pay my money. Surely lots of guys have ended up marrying, having free relationship with sex worker that they were originally paying for sex.
 
I agreed that punting is no more than just business transaction.
Always tell myself to be nice and helpful but no emotional attachment. (Bit like a work colleague)
As my budget is limited, I focus on more bang for my buck.
I think some of my past regular stopped seeing me is probably because I am more of a budget conscious buyer = "cheap" 😂
 
I refer to ‘regulars’ as a WL who I see often because I prefer their services. Tried and tested.

Totally agree on not being emotionally invested.

It’s like falling in love with your barber because they cut your hair.

Being not a ‘emotional baggage’ and just being professional with the transaction is appreciation itself.
 
DickieWu said:
Just wanted to share a couple of my experiences.
(Not going to share names.)
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a wl I have seen before. She was good in the past, which is why I returned.
But this visit, she seemed rushed, and she decided to put lube on before the condom. It was abit too slippery for me and took longer than usual. She became frustrated, and got verbally aggressive. (I felt that she wanted to slap me)
I apologised many times and keep telling her that the lube made the condom a bit loose, by the time I left, I think she realised she had overreacted a bit.
The whole experience was uncomfortable, but it was a learning experience for me. (Never let them put lube on before the condom)
My second experience was better but still leaving me half hanging. I decided to try someone random and ended up with a bait-and-switch.
She was friendly enough, but the session was about 30 mins shorter than I pay for and came with a lot of no this and no that. Surely, she became very friendly again as I was leaving and asked me to return soon.
After that I was a bit frustrated and I went to see one of my regulars, who was very happy to see me. I was relieved and very relaxed afterwards.
Overall, I just wanted to say that treating your regulars well really matters. The comfort and consistency they provide can be worth far more than money.
Merry Christmas
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welcome to punting mate - we all are in the same shoes, yet we search
 
DickieWu said:
Just wanted to share a couple of my experiences.
(Not going to share names.)
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a wl I have seen before. She was good in the past, which is why I returned.
But this visit, she seemed rushed, and she decided to put lube on before the condom. It was abit too slippery for me and took longer than usual. She became frustrated, and got verbally aggressive. (I felt that she wanted to slap me)
I apologised many times and keep telling her that the lube made the condom a bit loose, by the time I left, I think she realised she had overreacted a bit.
The whole experience was uncomfortable, but it was a learning experience for me. (Never let them put lube on before the condom)
My second experience was better but still leaving me half hanging. I decided to try someone random and ended up with a bait-and-switch.
She was friendly enough, but the session was about 30 mins shorter than I pay for and came with a lot of no this and no that. Surely, she became very friendly again as I was leaving and asked me to return soon.
After that I was a bit frustrated and I went to see one of my regulars, who was very happy to see me. I was relieved and very relaxed afterwards.
Overall, I just wanted to say that treating your regulars well really matters. The comfort and consistency they provide can be worth far more than money.
Merry Christmas
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I'm sure a lot of guys blend it for the WLs.
They don't want friends as clients.
I suggested to one WL she just get a bunch of regulars which are good customers, and she replied the problem was many thought they were "friends" and wanted to hang out after the session.

I appreciate a lot of the non English speaking ladies, that way no one can say anything stupid that will spoil the experience, (at least no one will understand it) 🤣

As a punter just find one or two you like and rotate.
You will go through a period of duds when finding new people, but that goes with the territory.
 
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