Appreciate your regular(s)

[DickieWu]

Just wanted to share a couple of my experiences.
(Not going to share names.)
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a wl I have seen before. She was good in the past, which is why I returned.
But this visit, she seemed rushed, and she decided to put lube on before the condom. It was abit too slippery for me and took longer than usual. She became frustrated, and got verbally aggressive. (I felt that she wanted to slap me)
I apologised many times and keep telling her that the lube made the condom a bit loose, by the time I left, I think she realised she had overreacted a bit.
The whole experience was uncomfortable, but it was a learning experience for me. (Never let them put lube on before the condom)
My second experience was better but still leaving me half hanging. I decided to try someone random and ended up with a bait-and-switch.
She was friendly enough, but the session was about 30 mins shorter than I pay for and came with a lot of no this and no that. Surely, she became very friendly again as I was leaving and asked me to return soon.
After that I was a bit frustrated and I went to see one of my regulars, who was very happy to see me. I was relieved and very relaxed afterwards.
Overall, I just wanted to say that treating your regulars well really matters. The comfort and consistency they provide can be worth far more than money.
Merry Christmas

 

[georgo]

Just wanted to share a couple of my experiences.
(Not going to share names.)
A couple of weeks ago, I visited a wl I have seen before. She was good in the past, which is why I returned.
But this visit, she seemed rushed, and she decided to put lube on before the condom. It was abit too slippery for me and took longer than usual. She became frustrated, and got verbally aggressive. (I felt that she wanted to slap me)
I apologised many times and keep telling her that the lube made the condom a bit loose, by the time I left, I think she realised she had overreacted a bit.
The whole experience was uncomfortable, but it was a learning experience for me. (Never let them put lube on before the condom)
My second experience was better but still leaving me half hanging. I decided to try someone random and ended up with a bait-and-switch.
She was friendly enough, but the session was about 30 mins shorter than I pay for and came with a lot of no this and no that. Surely, she became very friendly again as I was leaving and asked me to return soon.
After that I was a bit frustrated and I went to see one of my regulars, who was very happy to see me. I was relieved and very relaxed afterwards.
Overall, I just wanted to say that treating your regulars well really matters. The comfort and consistency they provide can be worth far more than money.
Merry Christmas

Well said DickieWu totally agree .

 

[ozwarlock67]

I used to see a mistress at The Correction Centre in Melbourne. On what was my final visit, she gave a poor service and in retrospect, I think she wanted to get rid of me.

She's still there, but I've never been back.

 

[2daysoff1]

I've had a couple of times where I guess she was just having a bad day. What had been great service and familiarity became cold and rushed. Lets face it, everyone has bad days and you never know what is happening in their life. I know we expect the best experience every time but how often do you go to work and not want to give it your best? in general our job does not demand anywhere near the level of emotional labour to compare with a SW. Both times I decided to give it another go and things were back to normal. She didn't explain (and I didn't expect it) and I never mentioned it.
My take is this, from a regular, we have come to expect a high level of service both physical and emotional. It's often hard enough to maintain feelings on a long term normal relationship but here we are expecting a woman to turn it in and make us feel special at the drop of a hat.
And maybe she has had enough. I had a favourite I saw for a few years, great times (for me!), great chats more than just sex but still with boundaries. She would contact me from time to time (in an agreed safe way) and then one day crickets! i only sent one message and left it at that. I'll never know why but also realised that what ever had happened was none of my business. I never tried to contact her again but the memories are still mine!