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Anal sex

Call me innocent or naive, but explain using a strap-on to me. I understand that the person getting hammered is enjoying it, but what does the person doing the fuck!ng get? Where is the pleasure?
 
i'm only guessing here :)
but the empowerment of doing someone else in that manner
and i've seen strap-on toys at the shops with ...*cough cough cough* umm err .. extra bits for the person wearing it. The extra bits penetrate the wearer while they penetrate someone else :)

either that or they are being given something big in return ?
 
I have seen the ones with bits that penetrate the err..... wearer. And they were bloody expensive!!
 
spend the time to find one you can get a double ended one that still straps on minx yyyyyaaaaaaaa instant pleasure :love76:
 
I love giving a woman anal sex. It usually means she can experience her anus fully and I can, at the same time, give her pussy some yummy attention. I generally find that women love their arse getting some kind of attention either way. I also love to lick her arse. I have always wanted to don a strap-on for a woman so she gets it in both holes. One with a vibrator would be pretty amazing for both of us!
 
been there done that. meh im over it, its not all that its cracked up to be i recon. it just doesnt do it for me.
 
I bought a strap-on just recently for $55 .. it's not as versitile as the more expensive ones .. so now i just need a wearer.... then i can make a judgement on how good it feels when someone else takes control :D
 
Here's my two bobs worth on this subject... Its all in a mater of timing, anal can be mind blowing, but not every other time you have sex!. Well for me i find doing anything regulary very predictable and boring, it feels good but the anticipation isnt there.. and somtimes you just dont want that area being messed around with! lol.
As for strap ons again its not somthing that would get you off using them regularly, i have used both types and as far as doing a girl with the dual penetration strap on's(one for her and one for me) that was very erotic and got us both to the point of near orgasm and yes as Moves said its more the fact that you have the control during the sexual encounter.. I can honestly say that I love being a woman but for One day would luv to have a real dick just so i could wank and screw and do everything a guy could.. (only prob with that is its harder for guys to pick up girls).
Ultimatley we are all different and into different things, but u never know till ya give it a go... "trying it once then try it again just to make sure " ;)
 
But..

Mizzbehaving, if u were a guy for a day, u would still think like a woman! And knowing inside and out what women want you would pick up no problem!! And the sex, while it may not be that great for her (ever had sex with a male virgin? I have and it was over before I could say "Is it in yet?") at least you could say u did it!! AND you could give her the best oral sex ever...
 
Yes u r right perthminx, but atleast i would be able experience exactly what its like.. and then have more of an appreciation for the male point of view..,but then again, i like the control a woman has over the whole anal thing.. if gal dont want to do then she wont if she does then both parties are happy :)
I will just have to get more strap on action in ;) lol
 
Sorry i have tried it wasn't my thing....really tried ..and i was lusty and wet too every time, toey as anything, didn't feel right...
Do everything else but anal not for me..
Does that make me a prude!!!!
 
I have tried it in the past, not often though...then recently have had a gr8 partner who we often particip8 in doing it together ...it was his first time & he loves it...can't say I don't myself...going to admit it was one of the strongest orgasms I have had the pleasure of experiencing...not summin I wanna do every time the deed is done, just when it happens :pottytrai
 
After reading up on it and preparing myself, I finally tried it recently.

I love it. Hubby loves fucking my ass too.

We don't do it every time, but I have to agree with Vyxx about the orgasm aspect.

Anal with the right person and position is great.
 
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NortiGal said:
After reading up on it and preparing myself, I finally tried it recently.

I love it. Hubby loves fucking my ass too.

We don't do it every time, but I have to agree with Vyxx about the orgasm aspect.

Anal with the right person and position is great.
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Woo! Hoo! Woman you rawk! On ya for having a go eh, one can only try, seems you may be "trying" again also hmmmm *wink*
 
Heheh thanks guys!

This forum is so informative and educational, and I love the open, mature discussion we can have about all sorts of things without being censored or derided for being ignorant about certain things.

Some of the things I have read here has made me think about stuff I never even considered before, anything that expands your mind and/or experience is a good thing in my opinion.

I'm spewing I never made it to any of Mary Annes sex education nights now, I hope she has plans for more in the future, I'd love to learn more about some subjects.

:)
 
NortiGal said:
I'm spewing I never made it to any of Mary Annes sex education nights now, I hope she has plans for more in the future, I'd love to learn more about some subjects.
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I was speaking to a friend yesterday re them actually & I'm sure I could learn a few things myself...stuff the saying "Can't teach an old dog new tricks" eh ;)
 
Alway wanted to try it, never found a willing partner.

As a Bloke having anal sex with a girl has always been a fantasy of mine but I could never find a wiling partner. I'm not sure why I have such an interest. Any girl I've suggsted it too accuses you of being Gay, and that is usually the end of the night as far as they are concerned. I'm not gay (although have to admit to having a facination with trannies) nor do I have a problem with gay men it's just not my thing. I would just like to meet a sexy girl who is prepared to give it a go with me.
 
I think it is normal for men to be interested in anal sex.It's the forbidden zone.A bit of anal play never hurt anybody.I like doing it to a lady,you just have to be gentle.A bit of licking and careressing around the area is always good fun if the person is clean.I like a bit touching there to at certain times but you have to remember to be gentle,who ever it is your doing it to. :hello:
 
The best way to do it is to get her lubed up by sliding your cock back from her cunt to her arse a few times and using her own cunt juice to loosen smooth your way into her anus. This works a treat - never need anything else.
 
louis877 said:
The best way to do it is to get her lubed up by sliding your cock back from her cunt to her arse a few times and using her own cunt juice to loosen smooth your way into her anus. This works a treat - never need anything else.
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well considering when we go to the toilet we have to wipe ourselves from front to back so as not to spread bacteria, I find that a little unhealthy. Correct me if I am wrong but that is my belief.

How do you combat that?
 
oh.. by the way.. welcome to the forum also Louis. sorry should have said that first..lol
 
I think the pic tells a 1000 words!!!

I think the pic tells a 1000 words!!! :love76:
 

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louis877 said:
The best way to do it is to get her lubed up by sliding your cock back from her cunt to her arse a few times and using her own cunt juice to loosen smooth your way into her anus. This works a treat - never need anything else.
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That's an extremely risky practise, and I have a 4" scar on my neck to prove it.

Bacteria that live in the gut and intestine are there for a purpose - however, when they lodge somewhere they don't belong it can be fatal, as it would have been in my case had an emergency tracheostomy not been performed, and even then I was in a coma for 10 days on life-support.

Whilst my illness came from the practise of rimming, and anal/vaginal sex without changing the condom between 'entrances' poses less of a risk, it is still a risk. There is no way you can lessen that risk - being 'clean' has nothing to do with the bacteria we naturally carry in our intestinal tract.

Chrissie
 
OMGoodness Chrissie...wow :(

If I have anal sex with someone there is no way I will continue to have vaginal sex with them @ the same time for the reasons Serena & Chrissie have pointed out.
 
My better half have tried it off and on over the years we've been married and found it better now then when we first tried. Like most ppl have stated plenty of lube plenty of fore play there and nice and easy and let the woman take control no use guys once in there starting to bang away.Speacilly if your on the larger side
 
the anus and rectum carry many diseases that live quite benignly in your lower digestive tract, but which can be harmful in your mouth or stomach.
 
the things ive learned from anal sex & question

Here are some rules I've discovered in my brief forray into anal sex.

1. Curry the night before is a distinct no no. If it burns when it comes out your anal passage may be feeling a little to delicate for anal sex.

2. Do not use flavoured lube. We used flavoured lube simply because it was what we had lying around. I find it tends to be less thick and more watery. I find the thickness is important to protect your bits. Plus something in the lube sting. It was ansell strawberry (It tastes bad too btw but the smell is kinda nice).

3. Its all about control. If you're not comfortable for gods sake dont let him take control. In my experience men dont have the best sense of feeling how far in they are when they're all turned on and in the pleasure zone.

Anyway this is what I've learned. Also I was quite suprised at the advantages. In this I mean that I tend to be quite regular for a couple of days afterward. Kinda like a mini colonic purge.

Also I've only been doing it for a couple of months having been forced in to desperation after being told that nothing was allowed to go in my vagina for ten days by my doctor. We tend to do it with dildo going in vagina and anal sex going on out back. But I'm curious when you guys are having these amazing orgasms is it from just the anal sex or are you getting stimulated as well?
 
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