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BigMike
I am posting this up as a seperate thread. It is in part a response to some of the things I have read this morning. Some things have been deleted so it is difficult to understand what was in fact posted.
This forum is no different to a pub, club, bar or any other place where people meet. It does have an advantage of being a little more open than most places. I joined the forum to have fun, it is a distraction. It is a place where you can make friends. Like any place when you express an opinion some one will disagree, get over it. Like any other place some one owns the forum and we have to be aware of the rules. I think in reality the member do have a big say on what goes on here. Personally I have no financial interest in the forum but have alway found my ideas comments and suggestions well received.
Getting involved in the forums can be thankless and thing can fall apart at the last second like the debate, I understand that people change their minds for personal reasons.
Like any gathering of people some you love some you hate other your indifferant to.
Here is the thing friendship has to be earned. You have to attract people to you the way you talk to people will naturally affect their opinion. You can not just start sex talk straight away. I feel for a lot of the female members who must get the most stupid emails Ican only guess at the fact that most do not find a guy telling them how much they want to bonk them as being offputting.
If some one does not like you move on. Fighting in public is notthe answer nor will it change their opinion.
I can not understand how you can be here for an period of time and not form friendships. It just seems so easy I am open and honest with every one and I appreciatte the same in response. I am no Brad Pitt nor am I a contender for Mr Universe. I am a conversationalist and I try to post interesting things. I do post a lot to the forums and that way people do get to know a little about me. In all the time I have posted I have NEVER had a nasty email or message left for me. Why, I really dont know but I think respect has a bit to do with things. In all the time I have been here I have never hit on any one. Why, well I am more interested in being able to come and go on the forums with respect. I love the friendships that you can form. If any friendship go on off the forums well that will be nice as well.
Take a little time to get to know people appreciatte that we all are different and have our own opinions. Each of us is entitled to be different .
Well yet again I have ranted on for far too long.
BigM
This forum is no different to a pub, club, bar or any other place where people meet. It does have an advantage of being a little more open than most places. I joined the forum to have fun, it is a distraction. It is a place where you can make friends. Like any place when you express an opinion some one will disagree, get over it. Like any other place some one owns the forum and we have to be aware of the rules. I think in reality the member do have a big say on what goes on here. Personally I have no financial interest in the forum but have alway found my ideas comments and suggestions well received.
Getting involved in the forums can be thankless and thing can fall apart at the last second like the debate, I understand that people change their minds for personal reasons.
Like any gathering of people some you love some you hate other your indifferant to.
Here is the thing friendship has to be earned. You have to attract people to you the way you talk to people will naturally affect their opinion. You can not just start sex talk straight away. I feel for a lot of the female members who must get the most stupid emails Ican only guess at the fact that most do not find a guy telling them how much they want to bonk them as being offputting.
If some one does not like you move on. Fighting in public is notthe answer nor will it change their opinion.
I can not understand how you can be here for an period of time and not form friendships. It just seems so easy I am open and honest with every one and I appreciatte the same in response. I am no Brad Pitt nor am I a contender for Mr Universe. I am a conversationalist and I try to post interesting things. I do post a lot to the forums and that way people do get to know a little about me. In all the time I have posted I have NEVER had a nasty email or message left for me. Why, I really dont know but I think respect has a bit to do with things. In all the time I have been here I have never hit on any one. Why, well I am more interested in being able to come and go on the forums with respect. I love the friendships that you can form. If any friendship go on off the forums well that will be nice as well.
Take a little time to get to know people appreciatte that we all are different and have our own opinions. Each of us is entitled to be different .
Well yet again I have ranted on for far too long.
BigM