How many Sex Partners have you had?

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SwingingM&K

It seems that in our society the number of people you have slept with often feels like a dirty little secret that you can't tell anyone. Neither of us have ever discussed this with friends outside of swinging circles because of sex seems to be such a taboo topic in our society. I wish that society could be more accepting of our sexuality so we could share it more openly and not have people having crazy perceptions about us just because we choose to share our bodies with others for pleasure.

I hope that we are both able to keep having a variety of different sexual encounters with a range of people throughout our lives so that we can fulfill all of our sexual fantasies and feel many different types of pleasure. Neither of us remember how many people we have been with probably had more sex than many and less than some including group situations, threesomes of all different types and all the ways in which we have had the opportunity to share such great pleasure with other human beings.

Just feel comfortable with yourself and hold your self in dignity nomatter what anyone else thinks of your choices.

And above all have fun.

We already share a beautiful and understanding love. Sex is but a tiney insignificant part of that. To me I don't see sex as something that needs to be saved for love. Making love is an entirely different thing that can be an enjoyable part of a broader sex life. Lovemaking is already saved for that one special partner in the very nature of its essence.
 

skwiz05

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I lost count back in my early twenties.....well i am in the NAVY and we had it real good (still do). I used to collect the girls knickers as a 'momento', then one day i counted them......and it was a VERY large number.....hehe......(like just in triple figures) ... so I promised to stop collecting and counting.
Best estimate....over 300 now. (given I actually started at 13....now 36.. and had some dream second jobs: played in band, male dancer, male escort)
 

Sir Stefan

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Mmm.. Now this will.....

Now this will really test my memory...
One x Wife, plus One x Mistress, plus 4 x defactos, plus 6 x lovers, plus around 30 x 'one-nighters' plus about 10 x 'working girls' making that a total of about 52 'not-out', which if I could have scored that well in school cricket I would have been a 'sporting hero'.... SirStefan.
 

Rancorel

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It seems that in our society the number of people you have slept with often feels like a dirty little secret that you can't tell anyone. Neither of us have ever discussed this with friends outside of swinging circles because of sex seems to be such a taboo topic in our society. I wish that society could be more accepting of our sexuality so we could share it more openly and not have people having crazy perceptions about us just because we choose to share our bodies with others for pleasure.
I like the taboo nature of sex. The excitment of doing something naughty but in fact isn't. Like how many times in movies do they have sex and then say, "3 of the things we did just then would be illegal elsewhere". I agree more like minded ppl should express themselves though but yer gotta keep it naughty.
 
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TanyaR

23 yr old and had 4 sex partners...All last year in the space of a few months...lol
 
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Floyd

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oooh, were we supposed to count them??? LOL

Good question Serena! I've never thought about counting them (or ranking them!) either, but then again, I may be the only man on the planet whose never measured his dick either!
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Spunkymunky

I'm only a young un but ive only had sex with two guys, and i only landed my second one very recently. Ive done various "dirty" things with three other guys but not had sex. I was in a relationship for 5yrs which is part of the reason, buts its also cos i get to damn shy and nervous!! I find it hard enough to have a conversation with someone i meet, let alone get naked with them! But thanks to my no. 2 who took pity on me and showed me a good time :)
 
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Spunkymunky

Oh and one girl to but that was pretty brief......memorable......but brief :)
 
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Spunkymunky

Make that 3 guys as of today. Worst sex ive ever had, my numbers staying at 3 till i find a bloody decent bloke who puts in effort dammit!!!
 
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Minxxy


I am 25 and have slept with around 14 guys and 2 girls in my 11 years as a sexual being

Pretty poor I know but I am working on it!
 

waxenboy

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I am 25 and have slept with around 14 guys and 2 girls in my 11 years as a sexual being

Pretty poor I know but I am working on it!

It doesnt matter how many people you have sex with its the person you click with is just as important and they end up as your partner myabe im old fashion but meaningless sex leaves a void in some peoples lives i think.
 

SubNymphet

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Well, im 19 and i'd havta say i've lost count... 5 girls (all memorable) and over 40 guys (between the ages of 14 and 17)... only 3 of those in long relationships (been with my man for 3 years now so it's girls only for me these days)
geez.... thats kinda scary!
 
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Minxxy


Waxenboy

Not looking for meaningless sex all the time. Actually looking for something serious, but am going to have fun until I find Mr Right
 

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Waxenboy

Not looking for meaningless sex all the time. Actually looking for something serious, but am going to have fun until I find Mr Right

I totally agree wasnt having a go at you.I know where you are coming from.Im the same i want that someone special in my life but hey why not play until she or he comes along.:hello:
 

FordFiend

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Hi

Im 25yrs old and have slept with around 20 fems, mostly 1 nighters but been with MRS FordFiend for 8yrs this yr :D.
 
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bubbyslave

hmm,
No i definatly dont think its too many, i for one have been with alot more than that and my husband finds it a turn on.
Just means you enjoy sex.
xoxo
 
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2curiousperth

Assuming that we are talking about intercourse, we are both still in the single figures (I've had more than my wife overall, though fewer than her at her age). Maybe that's why although we are keen on playing with other couples, we are holding back on swapping opposite sex partners for intercourse for now.

If you broaden the definition to include orgasms received from hand jobs and blow jobs, then since Saturday I've crept into the double figures.
 
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TemptMe

Which ever way I look at it - not enough.......but the quality is far more important than the quantity. I am in the lucky position that if my current is the only one from now on in then I am in absolute heaven
 
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Spunkymunky

Hmmmmmmm well up until 18mths ago it was one. Since then i have somewhat expanded my horizons lol. Six guys and two girls in that time isn't to shabby i think. Although two of those guys and one of those girls has been in the last three weeks hehe spunky is breaking her drought in style!
 
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Malmensa

Lost count, but I think both me & my other half would have mangaged around 30 each. Depends a bit on how you define Sex partner"
 
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Malmensa



My general rule is that I have to achieve orgasm through the actions of the other person for that person to make it on my list.

persephone

Hmm, not sure that is totally valid. That makes non-orgasmic women all virgins..
 
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Spunkymunky

Hmm, not sure that is totally valid. That makes non-orgasmic women all virgins..

Hahaha that means i kept my virginity for five years after i started fucking......that or i lost my virginity to myself.......
 

SubNymphet

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hmmm well... lost count of how many sex partners (intercourse) but those to make me orgasm, well that would be 2... lol. and neither of those was during intercourse... so does that mean im still a virgin? haha. woohoo go me!
 

muffler85

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Well here yo go, the sadest reply yet.

Only 4 including the better half and only 2 for her including me.
Some may think it's sad - but we are more than happy
 
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