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johnlou said:
correct me if i am incorrect but isn't Vic the only state a W/L needs to be registered
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I'd like to know that too...I was told I need to get an ABN number to work here (VIC)...which I was told by an accountant I can say 'entertainer' instead of sex worker but give my real name and address...and still the fact I can't just deposit my earnings is so annoying...one other state says I need a PLC (?) number which I need to reveal I'm a sex worker and my real name and address,,,

my hard earned honest money yet all this rubbish no respect for privacy esp for people from religious background where they could be killed or disowned if their family and fellow group found out...not saying that's me..though i am -ish
 
Spikey said:
Let me see if I understand you.

1. You are a virgin
2. You are obviously very young (uni student)
3. Your English strongly suggests that you are Caucasian
4. You are worried that sex might hurt
5. You want to become a prostitute.
6. You are a virgin (yes, I wrote that twice; it seems important)

Do you have any idea, or has anybody mentioned the fact that your customers are going to be men who either can't, or don't want to find a "civvy" woman to have sex with? They could be drunk, or on drugs, or violent.
Do you understand, or has any working lady told you that you will probably cry yourself to sleep every night?
Do you realize that your self esteem will probably plummet to the point of being massively depressed?

I have sometimes chatted with working ladies and most are willing to admit that they hate the job and they are only in it for the potential quick money. The money is addictive and so, sometimes, are the drugs they take to make it all bearable.

Some working ladies feel they have to do this work and therefore feel trapped. More depression.

Don't get me wrong, there are also some working ladies who, after coming to terms with what they are, working privately and therefore able to choose their customers, actually enjoy their work. These are the ones who are no longer reliant on the earnings, but rather continue to work out of choice to be able to afford the luxuries of life. Travel, shoes, handbags, etc. They are at one end of the scale.

The other end of the scale is in the cemetery. Drug overdose, suicide, beaten and murdered, etc.

Virginsuicide, think very, very carefully, for you hold your very life in your hands.
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answers in bold writing:

1. You are a virgin yes
2. You are obviously very young (uni student) mid 20s not sure if that's young or not
3. Your English strongly suggests that you are Caucasian no but nice to hear my writing skills are ok :)
4. You are worried that sex might hurt yesss :( main reason I'm not jumping into this job unfortunately
5. You want to become a prostitute. yes this I'm sure only if I wasn't a virgin, guaranteed earn big, secret to grave
6. You are a virgin (yes, I wrote that twice; it seems important heart felt you care xo)

Do you have any idea, or has anybody mentioned the fact that your customers are going to be men who either can't, or don't want to find a "civvy" (I googled and it says civvy means police?) woman to have sex with? They could be drunk, or on drugs, or violent. won't brothels protect me? though this was why I didn't fancy any other like escort or private
Do you understand, or has any working lady told you that you will probably cry yourself to sleep every night? no..I only heard from reading two sides...one saying the news portrays WL bad when in reality WL are happy with high earning lots of sex life..the other is the reporters reporting only the extreme things as usual to get people to pick their paper
Do you realize that your self esteem will probably plummet to the point of being massively depressed? no first I heard...though it's already non-existent and I've never been anything but depressed so wouldn't be much of a difference...I'd be able to handle depressed...I can't handle happy

in articles WL says they are content though when I meet them in person I could see they wanted out and wanted to stop me from starting...I don't know which one to believe..I know there is always good and bad to any story..I guess I'm so wanting this I want to only hear the good, high earning

I have sometimes chatted with working ladies and most are willing to admit that they hate the job and they are only in it for the potential quick money. The money is addictive and so, sometimes, are the drugs they take to make it all bearable. I see...I figured that's why people take drugs to relieve pain...also I heard though that's olden day talk...but I guess not for some places...

Some working ladies feel they have to do this work and therefore feel trapped. More depression.
this is one of my reasons for hesitating...as much as I'm sure, I'm afraid I over estimated myself...that's why I'm doing all this research before starting

Don't get me wrong, there are also some working ladies who, after coming to terms with what they are, working privately and therefore able to choose their customers, actually enjoy their work. These are the ones who are no longer reliant on the earnings, but rather continue to work out of choice to be able to afford the luxuries of life. Travel, shoes, handbags, etc. They are at one end of the scale.
my hope


The other end of the scale is in the cemetery. Drug overdose, suicide, beaten and murdered, etc.
my hope as long as I have money to leave my family...except beaten wouldn't want that...that's why wanting to find a legal brothel with moral owner


Virginsuicide, think very, very carefully, for you hold your very life in your hands. thank you heart felt...while researching for this job I was surprise to meet more caring people than I did in 'normal' life....only if I can work with people like you I wouldn't worry about loosing myself while in the job
 
nightrider said:
Forget the sex industry, take up writing, seriously.........
In every endeavour in life the time comes when you just make a decision and do it. To quote the green guru "do, or do not, there is no try" asking questions is normal but the decision is yours alone. The fact your asking so many questions seems to show your nowhere near ready for this job.
Good luck
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'Forget the sex industry, take up writing, seriously.........' made me smile (which is a big gift) thank you nightrider

in person I have social anxiety so am quiet...but behind things I guess the chatty side of me comes out plus my anxiety make me OCD about asking thoroughly which usually annoys people...

yes I do have to admit...if I was really sure I'd already be a WL...I guess I'm hoping if I had my questions answered till my heart was content I'd want this for sure...

at first I thought of this work lightly a good fun and high earning..then the more I researched the more I found the work wasn't as fun as I thought..

and I thought I was sure I didn't care much about virginity, sex but the more I heard WL the more I'm not sure how I'd feel after sex before marriage..I don't care how I loose it as I know I'd never find the one for me..but when I loose it, I'm not sure

I have lived long enough to know when so many people say the same thing, that I shouldn't loose virginity like this, it's important to listen

then reality hits me and I'm back to looking for a way to work in this industry...thinking out loud
 
bushseeker said:
Victoria is probably the worst place with having to be registered.

bigest tip ive given new ladys is dont short change the guys on time.... while many leave early some guys do want the time they psid for so you do need a tactfull skill for winding things up
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sorry what does 'short change the guys on time' mean?

yes it's those skill I'd like to learn before hand but I guess its on the job training esp with this industry

bushseeker said:
as for going without work as ive found out.
it doesnt matter how young or pretty or what you will do if you ask too much people just cant afford it.
I recently worked with a mid 20s size 8 blonde blue eyed stunner who included fetish and double penatration. .. $300 was a real stretch although if she hadnt left early she could have made $1200; pluss for the night instead of $600
and as happy pirate has said every lady ive worked with has had major personality issues much of it from drugs
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thank you bushseeker...something to think about...

bushseeker said:
nope ill be dealing with upfront honest women only....
the ones you pay for sex then they leave
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sorry not sure what this means?...
 
BelleRose said:
ok... i am somewhat new to this industry and have been doing this for a little over a month...
advice as follows...

if you are wanting to do this start in a reputable establishment... case closed... do not try private first as you need to learn the ropes so to speak...
there is more to this job than just sex... SAFETY SAFETY SAFETY... yours his and everybody you come into contact with...
this is taxing mentally... if you are doing it for a quick payday... DONT... it will not happen like that..

and finally if you are a virgin.. this is not the way to lose it... dont enter a lifestyle choice that could change your life in so many different ways that you can not fathom with out knowing what you like/ hate and think about sex...

once you do this there is no " unfucking" so to speak...

i dont want to turn you off this industry, but i want you to really consider what you are thinking about..
this is not hollywood or a movie , its serious.... it can be fun and i do love it. i would not do anything i dont love... but you still have shit days, shit customers and just shit...

pm me if you wish to go into more privately or ask me more on here....
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heart felt thank you BelleRose I have taken your advice in and giving it a good pondering...

ok... i am somewhat new to this industry and have been doing this for a little over a month...which is why I'm leaning more into the computer screen, all ears
advice as follows...

if you are wanting to do this start in a reputable establishment... any recommendations pleaseeee? names of places? case closed... do not try private first as you need to learn the ropes so to speak... yes this I'd do for sure as majority have given me this advice
there is more to this job than just sex... SAFETY SAFETY SAFETY... yours his and everybody you come into contact with...I hope someone at the place that I work at can train me how to put a condom on esp I read you can make this a fun time by putting it on with mouth to make it more interesting for customers who are not so keen
this is taxing mentally... if you are doing it for a quick payday... DONT... it will not happen like that.. yes my other reason for hesitating to start working..unable to guarantee a good pay

and finally if you are a virgin.. this is not the way to lose it... dont enter a lifestyle choice that could change your life in so many different ways that you can not fathom with out knowing what you like/ hate and think about sex...

once you do this there is no " unfucking" so to speak...well said I'm going to remember this quote by you :) my other reason for hesitating...I honestly don't care now but I also honestly don't know what my reaction would be after loosing what I thought was nothing

i dont want to turn you off this industry, but i want you to really consider what you are thinking about..
this is not hollywood or a movie , its serious.... it can be fun and i do love it. i would not do anything i dont love... but you still have shit days, shit customers and just shit...no of course I understand and I hear you sigh...I guess the bad days in this job would be worse than the so call bad days at 'normal' work

pm me if you wish to go into more privately or ask me more on here....

sorry what does pm mean? I'd love to be in contact with you privately (I'd be careful to not over stay the welcome though) :) thank you for letting me ask xo

-I guess I'd like to hear (not revealing any of your private information) a-z of what happened once you decided you'd become a WL to your first day and then your first week of work?

e.g:
-when you first thought of becoming a WL did you just jump right into it or research? If research, where'd did you go to know it all?

-before start working what would the checklist of things to prepare? e.g. legal things, clothes, employers asking for ID etc

-after start working what would be the things added to that checklist that needed to be prepared?

-first visit or first day of work to the work place what happened? just straight to work? Or sign contract, show ID, train to put protection on etc

-reputable establishment recommendation?
 
heart felt thank you to all who have taken the time to respond xo means so much...breath of fresh air after many blocks to my questions...

re-reading things I wrote to make sure I made sense...I realised I asked alot about before work preparation...

but I was wondering with the actual work...(not sure where the line is in this industry so sorry in advance if these questions are inappropriate but being a sex industry I'm hoping I can ask)

-what do customers like? the most asked for things (though everyone is different, on average)?

-do I do what the porn videos do? (haven't watched any but will if that's what I should do, though I did watch normal hollywood movies with sex scenes)

-what's the difference between porn and business sex and girl friend experience (never been in a relationship so don't understand how same action of having sex can be different)?

-not just the action but the reaction 'faking orgasm (does this just mean saying the ooohhh ahhh)'?...I guess I'd have to know what having orgasm is to know how to do it...

-I read when having orgasm guys squirt alot of liquid out. is that the same for female? and customers don't mind getting wet by it? or would I have to know how to hold it and go to the toilet?

-also, there are customers review in the internet search that say some WL have a great control of their virgina...what does this mean and how do you do it or learn it?

-and things like ' yes f*** me hard' is that really said or just in the movies?

-if it is said, so customers don't get offended with swearing or using words like f*** instead of sex, p**** instead of vagina etc

-with anal sex, I get the idea but I'm worried it might cause accidental poo to come out or not?

-with fist into virgina, I'm worried if that causes cervical weakness like women who had babies or if virgina is much stronger to go back to tight small opening?

thank you for your time reading this
 
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I'm going to an adult massage place for work interview today...hope experience gained here would help me get into the industry in a slow pace more comfortable for me

any advice on adult massage places?

how much do I get?

I read some places they give payments at the end. what if they give me incorrect payment?

what adult massage do? how much 'extra' should be charged (also with brothels, what's a reasonable amount to charge extras)?

I read there is customer's hand touching private parts or oral, how do you make sure customers are clean without offending them? esp under nails or customers with fungi nails that are contagious? is there a dettol spray or I scrub them down?

are the body cleaning products provided by work (brothel/ escort/ massage) things like dettol bacteria cleaning or more focused on smell or more focused on cheap? should I carry around my own soap to clean customers?

how can you tell if customers had a good scrub or just a quick wash?
 
fudge sorryyyy but regarding the appropriate clothing for work where's the best place to buy? I'd rather by a decent one than a cheap one? is there any popular among male and female customers? e.g. colour, lace, corset etc

I read men voted black to be the favourite, is this true?

also does size of the breast matter and get more jobs?

I don't expect all these to be read but whatever is I deeply appreciate it...
 
Ahoy PM;- means, private message (a email) go to the person account and start a conversation is the same as a PM.
How old are you?
If you have a Madam phone number;- Then ring them, especially if it is a langtrees Madam
Good luck with your day;- let US know how your day went?
PS;- Virginsuicide is a horrible name tag, keep that in mind.
 

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virginsuicide said:
heart felt thank you to all who have taken the time to respond xo means so much...breath of fresh air after many blocks to my questions...

re-reading things I wrote to make sure I made sense...I realised I asked alot about before work preparation...

but I was wondering with the actual work...(not sure where the line is in this industry so sorry in advance if these questions are inappropriate but being a sex industry I'm hoping I can ask)

-what do customers like? the most asked for things (though everyone is different, on average)?

-do I do what the porn videos do? (haven't watched any but will if that's what I should do, though I did watch normal hollywood movies with sex scenes)

-what's the difference between porn and business sex and girl friend experience (never been in a relationship so don't understand how same action of having sex can be different)?

-not just the action but the reaction 'faking orgasm (does this just mean saying the ooohhh ahhh)'?...I guess I'd have to know what having orgasm is to know how to do it...

-I read when having orgasm guys squirt alot of liquid out. is that the same for female? and customers don't mind getting wet by it? or would I have to know how to hold it and go to the toilet?

-also, there are customers review in the internet search that say some WL have a great control of their virgina...what does this mean and how do you do it or learn it?

-and things like ' yes f*** me hard' is that really said or just in the movies?

-if it is said, so customers don't get offended with swearing or using words like f*** instead of sex, p**** instead of vagina etc

-with anal sex, I get the idea but I'm worried it might cause accidental poo to come out or not?

-with fist into virgina, I'm worried if that causes cervical weakness like women who had babies or if virgina is much stronger to go back to tight small opening?

thank you for your time reading this
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customers like and want different things and most of the time its a guessing game with intuition.. this comes with sexual experience and really cannot be taught...
porn videos are not how sex actually happens... unless you want to offer PORN STAR EXPERIENCE
 
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