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what were your overall thoughts on this ad?

  • did you look at the pictures attached?

    Votes: 4 80.0%

  • Do you think the advertiser is genuine?

    Votes: 4 80.0%

  • How long have you been a member?

    Votes: 2 40.0%

  • Are you in Perth?

    Votes: 4 80.0%
  • Total voters
    5
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In December last year I ended a 6 month relationship with a Chinese sex worker here in Perth. Boy oh boy, what a rollercoaster. I'm grateful to have gotten out of it alive and intact, but I have no regrets. It was simultaneously the best and worst time of my life.

Has anyone been through the same thing? Was I an absolute knucklehead to have pursued a relationship with this kind of person?

At the moment I'm somewhere in between "let's do that again!" And "I'm pretty traumatised, maybe I should get professional help". I'd like to hear all the thoughts and advice from you older, more experienced punters.
 
Josh said:
In December last year I ended a 6 month relationship with a Chinese sex worker here in Perth. Boy oh boy, what a rollercoaster. I'm grateful to have gotten out of it alive and intact, but I have no regrets. It was simultaneously the best and worst time of my life.

Has anyone been through the same thing? Was I an absolute knucklehead to have pursued a relationship with this kind of person?

At the moment I'm somewhere in between "let's do that again!" And "I'm pretty traumatised, maybe I should get professional help". I'd like to hear all the thoughts and advice from you older, more experienced punters.
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Never considered it mate. Can we have some more details? What age was the lady? What was good, what was bad? How did the breakup happen?
 
Josh123 said:
Never considered it mate. Can we have some more details? What age was the lady? What was good, what was bad? How did the breakup happen?
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She was in her mid 30s. I met her when she was advertising as a private sex worker at the end of 2020. I foolishly believed she had given up sex work, but it turns out she's working in three different massage parlours. I went down the "I don't care/turn a blind eye to it" path, but I wasn't tough enough for it.

She was using me to get her visa and retire from the industry to sponge off me, and I was just playing along with it. The sex was amazing - she's the best I ever had - and she was cooking three meals a day for me. The fights were intense though. When she stopped beating me up and started beating herself I knew it was the point of no return. I didn't want a criminal record/jail sentence just to stretch out the relationship a little longer.

I don't want to give out too much information about her because I'm sure there are people on this forum who are still using her services, and it's enough to know half of Perth was chopping up my "girlfriend".
 
Josh said:
In December last year I ended a 6 month relationship with a Chinese sex worker here in Perth. Boy oh boy, what a rollercoaster. I'm grateful to have gotten out of it alive and intact, but I have no regrets. It was simultaneously the best and worst time of my life.

Has anyone been through the same thing? Was I an absolute knucklehead to have pursued a relationship with this kind of person?

At the moment I'm somewhere in between "let's do that again!" And "I'm pretty traumatised, maybe I should get professional help". I'd like to hear all the thoughts and advice from you older, more experienced punters.
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Awesome job!
U r living the dream. Great sex great food.
It was quid pro quo though. She needed something, the PR, in return.
Every relationship is fraught with disaster at some point.
Just think about the great times you had and jump on another bike!
 
I got some great advice from a WL a while ago...
Never go into a serious relationship with a WL.
You never know if you are just a customer.
What they do, its their job, they are experts at this.
Do you really think that you are the only one, the best ever,
They would of said it to 10 other people in the same day.

Always remember.... You get the service that you paid for....
yes.. PAID FOR...

So, Pay the money, Enjoy your self, and MOVE ON...
 
DtrainMan said:
I got some great advice from a WL a while ago...
Never go into a serious relationship with a WL.
You never know if you are just a customer.
What they do, its their job, they are experts at this.
Do you really think that you are the only one, the best ever,
They would of said it to 10 other people in the same day.

Always remember.... You get the service that you paid for....
yes.. PAID FOR...

So, Pay the money, Enjoy your self, and MOVE ON...
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Yeah I get all that. I was in pretty deep with this one. At first she took weekends off to spend with me, then we moved in together, then we were trying for a baby and finally I was one week away from buying her an engagement ring when the shit hit the fan (again) in a major way.

I'm a bit of a wreck because she let me drink deeply from the horn of plenty and you simply can't pay for all that on a daily basis. Ah well, I've got a move to Japan to look forward to at some point this year.
 
Josh said:
Yeah I get all that. I was in pretty deep with this one. At first she took weekends off to spend with me, then we moved in together, then we were trying for a baby and finally I was one week away from buying her an engagement ring when the shit hit the fan (again) in a major way.

I'm a bit of a wreck because she let me drink deeply from the horn of plenty and you simply can't pay for all that on a daily basis. Ah well, I've got a move to Japan to look forward to at some point this year.
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Focus on Japan for now on and cut all ties. Fresh start new life..
 
Your choice:
1. Live a safe life on the sofa, do nothing, experience nothing, lose nothing, gain nothing.
2. live a life of experience, take a risk, feel the glory when you win, feel the pain when you lose, move on.

Actually there’s no choice for me. Option 2 is the only way.
Sounds like you had a memorable experience!!
 
Josh said:
Yeah I get all that. I was in pretty deep with this one. At first she took weekends off to spend with me, then we moved in together, then we were trying for a baby and finally I was one week away from buying her an engagement ring when the shit hit the fan (again) in a major way.

I'm a bit of a wreck because she let me drink deeply from the horn of plenty and you simply can't pay for all that on a daily basis. Ah well, I've got a move to Japan to look forward to at some point this year.
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Huh ? What is "she let me drink deeply from the horn of plenty" ?
 
I used to 'fall' in love with the first lady that let me poke her...that was until I was in Bangkok one night and the Bar girl in my room said 'watch this'...she proceeded to call her English boyfriend in the UK and started crying about how she was in a motorbike accident in her home town and needed money cos she wasn't working.
All while in the buff and stroking me...she hung up wiped her tears and gave me BJ.
Friends with benefits arrangement maybe but a full scale relationship...no way Jose.

Randii out!
 
RandiiSavage said:
I used to 'fall' in love with the first lady that let me poke her...that was until I was in Bangkok one night and the Bar girl in my room said 'watch this'...she proceeded to call her English boyfriend in the UK and started crying about how she was in a motorbike accident in her home town and needed money cos she wasn't working.
All while in the buff and stroking me...she hung up wiped her tears and gave me BJ.
Friends with benefits arrangement maybe but a full scale relationship...no way Jose.

Randii out!
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I've witnessed this first hand. I've actually been in bed with a bar girl in Cambodia when she's video called her boyfriend also in the UK. She just turned to me and said in all seriousness "you shut up now!".
 
Josh said:
Yeah I get all that. I was in pretty deep with this one. At first she took weekends off to spend with me, then we moved in together, then we were trying for a baby and finally I was one week away from buying her an engagement ring when the shit hit the fan (again) in a major way.

I'm a bit of a wreck because she let me drink deeply from the horn of plenty and you simply can't pay for all that on a daily basis. Ah well, I've got a move to Japan to look forward to at some point this year.
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Cheers for telling your story man & all the best to ya 👍
 
RandiiSavage said:
I used to 'fall' in love with the first lady that let me poke her...that was until I was in Bangkok one night and the Bar girl in my room said 'watch this'...she proceeded to call her English boyfriend in the UK and started crying about how she was in a motorbike accident in her home town and needed money cos she wasn't working.
All while in the buff and stroking me...she hung up wiped her tears and gave me BJ.
Friends with benefits arrangement maybe but a full scale relationship...no way Jose.

Randii out!
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Ohhhh yeeeeaahhhh
 
Yes I am of Asian descent, and I hear the girls all the time. Lets say on average a massage girl would see 25 men a week on average. They prob have relations with 3 to 5 men at any one time on average they give them 200 to 500 a week plus what they earn at massage most are doing 1500 to 3500 a week. The thing is Aussie men never learn.
 
Ramper said:
Yes I am of Asian descent, and I hear the girls all the time. Lets say on average a massage girl would see 25 men a week on average. They prob have relations with 3 to 5 men at any one time on average they give them 200 to 500 a week plus what they earn at massage most are doing 1500 to 3500 a week. The thing is Aussie men never learn.
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I wasn't giving her a cent, although I did pay for all our activities and eating out together. Also, I was well aware she had other guys on the fly. She said once in a heated argument (we spoke Mandarin exclusively to each other) that she "won't put me in first place anymore". It was all part of the game. As my old boy told me constantly throughout the relationship, "Just treat it like a piece of meat. Have fun and don't fall in love."
 
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