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Would you marry your wl.

sparky said:
I married a AMP who never gave FS at the shop. well not to me and i trust her when she says to others too.
She asked to marry me so she could get PR for her and her 2 kids so they could all have a better life here.
Sounded like a good idea and finally get there with her, little head thinking more there.
We became more friendly and "dated" I picked her up from work etc .
She made it clear it would cost me nothing and she wanted nothing more from me.
We got married and she loved me but I never loved her back and kept visiting AMPs which she knew about , but didn't approve , she also kept working and as far as I know gave nothing more than HJs still
Didn't really faze me as I had a live in masseuse, cleaner, cook and sex if wanted
Win Win
When finally after 2 years she got PR and kids moved out she rented a house as mine was unsuitable and
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1steelrod said:
I don't know if it is covit stress or the anxiety of maybe being sent back home but I have had 3 different girls ask me if I would be willing to marry them. This past 2 months.
The question is whether I should. As I could be very well interested in 1 for sure and 1 other would be fun if things were different. The third girl. No.
So if you were given a opportunity would you take it.
This first girl said after the new year she is willing to come home with me and see if it suits her.
I am going to take a punt and go for it and see what happens. I am sure it will still cost me something but not sure what. ?.
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Well to say this. The girl has called every day. And video called me. She seems to be very interested in what I am doing during the day. Has asked me what I want from her. My input seems to be accepted. And is coming with me in the next week. So I will keep you posted on what has happened. Ok.
 
1steelrod said:
I don't know if it is covit stress or the anxiety of maybe being sent back home but I have had 3 different girls ask me if I would be willing to marry them. This past 2 months.
The question is whether I should. As I could be very well interested in 1 for sure and 1 other would be fun if things were different. The third girl. No.
So if you were given a opportunity would you take it.
This first girl said after the new year she is willing to come home with me and see if it suits her.
I am going to take a punt and go for it and see what happens. I am sure it will still cost me something but not sure what. ?.
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Are you being asked as a business proposition?
 
Would be nothing worse than going to work every day and wondering If your missus is also out working . Good luck with your decision mate .
 
I have come across numerous WL's who have expressed in interest in having a relationship, some reasons are, as suggested, purely to obtain PR, some believing you are well off financally & want some of your hard earned & some because they genuinely take a liking to you.. However as one girl,who, BTW, had one of the best bodies I have ever seen without her clothes on, said to me, luv round eyes but the cultural differences, in her opinion would be too great.!!
 
Well as long as know it is only you
Obbie said:
Would be nothing worse than going to work every day and wondering If your missus is also out working . Good luck with your decision mate .
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Aa long as I know that it is only you Lot of Hard riders. Low riders. Ass bandits. Fanny lickers . Feltures. Fence jumpers and the sick and twisted I think it should be OK.
K. I have read nearly all your posts so I know what kind of sick bastards you lot are . I know that she won't be putting her health at risk by letting any of you lot . Lick her. Or Fuck her without protection . She doesn't do ANAL SEX. So I don't have to worry about all you ass bandits. More of a worry about those that slip or rip the rubber and get a little bit of natural. Otherwise I think I am OK with it. If my mental health is OK in the next few weeks I think it should work. Otherwise I will finish it. ?
 
1steelrod said:
Well as long as know it is only you

Aa long as I know that it is only you Lot of Hard riders. Low riders. Ass bandits. Fanny lickers . Feltures. Fence jumpers and the sick and twisted I think it should be OK.
K. I have read nearly all your posts so I know what kind of sick bastards you lot are . I know that she won't be putting her health at risk by letting any of you lot . Lick her. Or f**k her without protection . She doesn't do ANAL SEX. So I don't have to worry about all you ass bandits. More of a worry about those that slip or rip the rubber and get a little bit of natural. Otherwise I think I am OK with it. If my mental health is OK in the next few weeks I think it should work. Otherwise I will finish it. ?
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Always around to help 😇
 
1steelrod said:
I don't know if it is covit stress or the anxiety of maybe being sent back home but I have had 3 different girls ask me if I would be willing to marry them. This past 2 months.
The question is whether I should. As I could be very well interested in 1 for sure and 1 other would be fun if things were different. The third girl. No.
So if you were given a opportunity would you take it.
This first girl said after the new year she is willing to come home with me and see if it suits her.
I am going to take a punt and go for it and see what happens. I am sure it will still cost me something but not sure what. ?.
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Steelie, you have one very difficult decision to make. I, like Master Yoda, have some experience with something similar, back in the day. Falling for a WL, "Big Time". The opposite of your situation, sure, but involving matters of the heart. Given that you are considering this to either help her out or in fact settle down with her, your heart is definitely involved.

The advice so far on this thread has been worthy of note and you may choose to consider it all, except perhaps the most extreme, as those pieces of advice may be either the exception, or from a non involved perception. You must admit that on the face of it, marrying a WL is not necessarily how we expected our love life to commence. I married my first wife partly because she was a virgin when we met. That may be all a part of my insecurities as a young bloke and I can tell you that I have matured somewhat since then; not become hard or cold, but I like myself much more and care less about what others think of my decisions. After-all, my decision affect only my future. So too do yours and nobody can walk a mile in your shoes.

I can tell you that these sorts of relationships are actually not that different to more "normal, or run of the mill" relationships and I defy anybody to deny that. Relationships succeed and fail every day and the vast majority of relationships are not with WLs.

So; if this is a business proposition and you are comfortable with the risk versus the return, then what do you have to lose?
If you are in love with this lady and she with you, quite honestly, all bets are off and anything is on the table. Welcome to life.

If she wants the best of both worlds (married and continuing to work), then in my opinion that is just cold and she wants to use you. Unless, of course you can accept that particular situation. I couldn't, but that is my story. You may actually benefit financially from it and that too may be acceptable, or even preferable.

Consider also that if this is a short term arrangement to benefit her and it ends in divorce, your eventual wife may not be quite as accepting or understanding and the past may rear its ugly head for you sometime in the future.

Whatever you choose I wish you good luck. I do say that I completely understand your consideration of the offer and commend you for your thoughtfulness and compassion.

I.... AM.... SPIKEY
 
Well fellow forum members . As discussed before about accepting a WL.
It would seem that cold feet and a lack of commitment.
From this girl.
She has decided not to proceed any further with this . And for reasons unknown to me has removed my number.
So after agreement was put in place and where we were just about to get started it has ended. . Thanks for all your input on this. I appreciate all your comments and suggestions. Cheers and have a wonderful year.
 
1steelrod said:
Well fellow forum members . As discussed before about accepting a WL.
It would seem that cold feet and a lack of commitment.
From this girl.
She has decided not to proceed any further with this . And for reasons unknown to me has removed my number.
So after agreement was put in place and where we were just about to get started it has ended. . Thanks for all your input on this. I appreciate all your comments and suggestions. Cheers and have a wonderful year.
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Sorry to hear that Steelie. However, it may be for the best. The Universe has a way of looking out for the good people
 
1steelrod said:
Well fellow forum members . As discussed before about accepting a WL.
It would seem that cold feet and a lack of commitment.
From this girl.
She has decided not to proceed any further with this . And for reasons unknown to me has removed my number.
So after agreement was put in place and where we were just about to get started it has ended. . Thanks for all your input on this. I appreciate all your comments and suggestions. Cheers and have a wonderful year.
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" Great ecape " or " the Lotto ticket you lost " ??
We'll never know .. maybe better that way me thinks

Cheers for the insight Steelrod ..
 
1steelrod said:
Well fellow forum members . As discussed before about accepting a WL.
It would seem that cold feet and a lack of commitment.
From this girl.
She has decided not to proceed any further with this . And for reasons unknown to me has removed my number.
So after agreement was put in place and where we were just about to get started it has ended. . Thanks for all your input on this. I appreciate all your comments and suggestions. Cheers and have a wonderful year.
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Hope you are ok, as it reads like you liked her as well.
Maybe a result for the best.
 
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