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Would you marry your wl.

1steelrod

1steelrod

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I don't know if it is covit stress or the anxiety of maybe being sent back home but I have had 3 different girls ask me if I would be willing to marry them. This past 2 months.
The question is whether I should. As I could be very well interested in 1 for sure and 1 other would be fun if things were different. The third girl. No.
So if you were given a opportunity would you take it.
This first girl said after the new year she is willing to come home with me and see if it suits her.
I am going to take a punt and go for it and see what happens. I am sure it will still cost me something but not sure what. ?.
 
Gotta be a trap.
If the lady is expensive now you will be up for a high maintenance experience until you have no money left.
My Opinion
It will alway's be in the back of your mind that she was a WL, How many of your mates had fun with her,
Everybody will admire your new found accessory
Can't say you won't have plenty of fun in the meantime, Because she was a WL all ya mates will wanna have a crack as well.
I would, But I am the Frenchman, Although I'm a Gentleman I have no hesitation in taking an opportunity especially with a beautiful women.

Good Luck
 
Don't forget to weight up the pros and the cons and whether she is willing to give up the WL life or continue it after marriage. As a rare few men can withstand sharing them with the general population. And the constant jealously of what if she finds another one better then you, can twist your soul sour in the end. I've heard a few stories in the past of WLs married and cheating< if you know what i mean>. Need alot of trust in this type of relationship.

Also there have been a fair amount of happy endings with a fair amount of WLs retiring and settling down for good too.

So you have to see what her true intents are for one< to get PR only and divorce or not> are legit, and what outcome you want in the end.

But take it as it comes step by step, and see where it takes you. Just don't rush into it, and remember to have fun.
 
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Brutally honest if you do this you’re absolute idiot and nothing good will come of this, don’t be a moron it’s never worth it even if they give you a sob story consider the consequences that can come of legally binding someone to everything you own, there’s plenty of horror stories out there from this very situation
 
Think you left out the critical information here, which someone has already raised. Whether by coming home with you, means she will stop being a WL. If so, this also means she also needs to trust that you will marry her, otherwise it would be the case she loses her source of income and you get free sex.
 
asianguy77 said:
Think you left out the critical information here, which someone has already raised. Whether by coming home with you, means she will stop being a WL. If so, this also means she also needs to trust that you will marry her, otherwise it would be the case she loses her source of income and you get free sex.
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justify it all you like it’s a terrible idea and generally always ends in a bad way
 
Somehow the movie "Pretty woman" comes to mind.
Lots of factor to consider:
How long has the WL been in the country, does she have bf, husband or childern overseas?
Age of the WL - maturity and willingness of settle down?
Most importantly, if the relationship doesn't workout - how much can you afford to loose emotionally and financially in a relationship?
(Also, similar to any relationship - factor in child support if children involved.)
Once bitten twice shy, that's probably the main reason for me to visit WL.
But a loving relationship is something that cannot be explained or measure by logic.
(I am probably over thinking here)
Whatever you choose to do, good luck in your journey 🙂
 
1steelrod said:
I don't know if it is covit stress or the anxiety of maybe being sent back home but I have had 3 different girls ask me if I would be willing to marry them. This past 2 months.
The question is whether I should. As I could be very well interested in 1 for sure and 1 other would be fun if things were different. The third girl. No.
So if you were given a opportunity would you take it.
This first girl said after the new year she is willing to come home with me and see if it suits her.
I am going to take a punt and go for it and see what happens. I am sure it will still cost me something but not sure what. ?.
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Have you ever been married before and become divorced with kids?

Suggest spending some time as a spectator at family court.
Suggest discussing this with @Master Yoda

In regards to marriage in general...
It takes two people to agree to marriage and only one to divorce. Also, why get into a legally binding contract where one party is paid to end it?
 
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1 Steelrod
i ya working, she will be as well, sorry mate but that will be how she keeps her lifestyle.
from what i can work out. most enjoy the attention and it would be difficult to go away from that.

Not everyone will know she used to be a WL, But the truth will eventually surface.

Suggestion,
this may be harsh OK

Move on to a non committed new girl.

I have had 3 divorces 2 very messy with finances, 1 i still talk to but do not have a relationship with.
 
1steelrod said:
I don't know if it is covit stress or the anxiety of maybe being sent back home but I have had 3 different girls ask me if I would be willing to marry them. This past 2 months.
The question is whether I should. As I could be very well interested in 1 for sure and 1 other would be fun if things were different. The third girl. No.
So if you were given a opportunity would you take it.
This first girl said after the new year she is willing to come home with me and see if it suits her.
I am going to take a punt and go for it and see what happens. I am sure it will still cost me something but not sure what. ?.
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Offers to marry, becoming a couple isn’t such a rare occurence even at the first visit. I’ve found that several factors or combination of factors motivate the WL to make such a request depending on what she is like as a person- if one can really say you know them and not they’re working persona. Remember after a lady orgasms she is quite vulnerable emotionally and I always acknowledge what she says but they can be caught up in the moment as well, for instance, she might have had a difficult day and a pleasant customer comes in.

Like any potential relationship, basically it’s good to find out what they’re like, can you live with this person or as mentioned earlier, risk the legal mire of divorce, free sex is great but not a game changer. Remember cultural differences, expectations can be good, can be a hindrance. I always reply and mention seeing you in this room with four walls is not in the slightest, a real life situation, we really need to know each other as a person, implying to catch up outside their work environment. Then I hint that they can make the offer of catching up for coffee, meal, as an example. So it becomes more a normal scenario, going out for several dates and see if the attraction is really there, can you see yourself with her, what they’re really like as a person and they’re motivation. I’ve been made the offer from WL’s who are permanent residents and not just visa seekers, so can’t generalise.

It’s to be fair on yourself and the lady. Lots of mistakes can be made by being carried away by the moment.
 
1steelrod said:
Yep just finished reading yoda,s post. Interesting article. Tread lighty. Eyes open. Don't over think. React calmly. Enjoy your self. It may be a short lived once she knows that I am just a poor Aussie battler. OVER 50 and still working.
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It really depends 1steelrod, they are only human after all, seeking companionship from the opposite sex. Ppl tend to forget that when seeing them. There are a few humble batch in there that only want someone they like to spend time with despite of their work, earn a decent wage< not on centerlink and a bum> and a roof over their heads.

They too know the taboo questions they all face when meeting other ppl and saying how they met or what their job is. So marriage isn't really in their cards the moment they signed up to be a WL.

So like my previous Answer take it step by step and have fun. Don't rush.
 
Can’t comment from personal experience here but it does sound like a land-mine. Make sure you think with your big head, not your cock (difficult I know for us to do sometimes).

If you go ahead with it, at least it seems like your eyes will be open to the potential pitfalls. GL
 
Like many, probably because of my age and marriage experience, am very cautious.

Never met the peoples, so a purely "What If Hypothetical" ....
... would our advice all be the same if it was 1Steelrod and the girl for example Vanessa?
 
Mulletman said:
Don't forget to weight up the pros and the cons and whether she is willing to give up the WL life or continue it after marriage. As a rare few men can withstand sharing them with the general population. And the constant jealously of what if she finds another one better then you, can twist your soul sour in the end. I've heard a few stories in the past of WLs married and cheating< if you know what i mean>. Need alot of trust in this type of relationship.

Also there have been a fair amount of happy endings with a fair amount of WLs retiring and settling down for good too.

So you have to see what her true intents are for one< to get PR only and divorce or not> are legit, and what outcome you want in the end.

But take it as it comes step by step, and see where it takes you. Just don't rush into it, and remember to have fun.
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1steelrod said:
I don't know if it is covit stress or the anxiety of maybe being sent back home but I have had 3 different girls ask me if I would be willing to marry them. This past 2 months.
The question is whether I should. As I could be very well interested in 1 for sure and 1 other would be fun if things were different. The third girl. No.
So if you were given a opportunity would you take it.
This first girl said after the new year she is willing to come home with me and see if it suits her.
I am going to take a punt and go for it and see what happens. I am sure it will still cost me something but not sure what. ?.
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Australia is the best country in the world - the PR rules have tightened up in the past few years leaving “marriage” to a citizen as the best option for many an AMP girl - take care mate as you may end up buying the most expensive HJ in history
 
Channelle said:
Like many, probably because of my age and marriage experience, am very cautious.

Never met the peoples, so a purely "What If Hypothetical" ....
... would our advice all be the same if it was 1Steelrod and the girl for example Vanessa?
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Vanessa is a permanent resident, which would alter her intentions. She is a very different personality away from her cheeky work identity.
 
I married a AMP who never gave FS at the shop. well not to me and i trust her when she says to others too.
She asked to marry me so she could get PR for her and her 2 kids so they could all have a better life here.
Sounded like a good idea and finally get there with her, little head thinking more there.
We became more friendly and "dated" I picked her up from work etc .
She made it clear it would cost me nothing and she wanted nothing more from me.
We got married and she loved me but I never loved her back and kept visiting AMPs which she knew about , but didn't approve , she also kept working and as far as I know gave nothing more than HJs still
Didn't really faze me as I had a live in masseuse, cleaner, cook and sex if wanted
Win Win
When finally after 2 years she got PR and kids moved out she rented a house as mine was unsuitable and expected me to follow to rental (I already own my house) I stayed put and we then lived separate for 2 yrs before we divorced
True to her word she has cost me very little and she wanted nothing when we divorced , it's all final and we are still friends

Go with your gut feeling and be careful it could work out or you could get stung , all my mates thought i would get stung ,maybe i just got lucky and she appreciated what i did for her and her kids
 
sparky said:
I married a AMP who never gave FS at the shop. well not to me and i trust her when she says to others too.

Dude.
You are the exception I feel, Very lucky man, and gr8 that you are still friends with her
I guess there are some exceptionally strong independent lady's out there working as WL's and they are not all just money or opportunity grabbers.
Faith in the reality of life I say

2 of my ex wife do not like me at all but have accepted the kids need to see the stupid father.
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aaron.lee said:
1SteelRod
No one is in a better position to make a call than yourself.
Do what you want to but have some lateral awareness.
Good luck.
Hope it works out well for you.
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I totally agree with Aaron.lee .. only you can decide Steelrod about your WL, but for me I wouldn't NEVER EVER contemplate it.
honestly, I reckon I coulda been married at least 10 times in my functional alzhiemers memory span ..
Yes , they're looking for love just like almost everyone is , but what they really ❤ after just a little while might not be yur heart.
having said that , let her move in and try before you put it on lay-by 😁
and let us know how things go ..

HAPPY NEW 2022 to ya 👍👍
 
Its an expensive trap...
They either want their PR or money... pick one
They will say and do anything to get what they want.....
Also, they will have a few boyfriends/fionce's on the side...
I was told by a few WL's... Do not go out with a WL... You don't know if you are the customer or not!
Just do what you need to do, pay the money and go...
don't forget... they get paid to be your girlfriend for the hour... nothing more..
 
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