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Would a Cuddly Massage be popular?

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I am putting together the service list and have thought that some men don't like traditional style Massages : they just want a cuddle with an affectionate lady.

This massage would be done in Lingerie, to take away the temptation for extra's. It would allow the gentleman to massage the lady, a gentle stroking massage between each other, whilst they cuddled and whispered sweet nothing together for the hour.
Of course near the end a gentle unforgettable ending would occur
I have been offered this incredible bed see the photo below. Please let me know your thoughts as I appreciate your feedback.
It would be the therapists choice if she offered this service, just like some ladies offer a Kink Massage.


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I had trouble spelling cuddly so looked up the dictionary and snipped it as I thought it was interesting

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I like most kinds of services depending upon what mood I'm in on the day so it definitely sounds like something I'd be interested in as I have days where I just want a massage and cuddle rather than a F/S work out.

I'd also be interested in an option of no clothing but perhaps don't include that and leave that up to the lady to decide at the time if she's comfortable with it as I have no issue with control in those situations but I do like the skin contact as that's what I miss most since being single again.
 
Beep:Yes I kept putting in cuddlie and it just didn't look right.I was having a blockage. LOL.

User 184, my thought it would be for newbies or people not used to massage.Massage has been a growing market for only 20 years and their are thousands of people out their that are scared of massage. I was recently in Bali and a group of us went for a massage. One bloke around 50 said he had never had one and it took a lot of convincing him to try. I had to tell the girl to go very soft and gentle with him as he was so nervous of been touched. I had to have my massage in the same room with him. The first 15 minutes he was really fidgety, but by the end of it he fell asleep, and he went back the next day on his own.
I thought the Cuddly Massage would be a way to break the ice.

Dallas you hit the nail its about the skin contact
.By the way clients that like to massage the ladies, I would like to hear your comments.
 
When I first got divorced one thing I really missed was giving my partner a massage so it's something I used to book a lady for occasionally. However, it couldn't be with just anyone so there had to be some level of connection there, but hopefully she enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed giving it. I'd happily give one a couple of times a week but given my limited income and that it costs the same to give a massage as it does to receive F/S, I mostly lean towards the F/S.
 
Mary-Anne K said:
.By the way clients that like to massage the ladies, I would like to hear your comments.
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I've been a client of @Wink Massage :peeking:(and PT before that) for some time so I hope that they don't think I'm 'crossing the floor' with this post. :)

I could easily spent almost equal time, perhaps more, at massaging the ladies as I would receiving a massage.

I'd probably spend even more time at it if the height of the tables would adjust to my height more readily.
The strain on my back would often see me in the need of a lower back massage that was not necessary before I had entered the premises. LOL.

Flexible furniture arrangements would be a welcome treat as I tend to appreciate simply sitting and caressing and idle chatter moments (especially if I feel the masseuse has been working enough that day).
Perhaps it sounds strange to others that I pay to concern myself over the masseuse but I'd like to believe in a 'what goes round, comes round' existence. So, I suppose, if look after the masseuse then the better the chance that the masseuse will continue to be around to look after me.

Now I'm not suggesting that this would necessarily be suitable between all client and masseuse 'pairings' and would generally require that both parties are at least comfortable in each others' presence. Mostly helped by the masseuse appearing to have the correct work attitude, and infectious personality helps too.;)
 
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MrLittle said:
I've been a client of @Wink Massage :peeking:(and PT before that) for some time so I hope that they don't think I'm 'crossing the floor' with this post. :)

I could easily spent almost equal time, perhaps more, at massaging the ladies as I would receiving a massage.

I'd probably spend even more time at it if the height of the tables would adjust to my height more readily.
The strain on my back would often see me in the need of a lower back massage that was not necessary before I had entered the premises. LOL.

Flexible furniture arrangements would be a welcome treat as I tend to appreciate simply sitting and caressing and idle chatter moments (especially if I feel the masseuse has been working enough that day).
Perhaps it sounds strange to others that I pay to concern myself over the masseuse but I'd like to believe in a 'what goes round, comes round' existence. So, I suppose, if look after the masseuse then the better the chance that the masseuse will continue to be around to look after me.

Now I'm not suggesting that this would necessarily be suitable between all client and masseuse 'pairings' and would generally require that both parties are at least comfortable in each others' presence. Mostly helped by the masseuse appearing to have the correct work attitude, and infectious personality helps too.;)
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We definitely don't think you're 'crossing the floor' Mr Little.
Everyone has a right to their opinion and to comment on posts and the more constructive the comments and the information given, the more we all learn. So no problem here!
 
I also agree that their is no crossing the lines, Wink Massage are a paying member of this forum, and the I always consider the members own the forum I just manage the set up.
Winks & Secrets will be competition but I firmly believe that we can both get our full quota per week and give the clients a choice. Do we go to the same restaurant every time, so we have many personal favorites depending on how we feel that day.
Members your comments are invaluable.
 
MrLittle said:
I've been a client of @Wink Massage :peeking:(and PT before that) for some time so I hope that they don't think I'm 'crossing the floor' with this post. :)

I could easily spent almost equal time, perhaps more, at massaging the ladies as I would receiving a massage.

I'd probably spend even more time at it if the height of the tables would adjust to my height more readily.
The strain on my back would often see me in the need of a lower back massage that was not necessary before I had entered the premises. LOL.

Flexible furniture arrangements would be a welcome treat as I tend to appreciate simply sitting and caressing and idle chatter moments (especially if I feel the masseuse has been working enough that day).
Perhaps it sounds strange to others that I pay to concern myself over the masseuse but I'd like to believe in a 'what goes round, comes round' existence. So, I suppose, if look after the masseuse then the better the chance that the masseuse will continue to be around to look after me.

Now I'm not suggesting that this would necessarily be suitable between all client and masseuse 'pairings' and would generally require that both parties are at least comfortable in each others' presence. Mostly helped by the masseuse appearing to have the correct work attitude, and infectious personality helps too.;)
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I must agree I have always enjoyed our little chit chats and highly recommended you become a male masseuse as you do a lovely job on all my achy muscles heehee

Xxx
 
Maria would like the ladies feed back also, on the cuddly massage, I know that not all girls would like the cuddly massage and it would be a choice, but would you feel comfortable lying on a bed or sofa with the client next to you. Would it be to tempting for the client to try to force sexual extra's is the feedback I am seeking.
Do clients that massage you try to go to far, is waht concerns me.
I myself started in Masage Only 30 years ago so trying to get a feel for what they want today as so many services are offered now days that we never offered in those days, and I am meaning when I massaged and worked in full service no oral, no touching,absolutely no kissing it was very limited then.
As the industry got larger these services came in.. When I worked in Massage only we did 5-10 bookings a day back to back. The clients had to take the next girl in turn unless he requested a lady by name.I would do 3-5 special requests a day so I must have given a pretty good massage and happy ending as it used to confuse the business how I was the highest special requester when I was a dumpy 28yr old working with some of Wellingtons beautiful models.
We also had to do an nude massage with no extra's guaranteed. Straight hand Relief was $30 for the girl in those days and affectionate body slide massage was $50. The house had already charged the client $40 for room rent.
Writing this got me thinking back as we also had to scrub out the shower block and toilets before we were allowed to go home. Can you imagine what that felt like after doing 5 -10 massages in a 8 hour shift. One day I did a double shift and did 16 clients, they all had extra's @$50 each except for one that day.$800 35 years ago is like $4000 today.
I only had one day with 5 massages and no extra's at all. Going home I realized I had a fight with my boyfriend the night before and I had taken it to work in my attitude, so I never did that again.
 
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Mary-Anne K said:
Maria would like the ladies feed back also, on the cuddly massage, I know that not all girls would like the cuddly massage and it would be a choice, but would you feel comfortable lying on a bed or sofa with the client next to you. Would it be to tempting for the client to try to force sexual extra's is the feedback I am seeking.
Do clients that massage you try to go to far, is waht concerns me.
I myself started in Masage Only 30 years ago so trying to get a feel for what they want today as so many services are offered now days that we never offered in those days, and I am meaning when I massaged and worked in full service no oral, no touching,absolutely no kissing it was very limited then.
As the industry got larger these services came in.. When I worked in Massage only we did 5-10 bookings a day back to back. The clients had to take the next girl in turn unless he requested a lady by name.I would do 3-5 special requests a day so I must have given a pretty good massage and happy ending as it used to confuse the business how I was the highest special requester when I was a dumpy 28yr old working with some of Wellingtons beautiful models.
We also had to do an nude massage with no extra's guaranteed. Straight hand Relief was $30 for the girl in those days and affectionate body slide massage was $50. The house had already charged the client $40 for room rent.
Writing this got me thinking back as we also had to scrub out the shower block and toilets before we were allowed to go home. Can you imagine what that felt like after doing 5 -10 massages in a 8 hour shift. One day I did a double shift and did 16 clients, they all had extra's @$50 each except for one that day.$800 35 years ago is like $4000 today.
I only had one day with 5 massages and no extra's at all. Going home I realized I had a fight with my boyfriend the night before and I had taken it to work in my attitude, so I never did that again.
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When it comes to cuddly massages I lay down the rules quite firmly, but also judge whether or not to recieve a massage by the gentleman depending on how he behaved when I massaged him first (touchy feely, not very nice verbal comments etc). So I guess it comes down to trust and whether the girl herself can maintain the limits that have been set by herself :-)

But some clients do try to be sneaky in forcing extras that aren't available so the girl has to understand that these circumstances can arise and how to appropriately diffuse the situation before it gets to a point of no return

Hope that helped
Xx
 
Yes it does,you write so much clearer than me. I thought maybe a sign in the shower that if you ask for sexual extras Head Jobs or Sex the Therapist has the right to terminate the massage with no refund.
 
Maria said:
I must agree I have always enjoyed our little chit chats and highly recommended you become a male masseuse as you do a lovely job on all my achy muscles heehee

Xxx
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Aw shucks! You're too kind. You just want to make sure I come back for that sandwich I promised. hehe. ;)
 
Could Mr Little be the perfect tester. I like to have one or two clients that get a one half hour and one full hour for training sessions with the new ladies.They pay half price for privilege and must write a honest review and give the lady a honest score. This review is not for the forum only management and the lady unless she requests it is published.
 
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Victoria Secrets Massage 0458 855 501 said:
I am putting together the service list and have thought that some men don't like traditional style Massages : they just want a cuddle with an affectionate lady.

This massage would be done in Lingerie, to take away the temptation for extra's. It would allow the gentleman to massage the lady, a gentle stroking massage between each other, whilst they cuddled and whispered sweet nothing together for the hour.
Of course near the end a gentle unforgettable ending would occur
I have been offered this incredible bed see the photo below. Please let me know your thoughts as I appreciate your feedback.
It would be the therapists choice if she offered this service, just like some ladies offer a Kink Massage.


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That is an amazing bed. Having spent a few years now in this industry as a receptionist in several venues now I can def vouch for the fact that some clients are just wanting to experience some of the TLC they are missing in their lives. A chance to feel the warmth of another's skin against theirs. Closeness and a hug. !!! I have had quite a few clients just want that from the lady of their choice. They return frequently to enjoy some cuddles !!! I have had customers express the pleasure that hour or so of cuddles had meant to them. I think its def a valuable service to provide for those on both sides - therapist ( feeling comfortable offering ) and for the client
 
I had a favourite WL at Yokine, Fiona who used to lay down naked beside me on the table and we would chat about life in general. I absolutely love it more than anything. Nothing would happen until she initiated it.

Then down to business ;)

I miss it :(
 
Mary-Anne K said:
I also agree that their is no crossing the lines, Wink Massage are a paying member of this forum, and the I always consider the members own the forum I just manage the set up.
Winks & Secrets will be competition but I firmly believe that we can both get our full quota per week and give the clients a choice. Do we go to the same restaurant every time, so we have many personal favorites depending on how we feel that day.
Members your comments are invaluable.
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I'm a lover of shoes and clothes. I have a favorite brand but that doesn't stop any lady buying elsewhere!! I am sure that many clients drop in to different venues for 1. Demographics - I'm in that area and I have both the time and in need of some pampering
2. Have certain ladies they love in diffent places who at that particular point in their day they wish to see!

How boring if our palate was one dimenionable!!!
Competition is healthy it drives us to improve, sets bench marks and deliver satisfaction/service and in all that provide a unique experience to a broad cosmopolitan of clientele within our industry!! Good grief imagine if there was only one shoe shop in Perth - I'd be bored and limited by my choices due to lack of the same!! Bring it on I say. We can all have a slice of the pie - the scope tho is up to us and how we deliver !!!
 
Well said Amanda, took me a while to figure out which Amanda, like 10 seconds, you write so wonderfully have you any time to help me set up our brochures in the near future...bad pay but lots of fun. Did our business cards today which I will post soon, Ian and I were at loggerheads as we explored some new idea's then presto we joined them together and came up with the perfect logo and layout for all our marketing campaigns.
I personally think its the best we have done and Langtreees will want a revamp very shortly for Perth & Canberra cards.
 
Xtraman not all men are a gentleman like you.I am making them keep their lingerie on they can charge $20 extra if they comfortable to go naked, and not cross the lines, if they cross the lines, they will not be able to work with Secrets, they would have to go to Full Service or Darwin.
 
Mary-Anne K said:
Well said Amanda, took me a while to figure out which Amanda, like 10 seconds, you write so wonderfully have you any time to help me set up our brochures in the near future...bad pay but lots of fun. Did our business cards today which I will post soon, Ian and I were at loggerheads as we explored some new idea's then presto we joined them together and came up with the perfect logo and layout for all our marketing campaigns.
I personally think its the best we have done and Langtreees will want a revamp very shortly for Perth & Canberra cards.
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I'd love to!! Always up for fun and be a pleasure to be involved
 
I love giving massages and am an expert on Cuddly massages....I just get so much pleasure seeing
my partner almost falling asleep because she is so relaxed.
 
Everybody loves a cuddle.
The gentle caress and touch everybody seeks.
Very cuddly relax. I am sure you will give the pleasure that your customer is seeking.
 
A 'caressage'[TM] is one of my favourite forms of an RnT booking when I just want (need) some warm, intimate female contact. This is where it isn't so much a massage with oil, bodysliding and such but rather a gentle two-way caressing, with plenty of teasing and tickling in those special spots. With most ladies, varying degrees of kissing is also usually involved and, with some long-term regulars at least, mutual happy endings and even DATY (though cunnilingus is beyond what I would think of as typical in a RnT session).

So a cuddly massage sounds very nice, but what would constitute extras and what would be totally off-limits would need to be carefully considered.
 
Dallas said:
When I first got divorced one thing I really missed was giving my partner a massage so it's something I used to book a lady for occasionally. However, it couldn't be with just anyone so there had to be some level of connection there, but hopefully she enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed giving it. I'd happily give one a couple of times a week but given my limited income and that it costs the same to give a massage as it does to receive F/S, I mostly lean towards the F/S.
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I would certainly be a happy guy if this was offered as an official service. I always try to opt for it I I can but I feel like I will embarrass the lady (or myself) if I ask. I therefore get the receptionist to ask before I arrive.

I have certain favourites who just lap up the massage so that makes me want to do it more. There really is something about seeing the pleasure you are giving that I just....satisfying?

In summary....count me in!
 
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