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Worst experience of my life ☹

Funcool32 said:
Last Saturday I had the worst experience of my life. It was so bad that I actually felt violated and depressed all weekend. It has put me off WLs for good. I am serious!

I don't want to say who it was, because she was a nice lady, and at the least, if i provided her some money to put food on the table for a week, that gives me some contentment.

I was completely sick of false ads. I can't afford the expensive high class establishments and I can't take the risk of running into someone I know, so my only option is a private girl. I was sick of the Asian ladies (as you can see from my previous post), who provide a good service, but are just unreliable and extremely busy all the time. So I found a mature woman not too far from where I live. Her photos looked okay, but didn't show much. I asked for more pics and she said she couldn't provide them, but no one had ever turned away from her door after seeing her (this should've been alarm bell 1).
When I arrived in her street, I had to call her. She sounded older on the phone than her ad stated (alarm bell 2).
By this stage I was too horny to turn back. I proceeded to her place. When she came to the door, it was kinda dark, her hair covered most of her face and she had a gown, so I couldn't see her figure. But I guessed she was not the age she put in her ad (alarm bell 3... ding ding ding, I should've run!).
But something about me... I think I'm a sex addict... either that or I have very high testosterone. I am a nice guy too. I find it extremely difficult to turn away from a WL, even if I initially don't have an attraction.

So I persisted and handed over the money. It wasn't cheap either. Once she de-gowned, I immediately regretted my decision. This lady was nowhere near her stated age. She must've been close to 70! Or older!! Sorry, I like older women, but there's a line. I had no attraction to this lady. She sounded like she was struggling to breathe. I started feeling trapped. There's so much more I could describe, but I'm already feeling terrible enough.

I allowed things to go on for a bit, but then when it was about to get intimate, I looked at the clock and jumped up in shock, claiming I didn't realise the time and had to be somewhere in 10 mins time. I apologised and got changed and got the hell out of there.

The money I had saved up for this day, only to leave completely unsatisfied and feeling the worst I had felt in years.

Never again! I know you're not all the same and there are wonderful girls out there, but I'm done with WLs. The wonderful girls are all out of my league.
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You are extremely polite and respectful in your review despite your disgusting experience. You seem to be a good man :)
 
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Funcool32 said:
Last Saturday I had the worst experience of my life. It was so bad that I actually felt violated and depressed all weekend. It has put me off WLs for good. I am serious!

I don't want to say who it was, because she was a nice lady, and at the least, if i provided her some money to put food on the table for a week, that gives me some contentment.

I was completely sick of false ads. I can't afford the expensive high class establishments and I can't take the risk of running into someone I know, so my only option is a private girl. I was sick of the Asian ladies (as you can see from my previous post), who provide a good service, but are just unreliable and extremely busy all the time. So I found a mature woman not too far from where I live. Her photos looked okay, but didn't show much. I asked for more pics and she said she couldn't provide them, but no one had ever turned away from her door after seeing her (this should've been alarm bell 1).
When I arrived in her street, I had to call her. She sounded older on the phone than her ad stated (alarm bell 2).
By this stage I was too horny to turn back. I proceeded to her place. When she came to the door, it was kinda dark, her hair covered most of her face and she had a gown, so I couldn't see her figure. But I guessed she was not the age she put in her ad (alarm bell 3... ding ding ding, I should've run!).
But something about me... I think I'm a sex addict... either that or I have very high testosterone. I am a nice guy too. I find it extremely difficult to turn away from a WL, even if I initially don't have an attraction.

So I persisted and handed over the money. It wasn't cheap either. Once she de-gowned, I immediately regretted my decision. This lady was nowhere near her stated age. She must've been close to 70! Or older!! Sorry, I like older women, but there's a line. I had no attraction to this lady. She sounded like she was struggling to breathe. I started feeling trapped. There's so much more I could describe, but I'm already feeling terrible enough.

I allowed things to go on for a bit, but then when it was about to get intimate, I looked at the clock and jumped up in shock, claiming I didn't realise the time and had to be somewhere in 10 mins time. I apologised and got changed and got the hell out of there.

The money I had saved up for this day, only to leave completely unsatisfied and feeling the worst I had felt in years.

Never again! I know you're not all the same and there are wonderful girls out there, but I'm done with WLs. The wonderful girls are all out of my league.
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The times I’ve regretted have all been when I’ve persisted through alarm bells because I’m a people pleaser. Turning up to a high class apartment where the blinds are drawn and it’s dingy so I can not clearly see a face, having women who barely understand English, the gowned much older woman, and those who have a shed out the back of the house and don’t do anything intimate but don’t say that until near the end of the session.

I’ve got to get better at stopping at any of these points and leaving and demanding the money back. And alerting others on forums.
 
Funcool32 said:
Last Saturday I had the worst experience of my life. It was so bad that I actually felt violated and depressed all weekend. It has put me off WLs for good. I am serious!

I don't want to say who it was, because she was a nice lady, and at the least, if i provided her some money to put food on the table for a week, that gives me some contentment.

I was completely sick of false ads. I can't afford the expensive high class establishments and I can't take the risk of running into someone I know, so my only option is a private girl. I was sick of the Asian ladies (as you can see from my previous post), who provide a good service, but are just unreliable and extremely busy all the time. So I found a mature woman not too far from where I live. Her photos looked okay, but didn't show much. I asked for more pics and she said she couldn't provide them, but no one had ever turned away from her door after seeing her (this should've been alarm bell 1).
When I arrived in her street, I had to call her. She sounded older on the phone than her ad stated (alarm bell 2).
By this stage I was too horny to turn back. I proceeded to her place. When she came to the door, it was kinda dark, her hair covered most of her face and she had a gown, so I couldn't see her figure. But I guessed she was not the age she put in her ad (alarm bell 3... ding ding ding, I should've run!).
But something about me... I think I'm a sex addict... either that or I have very high testosterone. I am a nice guy too. I find it extremely difficult to turn away from a WL, even if I initially don't have an attraction.

So I persisted and handed over the money. It wasn't cheap either. Once she de-gowned, I immediately regretted my decision. This lady was nowhere near her stated age. She must've been close to 70! Or older!! Sorry, I like older women, but there's a line. I had no attraction to this lady. She sounded like she was struggling to breathe. I started feeling trapped. There's so much more I could describe, but I'm already feeling terrible enough.

I allowed things to go on for a bit, but then when it was about to get intimate, I looked at the clock and jumped up in shock, claiming I didn't realise the time and had to be somewhere in 10 mins time. I apologised and got changed and got the hell out of there.

The money I had saved up for this day, only to leave completely unsatisfied and feeling the worst I had felt in years.

Never again! I know you're not all the same and there are wonderful girls out there, but I'm done with WLs. The wonderful girls are all out of my league.
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You need to.have the courage to say NO, you're not as described blah blah and WALK AWAY!
 
@Funcool32 haha yeah this did give me a little laugh like you said it might do. Ah I guess my story made you feel better then that I paid $380, I waited 3-4 hours and she got paid to come up to my room and walk straight back away haha. Jesus it's a game of Russian roulette isn't it.
I guess there's probably alot of us nicer guys that get taken advantage of like this and in a sense feed this kind of opportunity to be had. I'm guessing many of these girls are expecting this to happen and in turn make the money and not even have to provide a service and aiming with hope that guys like us are the ones who reply to their ads.
It seems to me that maybe in these situations we can still be the nice guy and not be rude but also stand our ground and say no and not give our money away for free how we should do otherwise we're providing these opportunities of deceit to continue.
Unfortunately with south Australia being a state it's not legal and unable to be regulated it sure doesn't make it easy to get what you pay for but it does add a little extra of excitement to it like when your going and you pay for a lucky dip am I going to get a good toy like the other kids or am I going to be let down and get an eraser and a pencil sharpener haha.
 
I had a similar experience once, the second half of the story is she laid on the floor!!! in starfish pose!!! with head turned left!!! and with eyes closed!!! and said "fuck me now!!! Things didn't progress well, and after some arguing I grabbed her phone, and demanded my money back. Some screaming followed. Of course no chance of refund, so I got dressed, moved close to the door, threw the phone hard back into the room and escaped.
 
Jimmy long said:
I had a similar experience once, the second half of the story is she laid on the floor!!! in starfish pose!!! with head turned left!!! and with eyes closed!!! and said "fuck me now!!! Things didn't progress well, and after some arguing I grabbed her phone, and demanded my money back. Some screaming followed. Of course no chance of refund, so I got dressed, moved close to the door, threw the phone hard back into the room and escaped.
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Definitely does suck when you get taken advantage of for your hard earnt money that's for sure but we all do know the risk involved too. But there should be no risk involved at all for both ends either we feel we should get what we pay for and alot of times we don't and they feel like they should be respected while providing their services which alot of times they do not. If it was accepted as a profession and it was regulated in s.a it would change the way it is quite alot I would believe.
 
There used to be a lot of independent girls before all these Chinese massage shops popped up on every corner and main road. Those shops have destroyed what was once an industry full of options, and where you knew what to expect. Today, those shops advertise photos of young Chinese models, but when you get there it's an old Chinese woman who hates her job and is not there to please you. You're just part of the production line. Get in and get out as quick as they can move you on. I would love if people stopped supporting those shops so we could have some return to normal punting. I admit I tried a couple of those shops and some experiences were good, some were terrible. I will never go back to one again. I'm not just blaming those shops, but I think they're a big part of the little choice we have with independents today. And the ones who operate can charge what they want & lie about their photos because there's not much other choice out there. Not saying they all do... there are a few honest ones still, especially from this page.
 
Funcool32 said:
There used to be a lot of independent girls before all these Chinese massage shops popped up on every corner and main road. Those shops have destroyed what was once an industry full of options, and where you knew what to expect. Today, those shops advertise photos of young Chinese models, but when you get there it's an old Chinese woman who hates her job and is not there to please you. You're just part of the production line. Get in and get out as quick as they can move you on. I would love if people stopped supporting those shops so we could have some return to normal punting. I admit I tried a couple of those shops and some experiences were good, some were terrible. I will never go back to one again. I'm not just blaming those shops, but I think they're a big part of the little choice we have with independents today. And the ones who operate can charge what they want & lie about their photos because there's not much other choice out there. Not saying they all do... there are a few honest ones still, especially from this page.
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Same comment could be made for almost any form of commerce, think of the large supermarkets, hardware, electrical goods, etc, etc

That's how it goes my friend
 
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