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EmilyDarke said:
Us WLs are under no obligation to take a booming if we don't feel comfortable.
If they are doing drugs at work, they shouldnt be there. Just like I'm sure any normal employer wouldn't accept an employee taking drugs at work.
It's perceptions like this that exacerbate the WL stereotypes unfortunately
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Having been involved in marketing in the past and doing a lot of research on the industry lately to get a feel for it, I feel that you are 100% right. There is a huge perception in the community of w/l's only doing the job because of some awful reason. Drugs being a huge player.

A lot of it isn't the ladies fault but keeping the high standards that I'm hearing about in this forum will eventually start spreading the word. Like any industry there are your bad eggs but when you are battling a stereotype those women drag you all down. More w/l's acting professionally will start to reverse the misconception.

End rant. Sorry about that.
 
EmilyDarke said:
Us WLs are under no obligation to take a booming if we don't feel comfortable.
If they are doing drugs at work, they shouldnt be there. Just like I'm sure any normal employer wouldn't accept an employee taking drugs at work.
It's perceptions like this that exacerbate the WL stereotypes unfortunately[/quote couldn't see the point of asking a lady to get high in a booking but it's seems as if you get some pretty weird requests !
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Doesn't help the image when some advertise the fact that's what it's all about in saying that most are private ladies who want to be in the clouds
 
EmilyDarke said:
Us WLs are under no obligation to take a booming if we don't feel comfortable.
If they are doing drugs at work, they shouldnt be there. Just like I'm sure any normal employer wouldn't accept an employee taking drugs at work.
It's perceptions like this that exacerbate the WL stereotypes unfortunately
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Unfortunately from my recent experience s its a well deserved stereotype.
Yes ones ive seen hammer the gear to keep going and to "get them in the right frame of mind"
Heck even the wl who came round last night to see how I operated came straight in and started gearing up . And the other lady didnt stop...
 
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bushseeker said:
Unfortunately from my recent experience s its a well deserved stereotype.
Yes ones ive seen hammer the gear to keep going and to "get them in the right frame of mind"
Heck even the wl who came round last night to see how I operated came straight in and started gearing up . And the other lady didnt stop...
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But does that make them the rule or the exception?
 
Just like any industry, the bad, shocking or pitiful examples are the ones that stick in people's minds

I think the price point makes a difference too, *generally* (I don't like to generalize but I digress) the escorts who command higher prices are better groomed, well spoken and well educated, less likely to be after drugs as trade or part payment...
 
From what ive seen. Education and "class"
Have little to do with who takes drugs.
They can just hide it easier
Im no anti drugs campaigner but if you saw how it fucks thierbrain
No way im touching it more than ever now
 
It strikes me that the more 'obvious' users are probably not registered sex workers. If that is right then counting them in the demographic is like complaining about an unregistered electricians work in your house.
 
perhaps -- but i highly doubt registration effects drug use

obviously not all ladys are on drugs
Im a FIFO worker and dont consider my self a cashed up bogan so stereotypes are damaging for those that dont
but id challenge workinglady on herear to put there hand on thier heart and swear drugs arnt rife in the industry from what theyve seen
Every one gets into sex work for different reasons bu theres zero question its a great way to make the coin needed for drugs

like i said ive found a grand a day is easily achievable (I say easily yes alot of work goes in) and aoften alot more
i see ladys say they can get loans due to thier proffesion --- well with that sort of money why would they need too??? unless......
 
bushseeker said:
perhaps -- but i highly doubt registration effects drug use

obviously not all ladys are on drugs
Im a FIFO worker and dont consider my self a cashed up bogan so stereotypes are damaging for those that dont
but id challenge workinglady on herear to put there hand on thier heart and swear drugs arnt rife in the industry from what theyve seen
Every one gets into sex work for different reasons bu theres zero question its a great way to make the coin needed for drugs

like i said ive found a grand a day is easily achievable (I say easily yes alot of work goes in) and aoften alot more
i see ladys say they can get loans due to thier proffesion --- well with that sort of money why would they need too??? unless......
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Unless they are good economists for one. Mortgaging multiple properties for instance can be fiscally very sound.
 
magrov said:
On the flip side you could also start a good punters list. Guys that have regularly shown courtesy, guys that tip, that sort of punter.
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I am sorry.

I disagree on this as a good idea.

How would anyone as a client "wishes" to be compared against one another? Do you feel comfortable being perceived lesser or greater than anyone either below or above you?

Any of such "good" lists is non-sense and all subjective. What is more important? It's highlighting the bad. Before all flame starts against me (again, as I expected) - know this - I'm not trying to be negative, I am simply trying to be realistic and practical.

I can sort of see the guests members reading this thread and thinking oh wow, great - maybe they are and will be comparing me after all...

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To put in relative perspective, I work as a creative for many years and still on-going. And I have worked with some of the most demanding, insinuating clients I've ever worked that caused many nights and weeks of unpaid overtimes (from one agency employment to the next/including freelance). Ranging from anyone from being retarded (in actual fact I believe some are), indecisive, undercutting, people who don't read, and just plain abuse & hostile harrasment that I had to politely remove myself from the contract. I feel angry that's for sure, but I never wishes to publicize who is who as a bad or good list. These things should be kept as private.

However, of course, I would love to hear what the W/Ls I've seen have to say about me. So long it's not in a public space.
 
honestman said:
I am sorry.

I disagree on this as a good idea.

How would anyone as a client "wishes" to be compared against one another? Do you feel comfortable being perceived lesser or greater than anyone either below or above you?

Any of such "good" lists is non-sense and all subjective. What is more important? It's highlighting the bad. Before all flame starts against me (again, as I expected) - know this - I'm not trying to be negative, I am simply trying to be realistic and practical.

I can sort of see the guests members reading this thread and thinking oh wow, great - maybe they are and will be comparing me after all...

--

To put in relative perspective, I work as a creative for many years and still on-going. And I have worked with some of the most demanding, insinuating clients I've ever worked that caused many nights and weeks of unpaid overtimes (from one agency employment to the next/including freelance). Ranging from anyone from being retarded (in actual fact I believe some are), indecisive, undercutting, people who don't read, and just plain abuse & hostile harrasment that I had to politely remove myself from the contract. I feel angry that's for sure, but I never wishes to publicize who is who as a bad or good list. These things should be kept as private.

However, of course, I would love to hear what the W/Ls I've seen have to say about me. So long it's not in a public space.
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We are not talking about a public conversation here. This would be a private message between the girls, invite only. It is no different to them sitting around at work between clients and chatting, its just on a global scale.
 
Whats the naughty, or nicest thing you have done this month; To receive a visit from ol' Easter bunny? xo

I hope every one has a very happy, safe, and special Easter with their family, friends, and loved ones

kisses,
Peta Bloom
Langtrees Lady
 
PetaBloom said:
Whats the naughty, or nicest thing you have done this month; To receive a visit from ol' Easter bunny? xo

I hope every one has a very happy, safe, and special Easter with their family, friends, and loved ones

kisses,
Peta Bloom
Langtrees Lady
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thank you for the jester but i will be spending easter alone like i do every year :-)
 
Ahoy;- I am looking for an Easter Bunny, one with floppy Ears and little small sweet tail, any volunteers, no rabbits need to apply
 
PetaBloom said:
Whats the naughty, or nicest thing you have done this month; To receive a visit from ol' Easter bunny? xo

I hope every one has a very happy, safe, and special Easter with their family, friends, and loved ones

kisses,
Peta Bloom
Langtrees Lady
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I got a bj from a girl at work on my bosses desk.

Or was that a dream?
 
Ahoy Its OK little Buddy, one day your treasure chest will be full of coin, then you will take yourself and your treasure chest to the golden archway, LT golden door. You will enter and Pay the receptionist and in return a lovely Angel will appear and make all your Dreams come true.
Be happy, you Arrrrrr not an old and Ugly Pirate, like me.
Cheers and Pass me my Rum Glass

magrov said:
Damnit!
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PetaBloom said:
Whats the naughty, or nicest thing you have done this month; To receive a visit from ol' Easter bunny? xo

I hope every one has a very happy, safe, and special Easter with their family, friends, and loved ones

kisses,
Peta Bloom
Langtrees Lady
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I can't say I been naughty nor nice this month. I done me deed and claim me worth. But if you can dress as Bunny and come visit, I will be happy to supply the Duracell, mi hunni bunny.
 
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