Working Ladies (and men) - What made you choose Establishment Vs Private?
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Delilah Bee 🐝
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Have worked in parlour and private. As much as I hate the time wasters and loving out of hotels, I prefer it to establishment. I don’t like giving half the money away. Working my ass off and feeling like I’ve made peanuts.
not treated properly by owners and only seen as a money maker. Well-being not cared about. Pressured into doing stuff I didn’t want too and made to feel guilty for it if I didnt. Pressured to lower my extras prices just to get a customer in.
Also the drama and stress and competitive nature of working among the other girls was just too much for me. Woman can be nasty.
It’s lonely and isolating, but much happier private.
not treated properly by owners and only seen as a money maker. Well-being not cared about. Pressured into doing stuff I didn’t want too and made to feel guilty for it if I didnt. Pressured to lower my extras prices just to get a customer in.
Also the drama and stress and competitive nature of working among the other girls was just too much for me. Woman can be nasty.
It’s lonely and isolating, but much happier private.
Looks and how they talk to you in the intro will either make or break a punt.
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SmilyECoyote
I'm thinking a WL in a brothel can nail as many punters as she's comfortable with without the overheads (advertising, answering text messages, towels et ect) Am I off the mark here?
I agree with Delilah.
For me private, I've done both! I prefer having the flexibility to work my own hours, only see a small amount of clients and not deal with the burn out.
Establishment is awesome when your starting out but the long hours, amount of clients and the expectations I found hard.
I love being the one able to organise my own bookings and getting a feel of the client and following my gut, at an establishment I didn't have that control and would find the clientele I was attracting was not the clientele I wanted.
I would always got seriously anxious going to clients houses for outcalls and in more than one case there were other people in the house and party drugs it made me feel uncomfortable and vulnerable, now I can do my own checks and only go if I'm comfortable.
Do I hate brothels? Absolutely not I know girls who have worked in brothels for years they are great you have other girls to talk to, you don't do your own advertising, you can just arrive at your shift and not worry about a thing it just wasn't for me.
For me private, I've done both! I prefer having the flexibility to work my own hours, only see a small amount of clients and not deal with the burn out.
Establishment is awesome when your starting out but the long hours, amount of clients and the expectations I found hard.
I love being the one able to organise my own bookings and getting a feel of the client and following my gut, at an establishment I didn't have that control and would find the clientele I was attracting was not the clientele I wanted.
I would always got seriously anxious going to clients houses for outcalls and in more than one case there were other people in the house and party drugs it made me feel uncomfortable and vulnerable, now I can do my own checks and only go if I'm comfortable.
Do I hate brothels? Absolutely not I know girls who have worked in brothels for years they are great you have other girls to talk to, you don't do your own advertising, you can just arrive at your shift and not worry about a thing it just wasn't for me.
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Rugbymermaid
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1steelrod
Diamond Member
Woman can be nasty. ?
Delilah this is the reason most of the punters are single, separated, or fully divorced.
Or are in serious relationships but still have to find a woman who can satisfy their needs because the other half is using sex as weapon. Ie once a week or sadly once a year . Or they have other issues. I do understand that this works both ways but . "" woman can be nasty !! "" quote unquote;
Delilah this is the reason most of the punters are single, separated, or fully divorced.
Or are in serious relationships but still have to find a woman who can satisfy their needs because the other half is using sex as weapon. Ie once a week or sadly once a year . Or they have other issues. I do understand that this works both ways but . "" woman can be nasty !! "" quote unquote;
Lacie4U
Diamond Member
Really…. There maybe a reason a woman may “ be nasty” quote unquote. I have met many many people in complex situations…nothing is ever as it seems and men can be nasty also … always 2 sides from outside the situation… let’s just say sadly people can be nasty
