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Why Some Men Prefer Paying to Asking?

Many men pay for companionship not for power, but for clarity, kindness, and escape from rejection. An honest look at the humanity in sex work.

I wouldn't ask before the first date in fear that they'll want nothing to do with me from that point forward. I simply want women to get myself aroused as the more aroused one is the better the sex will feel (that's the theory). Although I admit I started out punting wanting to meet women but in regard to sex workers it's root em then boot em now. I would only want a partner so I could get intimate with them and not get a disease or whatever you call it. I don't want to have any children but I'd be open too it if thats what my partner wanted. A sexual health doctor said there's the same risk with sex worker and the population of getting a disease from sexual activity and I said I've read sex workers are safer as they are more likely to use a condom and she said that's correct.
 
Many men pay for companionship not for power, but for clarity, kindness, and escape from rejection. An honest look at the humanity in sex work.

Sometimes people judge the transaction without understanding the loneliness behind it. At the end of the day, everyone is just looking for a little kindness, connection, and a place where they feel seen.
 
Sometimes people judge the transaction without understanding the loneliness behind it. At the end of the day, everyone is just looking for a little kindness, connection, and a place where they feel seen.
💯 agree with this. I was talking to a friend yesterday, a married mate of hers confessed to seeing a working lady - he was feeling guilty. Reason - wife is an alcoholic and abusive. He just wanted kindness, affection and to be seen.
 
💯 agree with this. I was talking to a friend yesterday, a married mate of hers confessed to seeing a working lady - he was feeling guilty. Reason - wife is an alcoholic and abusive. He just wanted kindness, affection and to be seen.
I think it varies. Obviously there is just guys that use women just to get aroused and there's also guys that want connection etc.
 
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