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Why do some women orgasm more easily?

asianguy77

asianguy77

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Why is it some women find it easier to orgasm, whereas others find it harder or can't orgasm at all? Is it more a psychological thing or is it really physically?

Do you believe, all women can reach orgasm, or some who never will? Can some only orgasm clitorally and not vaginally through the gspot?
 
Also I have found that once some ladies orgasm they say they are too sensitive for any more touching near their clitoris but others ladies just want more and more.
 
Women are more easy to get started to arouse compared to men and they have a multiple orgasm that also help for men to start to orgasm.
 
I personally believe that women who have experienced a healthy amount of self pleasure / masturabtion are better at reaching orgasms. They are past the too sensitive stage and know what they need to climax. If you girl is struggling to orgasm. Get her a few vibrators and tell her to practice on her own.
 
Its a combination of mental and physical. Some women are just more sensitive in certain areas but then on the mental side of things they have to be open to it and some are more open than others
 
Justlookin said:
I personally believe that women who have experienced a healthy amount of self pleasure / masturabtion are better at reaching orgasms. They are past the too sensitive stage and know what they need to climax. If you girl is struggling to orgasm. Get her a few vibrators and tell her to practice on her own.
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Your request may require nerves of steel maybe even balls of!
Meet a new lady Get a bit heavy She tells you you are only her second man So you give her a bag of toys and tell her to play with herself until you can handle me!
Or maybe we all just learn to be a better lovers and a patient ones as well
 
asianguy77 said:
Why is it some women find it easier to orgasm, whereas others find it harder or can't orgasm at all? Is it more a psychological thing or is it really physically?

Do you believe, all women can reach orgasm, or some who never will? Can some only orgasm clitorally and not vaginally through the gspot?
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I guess all Women are different just like us. Some women i have been in relationships with have cum just by DFK, others haven't. Also some cum very easy thru clitoral stimulation, whether it be your fingers or tounge.
Others i have been with including the odd W/L can squirt thru clitoral stimulation and then having good sex just enhances that.
So the answer could also have alot to do with the guy, i am no expert by any means but i don't find sex that exciting if you can't make a Lady cum.
 
happy2 said:
Your request may require nerves of steel maybe even balls of!
Meet a new lady Get a bit heavy She tells you you are only her second man So you give her a bag of toys and tell her to play with herself until you can handle me!
Or maybe we all just learn to be a better lovers and a patient ones as well
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Dont need balls of steel if you can communicate a little better than your example above. Being tactful and articulate is why I have so much success in this world.
 
I need two things to orgasm.........a guy who knows what he is doing and a relaxed mind.
The more pre-occupied I am with "stuff" the harder it is for me to come........so to answer your question in my case it is probably more a psychological thing than a physical and as an educated guess........90% of my orgasms are clitoral.

Complex question.......I think all women can orgasm (unless there is a physical problem) but they might not allow themself to orgasm.

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I don't know if this is true but I've heard from a friend that women have multiple orgasms and some can have even up to 20..
 
The most number of orgasms I have had in one session is 7. Just saying.
 
So many factors, where to start :p
Being relaxed is a good start and the most important part,
is how well the chic, knows her body and isn't afraid to
communicate what she needs to get there,
And then there is the fragility of a male's ego, if your
happy for the lady to guide you...it will happen :)
If you take what she says, as a reflection on you, then it will
affect what outcome eventuates.

Multiple orgasms are achievable, when all elements come together,
A relaxed, comfortable connection, :)
 
I am right into toys. If my partner is happy to indulge me in this way, orgasming/orgasms are easy. Sadly, some guys think that if a girl "needs" toys to cum, then it is a reflection on them, which couldn't be further from the truth.
 
I agree with all the girls in that you need a guy who knows what he is doing and I do find the older, more mature guys have a better idea how to please a woman and are more willing to be patient and ask how and where feels good for the woman. The woman also needs to be relaxed and really different things set off different women. My hubbie was shaving my vaginal area today and it really turned me on and I went on to have 3 orgasms with a vibrator. I have also been know to squirt on occasions, but not every time and sometimes I am very sensitive after orgasm and other times not so...

Hope some of your questions have been answered guys....
 
hmmm good question!! I find, for me at least it is about 80% to do with my state of mind. If i am totally into a session with someone, then chances are i will orgasm, if not once then multiple times. Then there is the whole thing of a guy needing to know what theyre doing! Just banging away like a machine might be fun for a guy but really not gonna do much for me.... just sayin :P
Sometimes however, i just wont get there... not from lack of trying on his or my part either, sometimes it just doesnt happen. I am not a big toy person so if i fail to get there, chances are i wont get to cum that night. Doesnt mean i havent enjoyed myself! In fact, one of the best nights i remember i didnt actually cum!!!
 
Interesting point Sub about not orgasming
I agree, that pleasure isn't just about achieving the orgasm,
There is so much more to it for lady's.
Our whole body, mind and soul can be play a big part in our
pleasure and not just our clit and vagina :p

Suzie - true, sensitivity can vary so much
and squirting is random, its not an oncall thing :)
I am starting to discover what the squirting triggers are but
its never a guarantee but when it goes, it goes off :)

Love how a woman's body has so many mystery's and if your
up for the ride, it can be a lot of fun uncovering them :D

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A relaxed mind is an absolute must. You also have to be free of inhibitions (to a degree at least). It took me a long time to realise these 2things but when I did, sex became something so much more enjoyable. Then I added costumes and role plays and BAM!

Its easier for some women to relax than it is for others and some women are natuarlly more confident than others.

Once I tapped in to what I needed to orgasm, there was no going back!
 
I think its easier for a woman to orgasm if she knows her own body and bits, and knows how to make herself cum on her own, or with toys. Then during oral or penetration sex just relaxing and enjoying all the wonderful feelings without forcussing on an orgasm helps too I think. But yes, everyone is different, and its fun experimenting :) Plus being with someone that you totally trust and feel comfortable with, because I think its a very intimate thing (for me anyway).
 
I believe that women who can not orgasm majority of them it is in there head..whether it due to not being comfortable with bosy or sex or whatever. If you let it all go in your mind then your body will follow..I find it sad when I hear women say they dont masturbate or explore there own bodies this is so imperative.

I orgasm quite easily...but there are different kinds or sensations like coming on the bottom (missionary) is different to being on top die to clitoral stimulation, then being Finger Fkd is different due to G-spot and then when I squirt it is different again. One of the best orgasms of my life was on the Sybian and it lasted for over 10minutes and I have never experienced my whole body, mind and EVERYTHING just completely and utterly going into a place I cant quite explain.

I think my record is 11 and that was riding on top and just being made to keep going and going until I collapsed (good boy!!!)..besides that I think it was 7!! However give me quality not quantity...some guys jut have this magic thing you cant put into words which make you GUSH!!!
 
My last partner only needed me to massage & kiss her boobs. She usually sat on top of me when doing this. She would cum in a matter of minutes
 
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