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estafarr
Hi - welcome to the forum - are you from the Gold Coast in Queensland or NSW??? sure you will find some travellers here that will come and try out your service. Take care and keep busy on here.
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Adrianna Lush
Depends...If the partner talks after sex and you find yourself cringing then stop immediately, no matter how good the sex is because you probably don't like the way you feel about yourself when you're cringing or making fun of him/her (that is if you can't stand him/her). If there is no talking at all...great..just f#ck.
I did this type of relationship for about six months and eventually stopped because I found myself trying to understand why I didn't like him outside of the bedroom. It was fairly negative thinking and who needs that really?!
I did this type of relationship for about six months and eventually stopped because I found myself trying to understand why I didn't like him outside of the bedroom. It was fairly negative thinking and who needs that really?!
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estafarr
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Cringing after sex????? Won't see me for dust and small stones if I cringe after sex!!! I can't imagine not talking after sex either - I am usually starting the next round of foreplay whilst in the post coital bliss....
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Adrianna Lush
exactly my point
Silk
Bronze Member
A question for the lovely ladies and gentlemen. This is a dilemma of head vs.hearthormones.
When the sex is mind-blowing but you don't enjoy spending time with that person outside of the bedroom, what do you do? Continue f**king even though you can't stand them, or stop seeing them and spend every day sexually frustrated?
(This is written in the context of casual sex, but I'm interested in hearing what people have to say about relationships too.) x
I have been there myself great earth shaking sex but not one other thing in common, not even a desire to see them outside the bedroom. I was up front with her saying we are never going to be more than this as I had no feeling towards her in anyway. But once in bed we had hot passionate orgasmic sex. Which was wonderful, even though I was always upfront with her I still felt like an arsehole as I knew she had feelings and wanted more, it was great and I'll never forget it, but having someone that your really into in the bed is a lot better.
So I'd say enjoy your sex for as long as you can handle being around him. Then move on. But someone usually gets hurt in theses situations. Good luck.