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What turns a woman on!!

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Evita Maxwell

No matter what you may have heard, the secret to bringing sexy back isn't Justin Timberlake. It's being in tune with the sensations that make you want to drop your dress and get it on. "Knowing what will turn you on — and why — is key to a great sex life because it gives you control over your own pleasure," says Scott Haltzman, M.D., clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at Brown University. Instead of waiting to get excited, learn how to make it happen when and where you want it to. It's as close as you're ever going to get to having an "on" button.

To give you a handle on what makes you horny, we pinpointed the top 10 sexual triggers for women via our biggest online survey yet. Then we asked psychologists and sex therapists why these fleeting moments — the sweaty rush of a hard workout, flirtatious eye contact with a hot stranger — make our thighs go up in flames. And since enough is never enough when it comes to sex, you'll also find innovative tips on how to take each turn-on to the next level, plus (thanks to a menshealth.com survey) which stimulates work for guys too. Is it getting hot in here?

When it Comes to Arousing Your Senses "Top Ten"
Survey says Your
#1 Turn-On "When a man touches my hair"
#2 "When he kisses my shoulder"
#3 "When he puts his hand on my thigh"
#4 "Watching my muscles while lifting weights"
#5 "Seeing my man look sexy in his jeans"
#6 "Making eye contact with a cute stranger"
#7 "A man who smells clean"
#8 "Wearing sexy lingerie under unsexy jeans and a T-shirt"
#9 "The rush after a long run"
#10 "Getting a big fat paycheck in the mail"

Personally 1, 2, 3, 5, 8 do it for me. Oddly I also get a rush when I'm out with my guy and every other girl is eyeing him out.... makes me want him more.
 
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Playful, erotic massage & touch does it for me. Long lingering looks straight into the eyes are also a turn on & lately I've been getting off on massaging others and slowly running my dexterous hands over their entire body. OOOOHHH feels good and when they treat my body like an island of pleasure things really hot up. Slow, soft, sensuous kisses all over are excellent prolonger's throughout the hours of pleasure we give and receive. xoxoA
 
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One of these babies....
 
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looking after her and loving her and not just for her vagina.... even though you love that too...

i get turned on when i see a mans devotion to or for me... when he is in utter endearment with me ...
when i know he finds me attractive it makes me feel good about myself and that confidence in turn is just as attractive to him... i get turned on by peoples loving warmth or when they are simply genuine with me. but that’s just me... i could name a few things... when they massage my feet; when they spoil me; not just materialistically but emotionally mentally spiritually intellectually etc... my brain is my biggest sex organ... turn me on there and the rest usually follows... each to their own of course but i also found out that subconsciously and psychologically women are turned on by the act of something rapid motion or movement.... if u watch something get faster and faster but while you’re doing it also... for example scribble on a piece of paper really fast back and forth and challenge yourself to get faster and faster u will almost certainly notice your legs squashing together as you start to get excited without even realising... the second thing i don’t agree with as such as much but that’s because in its wording it is extremely awkward... which is that apparently us woman get turned on subconsciously and physically when they see animals mating... ironic

hope that helps and gives u all some insight and a different view and something to try and think about lol
 
Lord Spikey said:
It's money.
It has always been money.
It always will be money.

Don't try to hide the fact, lol
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I will have to agree to disagree with you there.... Security and comfort and stability especially financially makes anyone feel good! Not just a woman... And having said that money can buy you comfort but as for happiness... Perhaps temporary .... Will not be found truly by one one the basis that money is what turns a person on... Some people in particular yes. But not all.... I wouldn't care if I was broke if I was truly happy but in that sentence it's lovely to be comfortable and be able to treat and reward yourself materialistically at times... But you can't take it all with you when you go and ur nice new leather couch doesn't hug you and tell you it's gonna be okay now does it.... Something to think about xoxox lol
 
Sasha Webber said:
I will have to agree to disagree with you there.... Security and comfort and stability especially financially makes anyone feel good! Not just a woman... And having said that money can buy you comfort but as for happiness... Perhaps temporary .... Will not be found truly by one one the basis that money is what turns a person on... Some people in particular yes. But not all.... I wouldn't care if I was broke if I was truly happy but in that sentence it's lovely to be comfortable and be able to treat and reward yourself materialistically at times... But you can't take it all with you when you go and ur nice new leather couch doesn't hug you and tell you it's gonna be okay now does it.... Something to think about xoxox lol
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Nahhhh. It's money
 
totally agree with Sasha, especially the part about the brain being biggest sex organ
Sasha Webber said:
looking after her and loving her and not just for her vagina.... even though you love that too...

i get turned on when i see a mans devotion to or for me... when he is in utter endearment with me ...
when i know he finds me attractive it makes me feel good about myself and that confidence in turn is just as attractive to him... i get turned on by peoples loving warmth or when they are simply genuine with me. but that’s just me... i could name a few things... when they massage my feet; when they spoil me; not just materialistically but emotionally mentally spiritually intellectually etc... my brain is my biggest sex organ... turn me on there and the rest usually follows... each to their own of course but i also found out that subconsciously and psychologically women are turned on by the act of something rapid motion or movement.... if u watch something get faster and faster but while you’re doing it also... for example scribble on a piece of paper really fast back and forth and challenge yourself to get faster and faster u will almost certainly notice your legs squashing together as you start to get excited without even realising... the second thing i don’t agree with as such as much but that’s because in its wording it is extremely awkward... which is that apparently us woman get turned on subconsciously and physically when they see animals mating... ironic

hope that helps and gives u all some insight and a different view and something to try and think about lol
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I also get turned on when a man smells like cologne+cigarettes... don't know why but i like it!
 
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