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what to do with WL messaging me

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Iamhavesomefun

Not really sure how to put this really.

I recently have been seeing a certain WL on a fairly regular basis at a parlour. On one of the nights, said WL must have obtained my mobile number from the parlours booking sheet or what not and messaged me on my phone. This caught me out by susprise, not having experience with this all and not wanting to be rude. I questioned her about it all and she said she will keep it on a professional level and not message me again. Next day I get another message.

Now I get quite a few messages and it appears they are quite fond of me and I am not too sure what I should do now. I will admit she has started to worry me a little...

Can't really talk to anyone about it, but I figured someone on here has probably had similar experience.

Ta!
 
This is the reason why punters should have a different sim card for punting (like private WLs do). Just put a block on their numbers so your mobile will not get txt from them.
 
If she is really at a House, she would only have your number if you gave it to her. IF so, you should only do this wisely.
I would anticipate that if she is messaging you - and please don't be offended - it is more likely that she wants you to spend more money rather than she "is quite fond of you".
Tread warily
 
are u responding to all of the messages? because maybe ur sending the wrong idea by feeding into it and replying? dont respond again and she will get the idea.
 
happytimes said:
That is not necessarily true, i didn't give the girl my number i found out she got it from the receptionist
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I also didn't give my number to the girl, and I also didn't leave it with the house, Thought I would assume callerID would have popped my number and they would have written it down in a log of some sort? I did reply a couple of times which I guess I shouldn't of like other said, probably gave the wrong impression, but it caught me off gaurd and being a number I didn't know wanted to find out who it was. Last message I got after not texting but had seen her again was along the lines of, thanks for the sex and money. I had been ignoring the txts so continued, then I get another one saying you are so cold, I knew you never liked me you just treat me like a hooker.

marsta: No, you haven't offended me at all, of course I had thought of that also. I mean it could all be a game to lure me in. but when she says she wants to be with me and cuddles me excessively it gets to a point where it was a little creepy.

Anyways I will message her, stating my concerns and if it continues I will follow the advice put to me and contact the house. And will suppose avoid the place now.
 
I guess I have been lucky. If & when I use a parlor I am staying at a hotel
So all calls go through hotel reception. A few times I have been asked for my mobile number They said it would be more convenient. But it is a no no for me.
Anyway Lantana &marstafit1 are right Let the girl know she is wasting her time
and money calling you by ignoring her.
Although a quick call to the agency cant hurt. They wont want to have word out
that they are indiscreet.
 
Ring them up and let them no,that is not on! it happend to me over the weekend but they said i was the wrong number.
 
Iamhavesomefun, is it safe for me to assume that you are not seeing her anymore? If you are then stop now. There are plenty of other punters for her and plenty of lovely ladies for you. Experience has taught me that if something is a bit suss just bail. If you have a private life that could suffer with her in it then bail yesterday.

The attention may be a little flattering at first but that will wear off real quick if she knocks on your door or visits you at work. This is unlikely, of course, and it is posslibly an excercise to help business for her but, depending on your personal circimstances, is that something you need to complicate your life? Move on, just in case.
 
Good advice Reggie
Life's complicated enough without such distractions.
As you say bail like theres no tomorrow
 
I think you should ignore her, but definately call the owner of the establishment! No need to name names if you don't wish the girl any trouble. But this is highly unprofessional and needs to be dealt with. I am a private girl and the only time I EVER contact a client or potential client is if they have asked me to, otherwise I do not contact at all. You are paying for services yes, but you are also paying for discretion and that has been breeched!

Kitty
xxx
 
kitty's desires said:
I think you should ignore her, but definately call the owner of the establishment! No need to name names if you don't wish the girl any trouble. But this is highly unprofessional and needs to be dealt with. I am a private girl and the only time I EVER contact a client or potential client is if they have asked me to, otherwise I do not contact at all. You are paying for services yes, but you are also paying for discretion and that has been breeched!

Kitty
xxx
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I am pleased you mentioned discretion. Over the past few years
i have been pleasantly surprised by the class of so many who
have taken up your calling.
Do you think it is just the industry growing up? The stories
from my father who is elderly are not as glowing.

And incidents that this thread is talking about can only harm
the whole industry
 
Couldn't agree more Kitty's desires. Discretion is paramount in this industry. A smart approach by any agency or brothel would be to ask the clientele if they were interested in being put on a email list/txt message list database for contact from time to time to advise of any specials or changes etc that in my opinion is best practise to do otherwise is just a breech of privacy.
 
it does sound like the girl has developed a crush on you on what you've said. i think it is very unprofessional too and borderline creepy. she's crossed the line, so i agree in calling management, especially if she doesn't respect the fact you don't want her messaging you.

hope it works out.
 
Yeah, I have stopped seeing her and avoiding the house, have been ignoring her messages, which seem to be still coming through. Trying to figure out how to block a number. Thanks for the advice everyone, been appreciated :)
 
happy2 said:
I am pleased you mentioned discretion. Over the past few years
i have been pleasantly surprised by the class of so many who
have taken up your calling.
Do you think it is just the industry growing up? The stories
from my father who is elderly are not as glowing.

And incidents that this thread is talking about can only harm
the whole industry
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I think the majority of those in the industry has matured and inhouse girls are taught discretion not like back in the day where it wasn't so. And private girls like myself who have never been in house respect the privacy of our clients and also appreciate it in return. After all, we all have personal lives be the clients or the working ladies/gentlemen.

And yes thread like this do harm the industry as a whole, but I believe ladies like the one mentioned are very rare, so I hope Iamhavesomefun won't give up hope on finding a lovely ladies to help give some pleasure. The genuine and descrete far out number!
 
....am open for any WL to message me.....anyone......anyone......anyone???? :)
 
Hmm!!

There was a "gentleman" called Shane Warne who had a similar problem a while ago and we all know where that ended up. Texts and 'phone numbers stored on mobiles are dynamite just waiting to go kaboom.

Sanitise that 'phone now!!
 
I am with Fudd!! I keep giving out my number but......

Let your ego be stroked for a while!
 
svengali said:
Hmm!!

There was a "gentleman" called Shane Warne who had a similar problem a while ago and we all know where that ended up. Texts and 'phone numbers stored on mobiles are dynamite just waiting to go kaboom.

Sanitise that 'phone now!!
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Classic
The thing is Warnie is always forgiven C"mon its just Warnie being Warnie
You and I are just dirty old men
 
I was seeing a lady a few years ago and I was dissapointed when she retired.
About 12 months later I received a well crafted text that told me that a new shop had opened and the product line had been enhanced and more staff employed.
It was so well done that at first I thought that it was a wrong number but then one or two key words put me n the right track.
Unfortunately for health reasons her side of the new shop only lasted another six months and then closed.
I had anothr lady who used to ring but only two rings and hang up if she thought it was too long between visits.
The point is that discreet contact is not always bad.
 
Wow after ignoring more numerous calls and txts from the same girl, and then having her on my block list. I received a phone call from her on a new number, asking why I blocked her. Basically told her to go away and not call anymore, I am not interested and she should get the hint since I have been ignoring her. I am still getting txt messages from her!
Seriously what the hell?! I think I will be either giving up punting or getting a seperate number, getting ridiculous
 
Wow.....that's what I call obsessive.......scary experience, very intimidating. Happened to me a while back. Guess you have to change your phone number. Seems to be the only way and as so many have mentioned before.....talk to the house. There is something seriously wrong.
I guess some W/L are in this industry for the wrong reasons (desperate to find love and a partner???????).
Luckily it is NOT the rule of the industry.

Yes Whilom....discreet contact is not necessarily bad but it has to be mutual.
 
happytimes Maybe Iamhavesomefun is saying the w/l has a new phone
and so is getting past the block that was put on origanally.
Never the less, stalking And this must be damn close. Is totally wrong
and also unprofessional. The parlour must be told.

People hear these stories. And every lady in the profession gets tarred to the same brush Which is totally unfair. If management dont care which is unlikely
the other girls at the place certainly would
 
Iamhavesomefun said:
Wow after ignoring more numerous calls and txts from the same girl, and then having her on my block list. I received a phone call from her on a new number, asking why I blocked her. Basically told her to go away and not call anymore, I am not interested and she should get the hint since I have been ignoring her. I am still getting txt messages from her!
Seriously what the hell?! I think I will be either giving up punting or getting a seperate number, getting ridiculous
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This is beyond crazy now hun! Have you conatcted the establishment yet? She needs to be dealt with...if not by them then the police! Don't give up punting because of her...we are not all the same
 
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