What life skills do you wish they'd taught you in school?

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Students lacking in life skills
Bethany Hiatt Education Editor, The West Australian
Updated June 25, 2013, 2:50 am


Concerns that children are not being taught basic social and practical skills at home have prompted some public schools to ask parents to help them make sure students have the life skills to cope with high school.

Willetton Senior High School, one of WA's top public schools, gives incoming Year 8 students a brochure with a checklist of skills it found many were lacking.

They include practical skills such as being able to write and address a letter, iron a shirt, use a broom and being able to tie a bow on an apron.

They also include social skills such as remembering to say please and thank you, being aware that bad language could be offensive and understanding the difference between slang and formal language.

Willetton deputy principal Dave Bonner said teachers created the brochure a few years ago as part of its orientation program for Year 7 students.

He said the list was "basic common sense" but it could serve as a useful reminder for some parents who might not be aware their children had not picked up necessary life skills.

"We're not saying all parents need that," he said.

Ellenbrook Secondary College principal Bill Mann sent a letter home to all parents this year after he realised they needed clearer advice about what they could do to support their child's learning.

His letter spelt out the necessity for students to come to school each day on time, in uniform and ready to learn.

"Being ready for learning means students have had a good night's sleep, a regular breakfast (not a chocolate bar and a can of soft drink on the way to school) and their bag is packed with the necessary tools for learning," he wrote.

Mr Mann told The West Australian schools also had to do more to teach students socially appropriate behaviour because youth culture had changed.

"The social media intrusion now means that kids don't spend as much time as they did before with their families, or have those kitchen table discussions during the evening meal in the way they used to," he said.
 
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JadeDoll

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There was not much about looking after myself and my household that my mum didn't teach me or that i couldn't learn from the CWA women's cookbook and household hints. Pity they went out of fashion-
 

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i think respect is a big one that needs to be taught prior to the life skills, respect for self , respect for elders and respect for authority. Once kids understand what respect is all about...they will become socially intelligent and learn all those living skills they require. My 12 yr old son is required to do chores..including cleaning so he understands when he gets older that he is also responsible for this duty. It is good to instill a sense of work ethic in children when they are young, it will only help them in the future and not expect things to be given to them as a right.
 
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Many people confuse schooling/education vs parenting/upbringing.

Many values which parents should teach end up with blame directed at schools. Parents blame schools for values they should be imparting; quite often it's a cop out.

The article says; "...iron a shirt, use a broom and being able to tie a bow on an apron.

They also include social skills such as remembering to say please and thank you, being aware that bad language could be offensive and understanding the difference between slang and formal language."
 

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Many people confuse schooling/education vs parenting/upbringing.

Many values which parents should teach end up with blame directed at schools. Parents blame schools for values they should be imparting; quite often it's a cop out.

The article says; "...iron a shirt, use a broom and being able to tie a bow on an apron.

They also include social skills such as remembering to say please and thank you, being aware that bad language could be offensive and understanding the difference between slang and formal language."
I Hate to say this Contrarian But I have to agree with you. Regarding parents expecting the schools to teach the absolute basics such as right and wrong and good manners and responsibility

As is oft quoted You need a license to get a dog but any Tom Dick or Harriet can bring a child into this world
Then expect society to do the hard work for them

And some parents seem more intent on being there kids friend rather than parent
 

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Yes I agree contrarian but for it to work , values need to be instilled in children at home, then reinforced at school. Parents have gone soft these days...and yes often the schools/government etc are left to pick up the pieces. Its all about having boundaries and letting children know where they stand not them dictating where you stand.
 
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As in all countries, the problem is exacerbated with both parents going to work - if one of them was at home and provided sound parenting skills, it'd be different. Chances are the kid comes home after school, naps, lunches and then hits the homework books and study. Some parents ban their kids doing anything on the mobile phone or PC except for one hour before dinner.

Let's not forget bonding - going out together as a family; which doesn't mean you all go the video shop and choose your respective dvds
 

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....interacting, communicating, talking with women....I still suffer from "foot in mouth" syndrome when chatting to women....at least its not as painful now as it was back when I left school (I went to an all boys school...).

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I know where your coming from Fudd My few years at agricultural college set me back years with the women folk
And if they had a 60 year old female teacher turn up Hubba Hubba She was probably 30 But the 15yr old mind computes that as old
Now 30 is only a step away from jailbait to me
 

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Yes Mr F I was sent to an all boys school too, I used to go awol and hang out at the nearby ladies college until they brought me back kicking and screaming into that all male environment - what were adults thinking inventing a place like that??
 

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Ahoy;- Pirate school was great, there was cutless training, cannon firing, cig smoking, Map reading, Rum drinking but my favorite class was Sailing and I was great at counting.
Pitty;- I cannot read, write, and I just cannot socially interact with normal people;--- Just Pirates;- Arrrrrrrrrrrrrr
 

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Ahoy;- Pirate school was great, there was cutless training, cannon firing, cig smoking, Map reading, Rum drinking but my favorite class was Sailing and I was great at counting.
Pitty;- I cannot read, write, and I just cannot socially interact with normal people;--- Just Pirates;- Arrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Better to be a happy pirate than an unhappy land lubber!
 

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Ahoy Bro Dallas;- Aye Aye lad I do agreeee with you, have a Rum on Meeeeee
Cheers and pass the Rum.
PS;- I found my first Pirate Girl in a "Public School" Arrrrrrrr sweet times, just You, the Ocean, Rum and a Public School runway Girlie

Better to be a happy pirate than an unhappy land lubber!
 

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I wish the school would have taught me how to invest and generate passive income. Rather than be a modern day slave. And better sex education!!!
 
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Like physical education classes, maybe they should have a class solely dedicated to putting kids under high stressful situations and give those proper tools and training to deal with situations at work or home as stress is the leading cause of mental health and social violence.

Sex education needs to catch up to the 21st century. No point in teaching our kids about stranger danger if the kids are taught not to accept lollies off strangers. Social media is another lolly, just not as sweet and today’s youth needs to know that.

If the education department wants to really impact our youth for the future based on what the future is looking like now, than they should have a drug and alcohol program high on the list of must do lessons. Kids have to be shown the impact of drugs and alcohol on families, the community and more importantly on their lives. No kid starts out wanting to destroy their families, the community of themselves.

I’ve said this before and I believe this, education cannot only be up to the parents. Children spend half of their time at school and the other half at home. Before long, they are in the community. This is where they have to apply what they have been taught, deal with what is going around them and at the same time try to set a life that they’ve only dreamt of.

The only tools and guidance they have are what they have been taught. The only supports they have are their family, friends and their idols, and some of them don’t even have that.

We have all been there, it’s scary just thinking about it but I’m more grateful that I’ve made it this far without a criminal record, a drug and alcohol addiction or mental health problem.

Learning to read, write, history, math is all great but with proper life education and guidance we can at least lower the number of drugs, alcohols, metal health and abuse our youth are experiencing.

That’s all I’m sayin…
 

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respect for elders and respect for authority.

I don't think elders should be respected simply because they're elder. Nor do I think authority should always automatically go unquestioned.

I understand teaching your child to question authority is difficult to reconcile when you are a parent. Because, well... you ARE The authority. An obedient child is a good child. Less headaches.
Obviously not all authority should be questioned. Because if you question and ignore every stop sign (that the authority Government has put there) you'll wind up dead and/or killing someone.
 

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Like physical education classes, maybe they should have a class solely dedicated to putting kids under high stressful situations and give those proper tools and training to deal with situations at work or home as stress is the leading cause of mental health and social violence.

Yes!! that's the best suggestion yet! Wish I'd had that when I was a kid.
 

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A lot of opinions here about raising children in days gone by and in todays society.
The one thing I wish I had learnt at school was financial planning and general budgeting.
As for todays generation well nobody is a winner, blues and pinks are confused and becoming purple.
We are soooooo PC that nobody knows whats right or wrong anymore. When they plan their familys they are not picking cribs they are choosing daycare centers. They don't have time with their kids so they buy it.
In 20 Yrs what are we to expect
 
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To be capable of composing a letter, do math, history and science are a must. Schools hope to inspire an inquisitive mind not be baby sitters.
It's the parents responsibility to teach respect and most other social issues, not TV or XBOX.
I got my learning from the streets so REALITY is subject that may help some young minds.
 
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How APR works! Interest rates etc. I had no idea so many years ago i had a credit card and store card to pay off at
ridiculously high rates.
 

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Dallas, you dont need to understand women. You just listen and love them))) Never argue, because you never win. -)) And i agree, i wish i learn at earlier age how to manage my finance...
 

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Dallas, you dont need to understand women. You just listen and love them))) Never argue, because you never win. -)) And i agree, i wish i learn at earlier age how to manage my finance...

This is good advice! I like the listening and loving them part, I am happy to practice lots!! :) oh and I never argue because I'm too busy with the listening and loving part :)
 

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You such a good student, you probably got a lot of light spanking in younger days..-))):walk::wav:
 
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