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What is your favorite BDSM-related moment or experience?

Andy IT

Andy
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I've never discussed this with anyone, but I'll do my best to make it as simple as possible. I've been practising BDSM for a long time, and I've experienced both dominance and submission. I've seen nearly all of the BDSM plays, and my two favourites are. Bondage and discipline come first. It was challenging for both of us when my boyfriend and I were attempting to figure out what we liked when we first met. We chose to attempt something novel and uncomfortable since we didn't want to ruin our relationship. I then looked at ways to liven up the atmosphere in our bedroom. We sowed various things, and we weren't entirely sure where to begin. We experimented with role-playing, sex toys, and bondage.

That was the first time I had ever felt satisfied. She served as my sub and carried out my instructions. We even tied her up with a rope since I like having the power to myself. As time went on, we switched places, and I became a sub. She made my discomfort quite enjoyable; I enjoyed how much it hurt.

The second activity is role-playing, which we have done so many that I have lost count. The best part about role-playing is that you can have a tonne of fun as long as you let your imagination run wild. You can assume any persona or take on any role you like.
 
I enjoy service-orientated submission. It was my first time serving my new mistress in her home. She had left me in the kitchen to clean and came back around an hour later when I was on my hands and knees cleaning the floor. She stood over me and told me I had missed a spot. After I asked where she squatted down and pissed all over the floor. She simply stood up and told me to lick it all up and walked off. We had not discussed this as a limit, but I wanted to please he so much that I did as I was told immediately
 
There was a private lady I saw a few times back in the 1990s. She was tall, (close to 6ft), blond, European, probably about 40 yo. Very sexy.

The first time I went to see her, she answered the door wearing her strap-on. That got me hot!

The wildest thing was when she dressed me up in some lingerie and then put me in a set of medieval stocks that she had in her bedroom. (Pretty much like these: https://www.eventprophire.com/product/medieval-pillory-stocks/ )

She then fucked me with the strap-on while I was locked in the stocks, dressed up in lingerie.
 
I enjoy service-orientated submission. It was my first time serving my new mistress in her home. She had left me in the kitchen to clean and came back around an hour later when I was on my hands and knees cleaning the floor. She stood over me and told me I had missed a spot. After I asked where she squatted down and pissed all over the floor. She simply stood up and told me to lick it all up and walked off. We had not discussed this as a limit, but I wanted to please he so much that I did as I was told immediately

That's hot!
 
Not necessarily my favourite (although not bad) was my first BD experience.

There was a private lady who used to live in a large pink house on Guildford Road in Maylands. She called herself 'Amazing Anna', or 'Mistress Mildred'. Why she chose to use the name 'Mildred', I have no idea! Hardly sexy! This was late 80s, early 90s. She charged $80 per hour, which even then was cheap.

I was very curious about experiencing BD, so I made an appointment and went to see her. She was in her 40s, BBW, very sexy and friendly. She asked me what I wanted, and then told me to undress. When I was naked, she got a pair of hand-cuffs, and put my hands behind my back. I started to get a bit nervous, and told her I wasn't sure I wanted to go through with it. She just whispered in my ear, "Yes, you do."

She was right. :)
 
Two that will live in my memory for quite a while were with one particular Mistress.
I was relatively new to BDSM on the first one, having been quite disappointed with my previous attempts. Furry handcuffs and feather dusters just don't cut it and having to instruct them during the session just waisted my time and ruined my expectation.

I sought out a much more experienced Mistress and there was definitely no disappointment with her, during any of my sessions.
There was the more usual beating (the rolled up Sunday Times in a leather pouch was particularly enjoyable), the bondage; the abuse, hitting, spitting, CBT, etc. However, still bound, I was laid on a bench and out came the urethral sounds. "FAAARK; what are going to do with those"?
I soon learned.

During another session, Mistress asked if I had ever tried breath play? "No", said I. After agreeing to try and still bound and sitting on the floor before a huge mirror, I found her arm around my neck and within seconds, I was gone. I woke a few seconds later, with her gentle reassuring voice in my ear.
"What did you think of that"?, she asked. Oh My Goodness. Coming back to consciousness, nervously shaking and seeing myself in the mirror with her behind me, I could do nothing but smile. "Oh", she said. "He likes it" and off I went again.

IMPORTANT: I do not recommend either of these two activities for beginners and faint hearted individuals. The breath play, particularly MUST be experienced with full and complete knowledge and information and agreement, by a very experienced Mistress, whom you trust implicitly.

But you asked.
 
Here is another one, although in this one, I was a witness.
Who remembers Perfect Touch?
Do you also remember, not long before they closed and reopened as Wink, they provided a BDSM taster for anyone interested.
I tried and found it to be another furry handcuff and feather duster job. However, a friend of mine, who had never tried, agreed to give it a go.
I waited in reception while he had his session.
He was blindfolded and earmuffed; but I wasn't. The screams and squeals that emanated from the room were hilarious.
I still laugh about it today.
 
Not necessarily my favourite (although not bad) was my first BD experience.

There was a private lady who used to live in a large pink house on Guildford Road in Maylands. She called herself 'Amazing Anna', or 'Mistress Mildred'. Why she chose to use the name 'Mildred', I have no idea! Hardly sexy! This was late 80s, early 90s. She charged $80 per hour, which even then was cheap.

I was very curious about experiencing BD, so I made an appointment and went to see her. She was in her 40s, BBW, very sexy and friendly. She asked me what I wanted, and then told me to undress. When I was naked, she got a pair of hand-cuffs, and put my hands behind my back. I started to get a bit nervous, and told her I wasn't sure I wanted to go through with it. She just whispered in my ear, "Yes, you do."

She was right. :)
Where is she now ? ;)
 
I love giving and receiving impact and genital torture, some favourites have been a trans masc client who could take very intense impact with multiple canes. Also first timer for electro cbt,he loved it and his screams were most enjoyable. Sounding an ex partner,also removing his testicles from the sac and play piercing them,that was definitely memorable.

Not strictly bdsm but doing skin hook suspension has been a life highlight.
 
I love giving and receiving impact and genital torture, some favourites have been a trans masc client who could take very intense impact with multiple canes. Also first timer for electro cbt,he loved it and his screams were most enjoyable. Sounding an ex partner,also removing his testicles from the sac and play piercing them,that was definitely memorable.

Not strictly bdsm but doing skin hook suspension has been a life highlight.
I've experienced a bit of testicle needle play before and those sessions are definitely my most memorable. Skewered balls make for a good picture too 😁, how did you manage to remove them from the sack?? That must have looked awesome!
 
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