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What is with guys and anal?

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Anne VIP

Working reception at Langtrees Canberra, I get a LOT of requests for anal. It is probably the most asked for service, however the least offered by our WL's.

So what's the deal with anal anyways guys? What's all the fuss about? And why is it a deal breaker if a WL wont provide this particular service?
 
Miss Monique said:
Women will either do or or not and I don't think there is a deal breaker when it comes to anal. Personally I love it
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I have had potential clients walk away because we do not offer / guarantee the service....
 
Anne VIP Canberra said:
Working reception at Langtrees Canberra, I get a LOT of requests for anal. It is probably the most asked for service, however the least offered by our WL's.

So what's the deal with anal anyways guys? What's all the fuss about? And why is it a deal breaker if a WL wont provide this particular service?
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Probably coz they feel (mind me) it tight
 
To be blunt Anal was considered Taboo to do, a second hole that should always be tighter then a vagina. And thus why you're getting more request on anal. We all wanna go back to those teen days when vaginas where tight and us cumming in mins, but reality isn't so kind.

Plus Years back Anal porn wasn't really a thing, now you have tons of anal and double penetration porn that it's becoming the norm. So they look forward towards WLs to fullfill that fantasy. But as always it's your choice whether to move with the times, or maintain your stand on the matter.

Forgot to add as you know us men below are of different width and length so when someone of a thinner or shorter length tries the same WL the effect isn't as pleasurable due to the vagina use to a bigger size penis or style of sex. So again anal should be tighter type of thinking come into play.
 
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As in any industry selling products/services as a supplier, you can chose whether to service all or only a portion of what clients seek.

In any business, if you don’t supply what is sought why would you not expect potential clients to go elsewhere to get what they actually want rather than compromise because of your choice as a supplier?

As a comparison, if I went to a plumbing supply shop and asked for poly pipe and they only stocked copper, I’d say thank you then go elsewhere for the same reasons (And hopefully not be denigrated by the shop for exercising my right to make that choice)
 
I went 28 years before I ever tried anal & maybe it's just a personal thing but I wasn't a fan. Previous comment was right about taboo though, it's the same thing as ladies who will allow CoB, it's considered more taboo so it's a service a lot of men want to try at least once.
 
A man is far more likely to find a working lady that will perform anal than find a regular woman that will do anal sex.
A sex worker is more than likely experienced and will relax and enjoy anal sex.
The majority of woman are scared of anal sex or they have had bad experiences and will not do it.
 
stovo82 said:
A man is far more likely to find a working lady that will perform anal than find a regular woman that will do anal sex.
A sex worker is more than likely experienced and will relax and enjoy anal sex.
The majority of woman are scared of anal sex or they have had bad experiences and will not do it.
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In the swinging scene, I find there are probably a higher % of ladies who either actively seek anal ( both by itself or as part of MMF play/DP ) or have a fantasy to try anal than in the normal population and possible across the range of W/Ls.

Those who actively seek it are usually well prepared, relaxed, clean and ready to go and are great to share the experience with.

Those with a fantasy, especially if it is an as yet unfulfilled fantasy, need to be coached through the experience. Handled well, with respect and sensitivity, it can be wonderful for all parties if she feels blissfully satisfied in the process of fulfilling the fantasy. Equally if handled well, can still be part of a wonderful shared experience if it helps her realize that fantasy is not really her cup of tea.

Unfortunately if they hook up with the wrong guy the fantasy can quickly become a nightmare as others have alluded to already.

Have seen both....definitely no "one size fit all" situation (pardon the pun.....)
 
Agreed with above @MikeB

When it was hinted to me...
(me not knowing a thing at all about anal sex) ... I ran straight to my regular sex-shop lady and asked her for all the advice and info. ahah.

Turned out amazing.
But yes... the effort... preparation.
I don't offer it at work.
And it was on the "rare privilege list OR i'm probably in f*ckin lovE with you to be this crazy to be up for it today-mood" for the personal life,
which is a list that does not exist to me, anymore hahahah..



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As has been mentioned before the prevalence of anal, DP, two in one ...... porn has changed the landscape of at home sex and request of WLs. I know a number of ladies who sit on either side of the fence; with some screaming about how wonderful it is and the others saying it’s an out hole only. At the end of the day it’s ladies choice as far as I’m concerned.
That said, men can be easily persuade and in this case if it’s on the Internet, in colour and from the US/Europe then every lady must love it and I must try it! “But my wife/gf doesn’t love it”, hence the increase in requests of WLs. Maybe the response could be something along the lines of; certainly we offer that service but turn about is fair game .
Just my humble thoughts. Love R

PS: What will be the next service request because of the porn industry?
 
Richard said:
As has been mentioned before the prevalence of anal, DP, two in one ...... porn has changed the landscape of at home sex and request of WLs. I know a number of ladies who sit on either side of the fence; with some screaming about how wonderful it is and the others saying it’s an out hole only. At the end of the day it’s ladies choice as far as I’m concerned.
That said, men can be easily persuade and in this case if it’s on the Internet, in colour and from the US/Europe then every lady must love it and I must try it! “But my wife/gf doesn’t love it”, hence the increase in requests of WLs. Maybe the response could be something along the lines of; certainly we offer that service but turn about is fair game .
Just my humble thoughts. Love R

PS: What will be the next service request because of the porn industry?
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There are many kinkier activities that make their way on to carnal bucket lists thanks to porn (or some people’s innate sexual curiosity) eg
  • ATM
  • Fisting (vag and/or anal)
  • DP (Yankie Sandwich)
  • DV (Vag)
  • DA (Double Anal)
  • Bukkake
  • BDSM eg spanking and inflicting some pain
  • Ropework eg Shibari or Kinbaku
to name a few (Not endorsing or judging any merits here please!)

If you go looking, there are many “everyday” amateurs who practise these in their everyday erotic play times. This is not solely sought from, and satiated by, visiting a W/L.

There are a number of ”social” groups and sites catering for such in a likeminded setting frequented by both males & females of the species, (even here is sleepy Perth) eg Fetlife etc, RHP (in part).

These groups are non judgemental and not constrained by society’s prejudices as to what is right or wrong in the pursuit of erotic pleasure and sexual fulfilment. Thus the focus is on pleasurable arousal unhindered by the anxiety of being judged by those around you or any sense of guilt.
 
It is a love it or hate it thing.

The ladies I have met who were up for it were very experienced and prepared for it and genuinely got off on it.

One told me she can only climax via anal which surprised me.

I wasnt sure about it at first but I enjoy it now if the lady does too.
 
A girlfriend likes anal play when I'm eating her, finger each in her anus and vagina, rubbing the wall between them, lightly pinched together drives her wild. We did that once standing up and kissing but me doing that with my fingers, and when she came she also poo'd on my foot. She was deeply embarrassed while I found it hilarious.
 
I asked a youngish Asian masseuse what she offered for extras and anal and bareback were on her list. I asked her if she enjoyed anal (I wasn't going there but was curious) and she said not really. For her it was just an option for extra money/more clients. The bareback option put me off any further contact with her though she was attractive.
 
Can't say I'd ever ask for it
However if a lady wants.... lady gets
Certainly not a dealbreaker for me
2 other perfectly pleasurable holes for me to enjoy
 
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