What is truth

[Trevsa10]

As a married man who is trying to find a lover I have been on several sights seeking a lady who is in a simular suituation as my self . I donot make a secret of my suituation .Now most woman tell you they want honesty and that is what they get from me . Now what pluzzles me is where it seems perfectly for a woman to want abit on the side and perfectly acceptable by us males . The revers dose not seem to be true I have even viewed profile in which women state they are married but donot want to know married men . Now I also know quite a few man who claim to be single are not . So ladies what is best a man who tells you the truth even if it is something you donot like . Or a man who just omites certain importand details . I really would like to know

 

[WRXXR]

Potential lady friends (well lovers) get honesty from you, yet your missus doesn't?

 

[Trevsa10]

NO my missus know all about it I am not that stupid >As i said I am honest and not interested in sneeking around or lying to get the thing I need

 

[Alecia the Foxx]

The married ladies whom you are meeting this way, who don't want to engage with married men, are those who are looking for a new partner. That is not what you want, I assume, so it is best to keep plodding on until you find a married lady in the same position as yourself, happy to stay married, but likes a couple of extra curriculars.

 

[Trevsa10]

Well to be honest I do not have any idear of thetype of person I am looking for. BUT I would have though in this enlightened age it would have not been a long journey nor a difficult one .What I have found that we say we want honesty but it seem to me in most cases it only applies to the thing we find apealing

 

[svengali]

Believe it or not, I believe that most ladies who are lucky enough to find a man they love enough to marry and have children with simply are not interested in straying from the marital bed.

Sharing it about seems to be more of a male fantasy and, in many cases, I think you will find it works better that way.

 

[Trevsa10]

Yes i agree but thing go wrong . I felt i would never even consider another woman but after years of next to no sex you need something to happen believe me

 

[Happy2]

I know its no of my business Trevsa10 but, isn't it fairer on the better half to see a w/l
and reduce the chance of an emotional attachment. Maybe even reduce the chance of bringing home a unwanted friend in the form of a STD etc?

 

[Trevsa10]

HI happy I do not mind the emotianal detachment for me it makes for more intense lovemaking .As for a married lady well I am open for any lady who feels the need for the release of sexual tension .I would first of all like her to be my friend then a lover

 

[Farm Boy]

The truth is 98% of women who want a bit on the side can organizer this activity very easily , discretely select a likely man and a few little hints signals are given off , and bingo in no time they have a TOY BOY or a man that takes there fancy.