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What if u want to ask a escort or sex worker on a actual date

Shy guy from aus said:
So I've been thinking of different things lately bit I was wandering what about if u actually start liking or feel attracted to sex worker or escort. Is it a little bit weird to ask if they would like go on a date or out for drinks.
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You have to realise the fact that even if you do get a chance, you have to respect the fact that she will be still working. A lot of blokes get jealous after or try their best to get the girl out of the industry, big mistake.

Give it a go if you so feel like it, but remember to be impartial about it. If she says no kewl, if she says yes also kewl. Never a good thing to build up a 1 sided infatuation and turn into a stalker afterwards. Sex to us paying is a gift, to them it's a daily job they might click well with you but they probably clicked well with the 3-5 males before you and a few after your session. And considering a WL job she has to be very careful on who she selects, if she ever does. So consider dating a normal girl she has her wall up, a WL 2-3 walls up.

But give it a go you might one day get lucky, it does happens rarely out of the many. Or worst you get your heart broken constantly. Your choice.
 
No harm in asking. But you must respect the WL’s decision and not make her feel uncomfortable.
Ive dated an asian lady that did massage with happy endings plus a Thai ladyboy in the past.
Cant let jealousy creep in otherwise that will kill it every time.
If you want a bit more of a connection then ask to go for a coffee or a drink before or after the session. But be prepared that you may have to pay for her time. And then depending how well your connection goes, those social sessions may not be charged down the track.
 
MikeB said:
Remember that you are paying for their skills to make you feel like your having a Girl Friend Experience. If you feel like that, they are very good at their job and should be congratulated or tipped for their excellent role playing nothing more.
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Exactly right, well said.

Don't do it mate.
 
Yeah. The most off the scale fun was getting personal with WL’s. But it was not good for them or me.

No regrets for the part that there is nothing I haven’t done as a younger man and now quite satisfied and not so curious anymore.

But was very costly to my personal life when it came to what I neglected when I was driven by 24/7 fantasy.

But speaking for myself. A life like that was hard to resist.

Would I do it all again? No!!! There are much better things to value in life than an addiction to self validation through pussy.

As I was getting a bit dry and wrinkly a wise friend (second best writer to me lol) told me that I should stop playing around with 19 year old girls and settle down with someone more serious. After some trial and error and a few fuck ups. I found the one :)

No offence ladies. If I was a chick, I would have been doing the same thing with abs and meat rods at the time lol...
 
Dreamchaser said:
Would ya ask a random plumber to come 2 ya house & unblock the dunny free of charge when he's knocked off for the day or on his day off?
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Asking someone on a date isn't asking for free sex (for some anyway).
A date is going out somewhere together or even dinner at home. Why does sex have to be part of the equation?
 
Tania Admin said:
Asking someone on a date isn't asking for free sex (for some anyway).
A date is going out somewhere together or even dinner at home. Why does sex have to be part of the equation?
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Y would any1 ask sum1 on a date if they don't wanna have sex with that person but?
 
Dreamchaser said:
Y would any1 ask sum1 on a date if they don't wanna have sex with that person but?
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Well I’ll have to disagree with that...

While there has been many dates back in the golden era and for a time ‘post gold’ there were many non transactional encounters where the clear intention was sex. Some were different.

Eight years ago I met a waitress, and I am not being bias... but she is by far the most stunning thing I laid eyes on.., No working lady or non working lady that I met up to that point could even hold a candle...

I asked her for her number and she said yes and she asked why. I told her I want to take her out. No games, no lies, I was acting different without volunteering to do so.

On our first date we shot at a gun range, we dined, we went to Kings Park. Kings park was a place of triumph for me on many occasions. Many parts and fixtures inside my hot little Toyota Celica at the time was kicked off by high heels etc ;).

Something was different... I did not pull the trigger and make the move like I did almost every other time. I did not kiss her. I did not hold her. Something within me held me back. I think it was called respecting that fact she was not ready. While she loved spending time with me, she was not a slut.

Sadly she chose another after 5 days and I hardly heard from her again as she is an extremely loyal person and did not want to lead me on or disrespect her new boyfriend. That just made me want her more, but she was never going to be mine. A little later she loved back to her home country with her new man. That was that... I let go and walked away and accepted her choice and wished her happiness. We met for a meal to say goodbye. I hugged her when it was time to part, and it felt so right. But she was not mine and I never expected to see her again. I turned around quickly and walked away, wiped off my tears and moved on.

2 years passed and she made contact. She was still with her man but very unhappy. I made no moves... I was also in a relationship.. a very strange and kinda fucked up relationship, but a relationship. I told her that and later on learned that she cried a lot from learning that fact.

Another year passed and things were different for both of us again. We talked more and made plans to travel somewhere and meet.

EIGHT YEARS AGO I MET A BEAUTIFUL WAITRESS... WE WENT OUT ON A DATE AND I HAD NO ATTACHMENT TO HAVE SEX THAT NIGHT. I JUST LOVED BEING AROUND HER.

TODAY WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR MORE THAN 5 YEARS. SHE IS GETTING MORE BEAUTIFUL. ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE SHE IS STILL ASLEEP IN THE MORNING NEXT TO ME. I CAN LIE THERE FOR HOURS JUST WATCHING HER SLEEP IN MY ARMS.

OUR SEX LIFE IS STILL LIKE THE WHEN WE TRAVELLED SOMEWHERE AND MET UP...

That is why I have been retired from being Yoda to this day...
 
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With each new generation the dating game changes slightly to being more sexual in nature. From the old days of courting for a girl & getting to kiss her hand, to chaperones and maybe French kisses, to asking someone out and getting sex after a month, to now a days to kissing and possible sex on the first date. Before in the past you had to meet someone face to face and get to know them well then date them, now it's all dating apps meet up and go from there. Doesn't work out no problem next match up on tinder...ect.

They call our way of thinking old fashioned, cause true love takes time & is very hard to find in this day and age. And not many ppl practice it. These days... Not advancing on a girl with some sort of physical connection on your first date, can back fire making it look like you're not interested.

This is what they call a generation gap in thinking & actions.

When we see WLs it's a like skipping ahead a few steps of the dating process, straight to business. That's why men get the gradual need to ask a WL out with the one they connect with. As they say "Actions speak louder then words".
 
Master Yoda said:
Well I’ll have to disagree with that...

While there has been many dates back in the golden era and for a time ‘post gold’ there were many non transactional encounters where the clear intention was sex. Some were different.

Eight years ago I met a waitress, and I am not being bias... but she is by far the most stunning thing I laid eyes on.., No working lady or non working lady that I met up to that point could even hold a candle...

I asked her for her number and she said yes and she asked why. I told her I want to take her out. No games, no lies, I was acting different without volunteering to do so.

On our first date we shot at a gun range, we dined, we went to Kings Park. Kings park was a place of triumph for me on many occasions. Many parts and fixtures inside my hot little Toyota Celica at the time was kicked off by high heels etc ;).

Something was different... I did not pull the trigger and make the move like I did almost every other time. I did not kiss her. I did not hold her. Something within me held me back. I think it was called respecting that fact she was not ready. While she loved spending time with me, she was not a slut.

Sadly she chose another after 5 days and I hardly heard from her again as she is an extremely loyal person and did not want to lead me on or disrespect her new boyfriend. That just made me want her more, but she was never going to be mine. A little later she loved back to her home country with her new man. That was that... I let go and walked away and accepted her choice and wished her happiness. We met for a meal to say goodbye. I hugged her when it was time to part, and it felt so right. But she was not mine and I never expected to see her again. I turned around quickly and walked away, wiped off my tears and moved on.

2 years passed and she made contact. She was still with her man but very unhappy. I made no moves... I was also in a relationship.. a very strange and kinda fucked up relationship, but a relationship. I told her that and later on learned that she cried a lot from learning that fact.

Another year passed and things were different for both of us again. We talked more and made plans to travel somewhere and meet.

EIGHT YEARS AGO I MET A BEAUTIFUL WAITRESS... WE WENT OUT ON A DATE AND I HAD NO ATTACHMENT TO HAVE SEX THAT NIGHT. I JUST LOVED BEING AROUND HER.

TODAY WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR MORE THAN 5 YEARS. SHE IS GETTING MORE BEAUTIFUL. ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE SHE IS STILL ASLEEP IN THE MORNING NEXT TO ME. I CAN LIE THERE FOR HOURS JUST WATCHING HER SLEEP IN MY ARMS.

OUR SEX LIFE IS STILL LIKE THE WHEN WE TRAVELLED SOMEWHERE AND MET UP...

That is why I have been retired from being Yoda to this day...
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So u r saying that u had no intention of having sex with her when u first met but after awhile u did?
 
I have crossed the line a couple of times and gone on dates with WLs.
They were just dates as they were interesting people and I wanted to get to know them better then just having sex. It was quite good and relaxed as the sexual thing was out of the way and no games needed to be played. It never went any further as neither of us wanted anything permanent and if I saw them in their work capacity I would still pay them as they were at work but I would say it was more like a girl friend experience. The dates weren't payed for it was just 2 people out enjoying each other company.
Like every one else WLs have their private lives and may choose to keep their work and personal lives separate just like punters so i would say this is a rarity and not the norm but if the chemistry is there for both who knows....
 
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