What happens when professional and personal entwine?

[Celeste_SJ]

Hi,

Late last year there was a question posted by a male forum member asking for advice because he developed real feelings for the sex worker he regularly booked. I read with interest all kinds of advice he received, some encouraging him to take that big step and ask her out, some discouraging that he is booking a girlfriend experience, not finding a girlfriend. So far I haven't seen any follow up post's from him with how everything worked out.

So I got to wondering if anyone has ever found themselves as a punter or a sex work provider in that space where the personal and the professional entwine and did that end in a real life romance or was it a great big oopsy daisy?

 

[Christan3059]

Hi,

Late last year there was a question posted by a male forum member asking for advice because he developed real feelings for the sex worker he regularly booked. I read with interest all kinds of advice he received, some encouraging him to take that big step and ask her out, some discouraging that he is booking a girlfriend experience, not finding a girlfriend. So far I haven't seen any follow up post's from him with how everything worked out.

So I got to wondering if anyone has ever found themselves as a punter or a sex work provider in that space where the personal and the professional entwine and did that end in a real life romance or was it a great big oopsy daisy?

Just don’t go there, as its a path for disappointment.. These Working ladies, know the game, trying to bait you to return. Its all about the cash . No money no honey.
The thought of thousands of other guys , maybe even a hidden std..,No man wants a Bonnie Blue..

 

[Celeste_SJ]

Just don’t go there, as its a path for disappointment.. These Working ladies, know the game, trying to bait you to return. Its all about the cash . No money no honey.
The thought of thousands of other guys , maybe even a hidden std..,No man wants a Bonnie Blue..

I think a responsible sex worker is one of the safest women to have sex with as they use condoms and they get tested for STI's regularly. Ally Langdon interviewed Bonnie Blue on a Current Affair (Australian TV) and gave a really candid interview and comes across as empowered by her choices and I don't think her career means she is not entitled to a loving, respectful, trusting relationship, sex work is just a job.

Thanks for taking the time to reply!