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I like confidence in a man and men secure enough in themselves to allow themselves to be dominant and controlled. I find it really attractive when a man gives me his body and serves me for my pleasure.

Back to the live languages I like time and service from men mostly I find those things very attractive.
 
MELISSA Garbin said it was “just another Tuesday” when Sam Barnett, Premier Colin Barnett’s jetsetting son, lavished her with thousands of dollars in gifts last month.
The 26-year-old property investor picked up his girlfriend in a flash limo, before giving her a pair of 18-carat diamond earrings and about $3000 in cash, which they spent at Crown Perth.

Barnett Jr said he booked the 10-seater vehicle because it had a screen separating the driver from passengers.

“And I wanted some privacy,” he said.

The couple quaffed $500 glasses (yes, glasses) of bubbly at Crown’s La Vie Champagne Lounge and dined at Rockpool Bar & Grill before hitting the high-roller room and bedding down in a luxury hotel suite.

Melissa Garbin poses in the back of a limousine.




Melissa Garbin poses in the back of a limousine.
Melissa Garbin's boyfriend checklist




Melissa Garbin's boyfriend checklist
How do we know?

Garbin posted photos, including one of her new earrings perched on a pile of cash, on social media.

She also placed a big tick next to her “boyfriend checklist”, which included a “pile of money to gamble” and a “King suite with a spa”.

Barnett also posted a Facebook photo of Garbin in the back of the limousine, holding a wad of cash.

“My girlfriend only eats oysters,” he wrote. “I wouldn’t have it any other way. Hope you liked my surprise.”
The 21-year-old barmaid and dancer told her Facebook friends that her ”main man” makes it “rain (with money) daily”.
She told Confidential he treats her to gifts “all the time”.
“I’m just unwrapping my new Guess bag that he just bought me as well,” she said from Melbourne, where the couple have been snowboarding this week.
“We kind of eat out all the time so it was just another Tuesday (at Crown Perth),” she said of the photos.

“We like to keep everything adventurous and fun.”
 
“We kind of eat out all the time so it was just another Tuesday (at Crown Perth),” she said of the photos.

What kind of stupid comment is that? "We kind of eat out"? You either eat out or you eat in - what's with the "kind of"?
 
doob said:
MELISSA Garbin said it was “just another Tuesday” when Sam Barnett, Premier Colin Barnett’s jetsetting son, lavished her with thousands of dollars in gifts last month.
The 26-year-old property investor picked up his girlfriend in a flash limo, before giving her a pair of 18-carat diamond earrings and about $3000 in cash, which they spent at Crown Perth.

Barnett Jr said he booked the 10-seater vehicle because it had a screen separating the driver from passengers.

“And I wanted some privacy,” he said.

The couple quaffed $500 glasses (yes, glasses) of bubbly at Crown’s La Vie Champagne Lounge and dined at Rockpool Bar & Grill before hitting the high-roller room and bedding down in a luxury hotel suite.

Melissa Garbin poses in the back of a limousine.




Melissa Garbin poses in the back of a limousine.
Melissa Garbin's boyfriend checklist's boyfriend checklist




Melissa Garbin's boyfriend checklist
How do we know?

Garbin posted photos, including one of her new earrings perched on a pile of cash, on social media.

She also placed a big tick next to her “boyfriend checklist”, which included a “pile of money to gamble” and a “King suite with a spa”.

Barnett also posted a Facebook photo of Garbin in the back of the limousine, holding a wad of cash.

“My girlfriend only eats oysters,” he wrote. “I wouldn’t have it any other way. Hope you liked my surprise.”
The 21-year-old barmaid and dancer told her Facebook friends that her ”main man” makes it “rain (with money) daily”.
She told Confidential he treats her to gifts “all the time”.
“I’m just unwrapping my new Guess bag that he just bought me as well,” she said from Melbourne, where the couple have been snowboarding this week.
“We kind of eat out all the time so it was just another Tuesday (at Crown Perth),” she said of the photos.

“We like to keep everything adventurous and fun.”
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Barnett be simping!
 
This lady once (actually more than once, just different ladies:D) offered me a blowjob. I said; "That's all well and good but what's in it for me?"
 
Bro, if you’re wondering what actually gets a woman’s attention, it’s not about flashy cars, six-pack abs, or a wallet thicker than a pub schnitty. It’s about how you show up as a man—your confidence, your presence, and the way you make her feel.

1. Lead, Don’t Linger​

Women notice men who know where they’re going in life. If you’re unsure of yourself, second-guessing everything, or waiting for her to lead, she won’t see you as someone worth following. Confidence isn’t arrogance—it’s certainty. Have a direction, make decisions, and stand by them.

2. Emotional Strength Over Physical Strength​

Sure, looking after yourself is a plus, but emotional resilience is what really sets you apart. Can you handle pressure without cracking? Can you listen without getting defensive? Women are drawn to blokes who stay calm under fire. If you can bring emotional security, she’ll feel safe—and that’s magnetic.

3. Be Present, Not Just Physically There​

Nothing turns a woman off faster than a man who’s there but not really there. If you’re half-listening, scrolling your phone, or mentally checking out, she’ll pick up on it immediately. When you talk to her, be all in. Strong eye contact, engaged listening, and actually caring about what she says. That’s what gets her attention.

4. Purpose Over Pleasing​

A bloke who makes a woman the centre of his universe isn’t romantic—it’s suffocating. Women don’t want a guy who lives for their approval; they want a man with his own mission. The more you focus on your own growth, goals, and passions, the more attractive you become. When you’re driven, she’ll want to be part of your world.

5. Masculine Energy is a Magnet​

A man’s job isn’t to compete with a woman’s energy—it’s to complement it. The stronger your masculine frame, the more space you create for her feminine energy. That means being assertive, grounded, and protective—not controlling, not aggressive, but solid in who you are. When you bring that energy, she feels it, and that’s what makes her drawn to you.

6. Walk Away Power​

The moment you start chasing, you lose. Women respect men who don’t beg for attention. If she’s half-hearted, lukewarm, or playing games, let her go. A man with self-respect doesn’t cling—he moves on. Nothing is more attractive than a bloke who values himself first.

Final Word​

Want a woman’s attention? Be a man worth noticing. Build confidence, have a purpose, stay emotionally strong, and bring your best energy into every interaction. Women don’t fall for gimmicks—they fall for men who know who they are.

Ladies, does this sound right? Blokes, what’s been your experience?
 
Master Yoda said:
Bro, if you’re wondering what actually gets a woman’s attention, it’s not about flashy cars, six-pack abs, or a wallet thicker than a pub schnitty. It’s about how you show up as a man—your confidence, your presence, and the way you make her feel.

1. Lead, Don’t Linger​

Women notice men who know where they’re going in life. If you’re unsure of yourself, second-guessing everything, or waiting for her to lead, she won’t see you as someone worth following. Confidence isn’t arrogance—it’s certainty. Have a direction, make decisions, and stand by them.

2. Emotional Strength Over Physical Strength​

Sure, looking after yourself is a plus, but emotional resilience is what really sets you apart. Can you handle pressure without cracking? Can you listen without getting defensive? Women are drawn to blokes who stay calm under fire. If you can bring emotional security, she’ll feel safe—and that’s magnetic.

3. Be Present, Not Just Physically There​

Nothing turns a woman off faster than a man who’s there but not really there. If you’re half-listening, scrolling your phone, or mentally checking out, she’ll pick up on it immediately. When you talk to her, be all in. Strong eye contact, engaged listening, and actually caring about what she says. That’s what gets her attention.

4. Purpose Over Pleasing​

A bloke who makes a woman the centre of his universe isn’t romantic—it’s suffocating. Women don’t want a guy who lives for their approval; they want a man with his own mission. The more you focus on your own growth, goals, and passions, the more attractive you become. When you’re driven, she’ll want to be part of your world.

5. Masculine Energy is a Magnet​

A man’s job isn’t to compete with a woman’s energy—it’s to complement it. The stronger your masculine frame, the more space you create for her feminine energy. That means being assertive, grounded, and protective—not controlling, not aggressive, but solid in who you are. When you bring that energy, she feels it, and that’s what makes her drawn to you.

6. Walk Away Power​

The moment you start chasing, you lose. Women respect men who don’t beg for attention. If she’s half-hearted, lukewarm, or playing games, let her go. A man with self-respect doesn’t cling—he moves on. Nothing is more attractive than a bloke who values himself first.

Final Word​

Want a woman’s attention? Be a man worth noticing. Build confidence, have a purpose, stay emotionally strong, and bring your best energy into every interaction. Women don’t fall for gimmicks—they fall for men who know who they are.

Ladies, does this sound right? Blokes, what’s been your experience?
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Agreed. However, some caveats. Nowadays there is a movement that hates masculinity, so much so, it is called "toxic masculinity". Many women don't want their (non-existent) femininity complemented by masculinity. They despise it, they want an "equal partner" rather than a complement.

On point 3, many women bury their faces in their phones. I've seen it on many a date. It becomes so awkward for the man that he too pulls out his phone.

On a final note, 100% agree with walk away power. If she shows no respect (like in the above example) or shows no interest, walk away, and if on a date, pay for your meal only.

Good luck!
 
johnmatilda said:
Agreed. However, some caveats. Nowadays there is a movement that hates masculinity, so much so, it is called "toxic masculinity". Many women don't want their (non-existent) femininity complemented by masculinity. They despise it, they want an "equal partner" rather than a complement.

On point 3, many women bury their faces in their phones. I've seen it on many a date. It becomes so awkward for the man that he too pulls out his phone.

On a final note, 100% agree with walk away power. If she shows no respect (like in the above example) or shows no interest, walk away, and if on a date, pay for your meal only.

Good luck!
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Masculinity can be kind or it can be toxic you are right. Also on point three, if I was treated like that, I would no longer entertain that person under any context.
 
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