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Hi, seeking a little advice, I'm in a hetro relationship, but for the past few years have developed a huge fetish for cocks, and it seems big ones. Every time I masturbate it's usually watching a large cock cam or similar. I'm not particularly turned on by the male form and more often than not if I can see the whole make (face) it doesn't work for me, but show me just a big thick cock and I'm cumming in seconds. What does it mean? I'm curious to try to see if my urges are real or fantasy, but unsure how. I've read about bath houses? Any advice would be great.
 
You are human, labels are just that life is like a ice cream flavour, everyone has there own favourite, and some like multiple flavours. Just be yourself explore, sometimes fantasy does not turn out when you try it, but you never know if you never go.
A interesting fact there isn't a bloke in the world that hasn;t tried to see if he can suck his own dick, some are sucessful and get good results. Its hard to live with a dick and not wonder what it is like to touch another etc.
 
Thanks :) any advice on where to go to try? I like the idea of bath houses where there's no small talk, you're already naked, it's kind of anonymous. Do you have a list on this site of them?
 
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As Human Beings we have the ability to be turned on (get Hard) in a variety of different ways. This is very Natural. However the problems start and things that are hard may become softer when we worry or over analyse things too much! Go Hard or Go Home. Be Damned or Be DifferNT. Its 2016 people!

The point is better to be turned on than not at all! ​
 
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I started this thread in our Melbourne forum, I hope you will join in and list a few bath houses, and then members wills tart telling us their experiences. You will have to take one for the team visit a place and let us know your feedback.
 
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Another option might be to see a pre-op transsexual, preferably a very feminine looking one (since, like me, you are not turned on by the male visage) with a big schlong. You might just need to get it 'out of your system' once or twice like some of us, and playing with one at the end of a female lookalike might be the balance you're after. Or you might get hooked. ;)
 
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Another option might be to see a pre-op transsexual, preferably a very feminine looking one (since, like me, you are not turned on by the male visage) with a big schlong. You might just need to get it 'out of your system' once or twice like some of us, and playing with one at the end of a female lookalike might be the balance you're after. Or you might get hooked. ;)
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That would be the dream! But they seem to be a bit of a unicorn! If you know where to find one, or recommend a place, forum or otherwise, please share ;) and I don't think it's a one off thing, rather finding the right. Balance of interaction and people.
 
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Mary-Anne K said:
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Thanks! You've been very helpful! Now to go post in the other forums for my other kinks ;) decided this year is my year to try it all!
 
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Mary-Anne K said:
You are human, labels are just that life is like a ice cream flavour, everyone has there own favourite, and some like multiple flavours. Just be yourself explore, sometimes fantasy does not turn out when you try it, but you never know if you never go.
A interesting fact there isn't a bloke in the world that hasn;t tried to see if he can suck his own dick, some are sucessful and get good results. Its hard to live with a dick and not wonder what it is like to touch another etc.
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I like your explanation Marry_Anne K, I also like ice cream and multiple flavours. I'd like to add to your thinking that the labeling ppl have for others is exactly that, I suppose it's something to do with the unknown, they cant answer it correctly by their own understanding or thinking so they revert to or generalise what the have previously heard about it, but we must always remember never to deny ourself anything in this world for fear of the opinion of others, which in some cases we do, an example of this is Beauty, we must never deny Beauty in any form whether it be a paining, statue, man, women, etc etc If I was to admire and comment on the statue of David by Michelangelo in the common world automatically Im gay for doing so, I imagine so due to his junk been exposed, but sadly not due to the perfection and mastery of such a magnificent presentation of a true master of his trade, and so on, and so on,

Your advice to 'Just be yourself ' ' give it a Go ' cant be anymore correct then the words them self, however I believe those who generalize and label were prepared to except them as well, they to would see the Beauty that surrounds them, It truly must be a saddening state to knowing deny or hide ones true feelings as we see or feel them in our own bodies simply doing so for the fear of what others may think.

Oh and to the last bit, it feels amazing :) I hope they take your advice and live from it.....
 
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