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Bluegrass9

Bluegrass9

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I have recently have been inviting ladies I have found on a site I have joined on the net for coffee at a coffee place at a shopping centre. Why? The only reason is to gather information about people to help me make my characters in my writing more real.

I have been lucky and have found one lady who loves to tell me about her life for the price of a lunch. A perfect relationship for the both of us.

However one lady replied, "I am not not into married men." And I wrote back to her, " I was only offering coffee."

But alas I met one lady for some strange and unknown reason says she loves me. Then all seems good as she realizes it can not be because if I broke up with my wife and I never would she would always be known as the home wrecker to my family.

I have tried not to hurt her and even wrote a poem for her. "Friends" (a copy for all to read) but in the end had to ask her to leave me alone as I could not take it anymore. She now has agreed to give me time but I need time that is forever.

What would you do?
:walk:

Friends:

At times it is so much easier to be comfortable with strangers.
Once you become a friend every second you are together,
There is the chance you may hurt each other.

But still we cling together hoping to be able to last another day.
Alas one by one we are pulled apart,
And swept away by the waters of life.
Never knowing where we have reached,
Or where we are meant to be
And if we have no choice but to slowly sink into the darkness of the end.

Alas some things no matter how beautiful,
Are meant to last only a blinking of an eye.
Forgive me for trying to change something that was never meant to be.
Life will never be able to take what I have seen, witnessed and enjoyed.
Yes I will remember for eternity and wonder what could have been.
 
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Well you told her the truth so that's all that really matters. If she is really in love with you she will need time to forget you. She said she will give you that time, doesn't that say it all?
 
How does 1 fall in love over coffee? Is that all there was to the relationship Blue???
Cmon you old dawg.....spill the beans eh? *wink*

Is this a clingy type thing on her behalf? If it is, id back away REAL quick before your wife finds out or you may not have the choice of not leaving your wife.
Ive invited a few from here out for a coffee or what ever, completely innocent terms, public places etc etc however due to time in between working it has not happened yet *sigh* but those ladies know completely its just 'mates'. Maybe your girl did not have this understanding??
 
The truth I did not have any sexual attraction to the lady because it it was just meeting a new person to learn more about what others do with their lives. And yes I told my wife after the first meeting and my wife saw dangers signs and suggested to nip it in the bud real quick.

I tried to do so but at the same time not hurt this lady who found something in me most do not. I am hoping it is now all over but sad I had to hurt her in the process.

Sorry the truth is so boring and I could have written such an erotic fiction that you would have trouble walking and panting at the bit.
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The truth is real and there is nothing boring about real life...Hope she isn't the stalking kind or your wife will be mislead into thinking something else was going on!!!(Just stirring). How long ago did you give this coffee friend the flick, has she been back in touch or is she respecting your request of distance???
Blue I am pleased to see your told your wife...I had someone hide coffee meets from me and it was unpleasant to find that he felt he had to hide that from me.
You have been upfront with this lady, truth and honesty are the best way to go...
Keep us informed of your not so boring woes...hehehe!!
 
hey mate, Have you seen the movie "fatal attraction" he he he.(just kidding)..she must have gotten the wrong message. shes probably lonely and been single for a long time! may be you can introduce her to other single guys here! What if she was gorgeous and you were sexually attrcted to her! what would you do???
There is always a risk in meeting people you dont know...specially online!
But i hope everything goes ok with ya...good luck...
 
Yes it is scary and yes I have seen the movie, "Fatal Attraction."
Seriously there are some out there exactly like that. That is why the government should give all sex workers a one million dollar grant for their role in looking after our community.

Alas it has only been days but I have my fingers crossed and also my legs to keep my jewels safe that the nightmare is now over.

Thank you for the support and understand from those in here and yes it is funny if it is not happening to you.
:walk:
 
Run away to the middle east. Surpringsly, no one will try and find you there lol
 
Thank you Curious1. Where would I be without your kindness and understanding? I wonder how much a two hump camel costs?
:walk:
 
Hmm!!

Sounds like you have cast your net far and wide and caught more than you bargained for on this occasion. In your position is is probably an occupational hazard but so long as you are upfront about your intentions you really only owe it to her to show proper courtesy which you appear to have done. Hopefully she will realise this is heading nowhere and leave you alone.

As to the camels - On the Arabian Peninsular the single hump model is all the rage. I believe the two-humped Bactrian camel is found further North in colder Eastern Asian countries like Mongolia. Its performance may suffer in a hotter climate.
 
Bluegrass9 said:
Thank you Curious1. Where would I be without your kindness and understanding? I wonder how much a two hump camel costs?
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All single humps here i believe...however, they do have motor cars here to you know :)
I suggest getting a people carries vehicle to move you 7 wives arounds :D

Multiple wives.....seriously, why would you? Does 1 wife not cause enough grief and pain in life lol
 
svengali said:
Hmm!!
As to the camels - On the Arabian Peninsular the single hump model is all the rage. I believe the two-humped Bactrian camel is found further North in colder Eastern Asian countries like Mongolia. Its performance may suffer in a hotter climate.
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Or if you want to stay in the nearly civilised world I saw a 2 humper, (Bactrian camel), just next to the A66 near Bowes in the UK only a couple of weeks ago. It wasn't a figment I saw it about 4 times, each time I went to York.
I recommend Cumbria as a great place to hide from demented women...
 
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