VIXENS DEPOSIT GUIDE The safe way to deposit

[VIXEN BLONDE]

Safely (Without Losing Your Deposit)

The reality is simple.

Right now, the industry is filled with uncertainty — fake profiles, stolen photos, and lost deposits.

But most of these issues are avoidable… if you know what to look for.

This guide will show you how to book safely, verify properly, and protect your money — while also respecting the safety of providers.

Why Clients Get Scammed

Scammers rely on:

- Stolen or fake images

- Refusal to verify identity

- Pressure tactics for deposits

- Multiple fake ads across locations

If you’re not verifying — you’re guessing.



Step 1: Demand Real-Time Photo Verification

This is one of the most powerful checks you can do.

Before booking, you can request:

- A custom photo (e.g. holding up two fingers, specific pose, or gesture)

- A quick timestamp-style image

Why this works:

A scammer using stolen or stock images cannot replicate this.



Red Flags:

- Refuses to provide a custom photo

- Sends generic images only

- Avoids the request entirely



# Step 2: A Quick Phone Call Matters

A legitimate provider should be able to:

- Speak briefly on the phone

- Confirm details clearly

- Communicate naturally



Red Flag:

- Refuses to speak at all

- Only communicates via text with vague replies

You don’t need a long call — even 30 seconds can build trust.

## Step 3: Reverse Image Search Everything



Always:

- Screenshot their photos

- Run them through Google Lens

Check if:

- The images appear under different names

- They are linked to unrelated profiles (e.g. social media, overseas accounts)



If the same image exists elsewhere — walk away.




## Step 4: Check Consistency Across Platforms

A real profile is consistent.

Look for:

- Same name across platforms (website, Instagram, Twitter)

- Matching photos and branding

- Ongoing activity over time

Red Flags:

- Different names everywhere

- No social presence

- Brand new accounts

Step 5: Ask for References & Reviews

Reputation is everything.

Before booking:

- Ask for recent references

- Look for independent reviews

- Check if they are known within trusted circles



Red Flag:

- No references at all

- Avoids the question



## Step 6: Watch for Location Red Flags



One of the biggest mistakes clients miss.



If someone is:

- Advertising in multiple states at the same time

- Claiming to be “available today” in different cities

That’s not realistic.







## Step 7: Understanding Deposits (And Why They Matter)

Deposits are often misunderstood.

They are not just for clients — they are also there to protect providers from:

- Last-minute cancellations

- Time-wasters

- Financial loss



A professional provider may require a deposit as part of mutual commitment.

## What You Should Do:

- Only send deposits after proper verification

- Confirm all details clearly beforehand

- Use traceable methods where possible



### What To Avoid:

- Sending money under pressure

- Paying unverified profiles

- Ignoring red flags just to secure a booking



The goal isn’t to avoid deposits — it’s to ensure they’re safe and justified.

## If You Get Scammed — Act Fast



1. Stop communication immediately

2. Save all screenshots and receipts

3. Contact your bank/payment provider

4. Report the profile/platform

5. Share warnings where appropriate



Speed matters.

## Final Rule: Trust Behaviour, Not Words

Anyone can say the right things.

But real trust shows through:

- Verification

- Consistency

- Transparency



If something feels off — don’t ignore it.

## A Better Way: The Future of Safer Booking

The industry is evolving.



More people are moving toward verified, private networks where both sides are screened.

Vixen Blonde’s Limitless VIP Club is being built with exactly this in mind.



A system where:

- Clients are vetted

- Providers are cross-checked

- Trust is established before anything else



The goal is simple:



To reduce the issues that plague the industry —

lost deposits, fake profiles, and unreliable experiences —

by creating a trusted, invitation-based environment.

*Because booking should feel secure — not uncertain.

 

[Phoebe]

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[baal6007]

Here's Baal6007s deposit guide:

Never ever ever ever pay a deposit. Ever. You dont need to, you dont have to. Dont be a sucker.

 

[Phoebe]

Here's Baal6007s deposit guide:

Never ever ever ever pay a deposit. Ever. You dont need to, you dont have to. Dont be a sucker.

Never mind that... look at scarlet blue so many ladies $1000 an hour.... and that $1000 is post tax dollars for the client...

 

[VIXEN BLONDE]

Here's Baal6007s deposit guide:

Never ever ever ever pay a deposit. Ever. You dont need to, you dont have to. Dont be a sucker.

Do you understand that when we turn away a client and the client who said he’s coming doesn’t show up we lose a lot of money, that we use to pay our rent and put food on our tables? It’s also a security measure as welll.

 

[Phoebe]

Do you understand that when we turn away a client and the client who said he’s coming doesn’t show up we lose a lot of money, that we use to pay our rent and put food on our tables? It’s also a security measure as welll.

Would you pay a plumber/ sparkie a deposit?

 

[The Voice]

Do you understand that when we turn away a client and the client who said he’s coming doesn’t show up we lose a lot of money, that we use to pay our rent and put food on our tables? It’s also a security measure as welll.

Would you pay the client a deposit? After all, the client also takes risks with ghosting, security, waste of money and time. The risks are on both sides and cancel each other out. Also, what do you mean by deposits "are not just for clients..." in what world are deposits beneficial for clients, rather than imposing a layer of financial risks on them?

The best advice is not to pay a deposit. There are many (majority) providers that don't impose deposit requirements. Yes the industry is evolving so hopefully this disrespectful practice will fade away.

 

[Phoebe]

Would you pay the client a deposit? After all, the client also takes risks with ghosting, security, waste of money and time. The risks are on both sides and cancel each other out. Also, what do you mean by deposits "are not just for clients..." in what world are deposits beneficial for clients, rather than imposing a layer of financial risks on them?

The best advice is not to pay a deposit. There are many (majority) providers that don't impose deposit requirements. Yes the industry is evolving so hopefully this disrespectful practice will fade away.

Best advice is to go to parlors, walk in get introduced to the line up available at that time, ask the ladies you like the of, questions on what type of service you are looking for, if non offer that then get up walk to reception and say thank you.. you get to see real faces no filters/no bs/no ai/ and talk to them face to face too.. and if you find what you want book said lady have fun for agreed time and services well mission accomplished fun had which is what this is all about for the clients POV... and after all... the old adage

"The Customer is always right"

 

[baal6007]

Do you understand that when we turn away a client and the client who said he’s coming doesn’t show up we lose a lot of money, that we use to pay our rent and put food on our tables? It’s also a security measure as welll.

Do you understand that taking someone's money without providing a service is stealing?

 

[The Voice]

Best advice is to go to parlors, walk in get introduced to the line up available at that time, ask the ladies you like the of, questions on what type of service you are looking for, if non offer that then get up walk to reception and say thank you.. you get to see real faces no filters/no bs/no ai/ and talk to them face to face too.. and if you find what you want book said lady have fun for agreed time and services well mission accomplished fun had which is what this is all about for the clients POV... and after all... the old adage

"The Customer is always right"

Yes, you do take more risks with privates, particularly those that haven't been comprehensively reviewed and ask for a deposit.

 

[Phoebe]

Yes, you do take more risks with privates, particularly those that haven't been comprehensively reviewed and ask for a deposit.

I don't believe no review these days.. its like the Langtrees site Girls reviewing other Girls what girl is going to be truthful there as it helps both ladies out... You can go see a lady and get a shit time.. I can go see the same girl right after you and well she could fuck me into next year.. its the same as reviewing meals at restaurants.....

 

[The Voice]

I don't believe no review these days.. its like the Langtrees site Girls reviewing other Girls what girl is going to be truthful there as it helps both ladies out... You can go see a lady and get a shit time.. I can go see the same girl right after you and well she could fuck me into next year.. its the same as reviewing meals at restaurants.....

It's imperfect I know. I rarely pay much credence to one or two reviews just on face value. I usually look out for who is done the review, their relationship to the WL and if they have similar tastes to me as we all have different preferences and consistency of the reviews. Having said that, taking a punt can pay dividends.

 

[VIXEN BLONDE]

Do you understand that taking someone's money without providing a service is stealing?

Actually plumbers, electrical services, hair salons, doctors and many others take a deposit to confirm so nothing illegal about it love. Do your research before commenting

 

[Phoebe]

Actually plumbers, electrical services, hair salons, doctors and many others take a deposit to confirm so nothing illegal about it love. Do your research before commenting

I have traveled this planet and lived in many nations dealing with all sorts of trades etc, and I will say this Australians just love to complicate things, deposits prove one thing about Australians for a nation built upon mate ship,I got your back, and calling everyone they meet after 5 minutes (mate).. it proves that really at the end of the day Australians don't trust each other...

 

[baal6007]

Actually plumbers, electrical services, hair salons, doctors and many others take a deposit to confirm so nothing illegal about it love. Do your research before commenting

I've never been asked for a deposit for any of those services. So I'm not sure why I would pay an anonymous working girl one. Do your own research before commenting.

 

[The Voice]

I've never been asked for a deposit for any of those services. So I'm not sure why I would pay an anonymous working girl one. Do your own research before commenting.

Neither have I.

 

[VIXEN BLONDE]

Neither have I.

Aren’t you a complete stranger to us? We are also supposed to “trust you” to pay? To turn up? Not just prank us (happens to all escorts) so we turn away genuine clients?
So when we get assaulted he leaves doesn’t pay no way to confirm he was here?
Also I have paid the services a deposit like BERDI hair Saloon take a 50% deposit you can research that on their website ( 1 example)
The part you are failing to see I am trying to help stop this yet you seem hell bent on putting Escorts in a box like we are all thieves and liars. I don’t know who you book but none of my clients have a bad word or have lost deposits.
So do your research!
Ps The last time I softened and said no deposit I was attacked and had to call police. So I don’t care about your opinion, I will always put my safety 1st over your one sided opinion.

 

[Longhorned]

Best advice is to go to parlors, walk in get introduced to the line up available at that time, ask the ladies you like the of, questions on what type of service you are looking for, if non offer that then get up walk to reception and say thank you.. you get to see real faces no filters/no bs/no ai/ and talk to them face to face too.. and if you find what you want book said lady have fun for agreed time and services well mission accomplished fun had which is what this is all about for the clients POV... and after all... the old adage

"The Customer is always right"

I thought the saying was "The Customer always comes first".

 

[Phoebe]

I thought the saying was "The Customer always comes first".

As per post #25

 

[Jryall]

Hmm lets see, follow a 10 step procedure to try and not get your money stolen even though there is no guarantee of a fair service or even getting a service at all OR just avoid booking those who ask for a deposit and slightly reduce the risk of completely wasting your money.

 

[Phoebe]

Hmm lets see, follow a 10 step procedure to try and not get your money stolen even though there is no guarantee of a fair service or even getting a service at all OR just avoid booking those who ask for a deposit and slightly reduce the risk of completely wasting your money.

As per post #25

 

[Celeste_SJ]

Aren’t you a complete stranger to us? We are also supposed to “trust you” to pay? To turn up? Not just prank us (happens to all escorts) so we turn away genuine clients?
So when we get assaulted he leaves doesn’t pay no way to confirm he was here?
Also I have paid the services a deposit like BERDI hair Saloon take a 50% deposit you can research that on their website ( 1 example)
The part you are failing to see I am trying to help stop this yet you seem hell bent on putting Escorts in a box like we are all thieves and liars. I don’t know who you book but none of my clients have a bad word or have lost deposits.
So do your research!
Ps The last time I softened and said no deposit I was attacked and had to call police. So I don’t care about your opinion, I will always put my safety 1st over your one sided opinion.

I’m sorry you were assaulted. I hope you’re ok.

 

[Celeste_SJ]

A sex worker just shared she was assaulted by a client and not one person in the discussion stopped to check if she was OK, instead the debate about money, deposits, continued. I find that very sad.

I think the initial advice about how to avoid getting ripped off was great advice.

There is merit on both sides of the debate for and against deposits.

If a sex worker in any kind of discussion mentions she’s been assaulted, or any person at all ever confides they were assaulted I would hope that those in the discussion would have enough genuine empathy, compassion and respect for her that they would pause the discussion to make sure that person is ok now.

That did not happen here, a debate about money continued and that is very sad.

 

[The Voice]

Aren’t you a complete stranger to us? We are also supposed to “trust you” to pay? To turn up? Not just prank us (happens to all escorts) so we turn away genuine clients?
So when we get assaulted he leaves doesn’t pay no way to confirm he was here?
Also I have paid the services a deposit like BERDI hair Saloon take a 50% deposit you can research that on their website ( 1 example)
The part you are failing to see I am trying to help stop this yet you seem hell bent on putting Escorts in a box like we are all thieves and liars. I don’t know who you book but none of my clients have a bad word or have lost deposits.
So do your research!
Ps The last time I softened and said no deposit I was attacked and had to call police. So I don’t care about your opinion, I will always put my safety 1st over your one sided opinion.

Nah, I will continue to see privates that don't expect a deposit, which is most of them, as it is with all trades and services (notwithstanding your BERDI sample of one hairdresser). Given your concerns about safety (and experience of an assault) and pranks perhaps you could consider working in a brothel rather than expecting clients to give up their anonymity.

 

[Phoebe]

A sex worker just shared she was assaulted by a client and not one person in the discussion stopped to check if she was OK, instead the debate about money, deposits, continued. I find that very sad.

I will do the right thing and remove all my posts.... To @Madam Media @HappyPirate please can you remove all my posts form this thread please. as per this post and post #23. Thank you.

 

[VIXEN BLONDE]

As per post #25

I thought the saying was "The Customer always comes first".

I go above and beyond for my clients That’s why I started the Vixen Limitless VIP club.
My clients always arrive to refreshments,dinner if needed. Theyhave an untimed chat and shower,I organize transport and when on tour 5 star accommodation.I give credits for deposits when given notice within a reasonable time frame. Two people I have honored deposits as the were no shows but both had real emergencies and explained them.
If a client has paid a lot of money and cums to soon I issue gift cards. I do many other things as I am a firm believer in customer service. Bad manners and Refusal of deposit etc, I don’t book.
Also that saying is just that, they only come 1st when they aren’t a a hole. I worked in customer service for years.

 

[VIXEN BLONDE]

Do you understand that taking someone's money without providing a service is stealing?

Only if you don’t provide the service and I have personally followed up and gotten stolen deposits back for my clients. If clients reported these girls to websites, their banks and spent more time doing there due diligence to reduce risk. There would be more accountability for these escorts. You give hotels and airbnbs your credit card details and can lose the full amount for a no show! Maybe we should do that to no-shows….

 

[baal6007]

Look i think im at the point where I'll agree to disagree as this thread has been sidetracked and talking about abuse others have done is not a subject im comfortable talking about.

I dont pay deposits to working girls because I have no way of getting that money back, and there are too many scammers out there. That does not make me or anyone else who has that opinion an asshole or an abuser.

So you do you, continue charging deposits, and I'll continue seeing those who don't. Thanks.

 

[The Voice]

Likewise, assaults and personal attacks is not some that sits well with me. One question though, how would a deposit assure your safety any more than having the punter's phone number when making a booking? I'm pretty sure that if police were involved and had to track down an assailant, they would use the phone number rather than monetary transaction details. Generally it is risky for punters to pay deposits. One only needs to look through Punter Planet posts to see how regular are reportings of punters being scammed or having no comeback if the wl changes the appointment arrangements.

 

[VIXEN BLONDE]

Likewise, assaults and personal attacks is not some that sits well with me. One question though, how would a deposit assure your safety any more than having the punter's phone number when making a booking? I'm pretty sure that if police were involved and had to track down an assailant, they would use the phone number rather than monetary transaction details. Generally it is risky for punters to pay deposits. One only needs to look through Punter Planet posts to see how regular are reportings of punters being scammed or having no comeback if the wl changes the appointment arrangements.

I agree that is a huge issue. A
A new platform https://bonafidecompanions.com.au/ is tackling this head on with an entire new booking system.
I created Vixen limitless in the hope the brand limitless can be displayed only on vetted and trusted girls. Eventually I would like to create an escrow service.
As for safety you drive an hour to a booking to find no ones there late at night no deposit, you tired,upset l, exhausted and driving home can be unsafe plus out of pocket all the other bookings you lost for. Two hour round trip”.
Another is no deposit he turns up doesn’t have the money agreed upon you say “No” they become aggressive.
There are many different scenarios I could give you.
But what is that is that people seem to think that not paying a deposit has no effect on the escort I remember being in tears after I lost everything and had a man had a three hour booking, he called me from the car said he was on the way. In the time I was waiting, I turned down three bookings the money that feeds me put the roof over my head pay my bills. I started to get worried as he stopped replying and didn’t show. That night an entire nights income at the time desperately needed it.
It upsets me when these escorts steal deposit. If they are my clients, I personally track them down, send letters of demand and report them.I inform my client on actions he can take to get his deposit back. So I hope you understand it not just a one sided issue. I am sympathetic to clients that have experienced this and do my best to make them feel safe with me.
They need to be held more accountable by sites that continue to advertise these escorts after they have been reported

Options/examples of letters of demand.
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