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Toy Boy Relationships I would like everyones opinion...please!

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angelicdevil

Hiya all, long time listener first time caller :hello:

Ive always had a thing for older ladies and by that i mean 10years plus min. Theres all those tv shows where you see males together with older women sometimes in their 40's, 50's etc.

Im wondering how often does this really happen and in what situation. For example would they meet online, at a club, at the shops etc. Ive noticed for example that many of the females online seek someone of their own age.

Anyhow id like to know the opinions of everyone is possible! Maybe some info from ladies say 30+ and how they see this matter and if they were looking for a younger male what they would be searching for etc? Would it be a relationship, or purely sex etc?

All feedback is much appreciated!
 
Morning!!!

I have a girlfriend who is 43, but has a 21yo boyfriend, I haven't really spoken to her much about it, but it is more of a casual thing rather than a serious relationship. I guess she likes the idea that younger guys have more stamina (just a theory!!)

But I personally prefer older men, I'm not sure if this is because I lived with somebody quite a bit older than myself for years and years... I have dated younger men, but they just can't seem to hold my attention for too long :|

Then again, I'm just odd - every gal is different!!! Just as well!! lol

Amanda
 
It's an experience thing..

Amanda, I just like you like my men a bit older, much more 'gentlemanly, patient and not too rushed. If I need 'machine gun' I would use a vibrator, what makes a pleasant experience is the gentleness and time and care which seem only be shown by the older gentleman... I could be wrong...but I have found this to be the case... too much energy by our younger friends and they get carried away and forget the other party in the experience...
Of course I am open to opposing views...
xoxo
Glam :angel12:
 
Now for my 2 bobs worth.

Hi all.
As a 24 yr old male i would have to agree with you ( shock horror lol ). Most young males myself included rush sex ( in our defence i would put forward that it is because we get so wrapped up in the moment, all the sensations and feeling work against us in this situation ) , whereas older guys take just a bit longer. I dont know whether this is due to experiance or just hormonal change in middle aged men.
But saying that in the right situation and with a little bit of concentration ..... lol ......... a good 2 hour session is not unattainable.


FordFiend :happy6:
 
You are not alone...

Mainly due to experience I'll say... generally the more sensual and sultry the better for both... what you guys probably need are lessons!... (don't look at me, I'm too busy... but maybe we get a whole heap of good teachers and see if you can somehow be saved from this inadequacy ...lol....) :angel12:

xoxo
Glam
 
Interesting Post.
As to young men rushing sex historical it is the woman's job to teach men how to pleasure them and as a society we have failed to this since the intervention of organised religion 1000 years ago.
The one thing I have learnt from my years in the sex industry is that most men want to pleasure woman, but that we as woman don't know how to go about teaching them.
From my experiences with the adventurous adult club over the last 9 months I have been amazed at how much I have learnt from having a open attitude to other peoples sexual likes and dislikes.I have also realised how little we put into learning about the service we market in the sex industry.
By these comments I am not having a go at anyone but would like to hear some genuine comment from the ladies on how we can address a new outlook to understanding our own bodies better and how we can help the clients learn more about pleasuring woman in general as part of the service we offer.
I personally have learnt more in the last 5 years and it all started with a mature gentleman on the kalgoorlie tour asking me to recommend a vibrator.
Since then I have learnt more about my own body and how it works and have been able to convey it successfully to some of my partners and therefore enjoyed a much more pleasurable sex life myself.
When I look back to my own working years I realise how naivee I was and would like to find a way to pass this information on to all other workers .
Are sex workers interested in the product we sell?
Do we put enough into learning our art?
Is there self satisfaction from making someone more confident with there experiences with the female body?
These are just a few questions I wonder about.It is interesting to note that in America a lot of sex workers have moved on to become sex educators.This isn't happening in Australia. Why not?
Look forward to some interesting debate.
 
Hi Mary-anne and all,

Yes, this is an interesting topic in fact. As I had referred to in a previous thread regards using my vibrators etc, it is very true that many clients love to pleasure a woman and may not get the opportunity in their personal lives to do so. Men just LOOOOOOOVVVVEE
a womans body and receive immense pleasure in being entwined.

Some girls, Im sure thoroughly enjoy the sex whilst working, others perhaps not. It doesnt matter if they dont, they dont have to. I offer a very realistic grlfriend experience to my clients if thats what they seem to be after and so if I enjoy it, then they enjoy it the more.

Times have changed Mary-anne, so too have the girls that now work in the industry and so too have the clients that visit the industry. Go with the flow I say, however for the girls in the industry that go the extra mile in their booking, they will always do well, for every man loves to receive and give pleasure, no matter their age.

Now getting back to the original thread of older woman, younger man,

give me a toy boy anyday !!!!!
 
any age

well what a good topic.i could go on for ages but all i can say is when i was young it was me me me now it is if the lady dont come i never feel forfilled .
 
older women younger men

Women want to hold onto there youth as long as possible, if they can have a Toy Boy to teach the special arts of pleasure it can bring so much more experience into society. As for the male the experience he can return to the younger women. Isn't it always the more experienced teach and the younger ones learn. Younger men also Know there is going to be no ties just affection.
 
reminds me of an old joke...

Q: Why would most guys prefer a good shit to sex?
A: Because you don't have to hug the toilet bowl afterwards and tell it that you love it.

Believe it or not, that joke was funny in the pub twenty years ago. It highlights what every boy knows - women want intimacy. What boys don't know is that so do men.

At the end of the day, men and women are not that different. We both want intimacy, closeness, pampering, care, to feel wanted and important, appreciated, etc. Men learn this from experience as they grow, but as every woman knows - there are still plenty of 50 year old "boys" out there.

For mine? Give me an intelligent, refined, confident, independant, strong, witty and considerate woman any day - irrepsective of age. They're the qualities I find sexy and attractive.
 
I'm so bad !!!

I totally agree Floyd, but only in a relationship do I look for such qualities in a man. Not to say that I dont care what sort of man Im with if I just want sex however. When seeking a person to be fulfilled with on a regular basis of course they must be a bit of an all rounder, not just in the looks department, but someone who fulfills you intellectually.

If I just want sex then give me a damn hot body with the rhythm to match !! hehehehehehe
 
A Babyboomers Preference

Well, speaking for myself on the subject i have always been more attracted to older men. I have never tried to hang on to my youth - as such, because i lacked confidence and self esteem in mine. It was like the older i got, the more i came out of myself - so much so that i hardly recognize the girl i used to be. :angel1:

Remembering too that i come from a far more naive, starched era ( not propper to have your petticoat showing ) to a time when it's more the go to get 'out there' and experience all life has to offer. The freedom of only being accountable to ourselves, is liberating!

I have been in a couple of short term relationships with younger men, and i had a lot of fun but it didn't make me feel younger being with them.
I learned all i love and enjoy now, from older men - and when you're on a good thing...... :love76:

Maybe younger guys are enjoying more mature women because by our age, 'we' have been through the awkward and less confident years and surely have learned a thing or two in our travels ( wink wink ) I'm not saying -because we swing off the chandelliers with sexual experience, i mean, we had to learn by fumbling under the sheets ( or in the back seat of a car at the drive-in ) not by reading all the sexually explicit material available nowdays.

Where do you meet people older than your own age when you feel the attraction? By moving in all different circles. Simple as that. So get on out there, we're everywhere. Just remember that attraction isn't just physical, it goes a lot deeper than that.

xx Max
 
summer

it's kind of a hard choice,with Pamela's feedback I totally agree with you!A younger man usually can understand you need no string's tied as with a older man they do tend to get more attatched to you!but also I would have to say I enjoy the older man more,because I can have both the mature conversation,as well as feeling he genuinely see's you as a person with quality,than the outside!
it all depend's on what our need's are and what we like,I really feel old men are more willing to find out what your turn=on's are rather than there own.then again sometimes you need the hot stimulation of a sexy young man two!so really it depend's on the spare of the moment you love letting go and having that little wild side,then you may also love the feeling of love and affection,at time's you may need a hand to hold or someone to hug!and more mental connection! I'd have to say both!
 
love this post

Well, what can I say ......... I have my young lovers and my older lovers. and guess what? I love them all!!!
Perhaps I am just greedy, but the older offer me the loving, warm affectionate type of sex that is comforting and safe; but my younger lovers are wild and wicked ......
I say, Lets enjoy them ALL!!!!
 
Versatility

DDxxx said:
Well, what can I say ......... I have my young lovers and my older lovers. and guess what? I love them all!!!
Perhaps I am just greedy, but the older offer me the loving, warm affectionate type of sex that is comforting and safe; but my younger lovers are wild and wicked ......
I say, Lets enjoy them ALL!!!!
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I'll drink to that!

Of course, let's not confuse age with experience. I like to think I cover the spectrum from wild and wicked to comforting and safe O0
 
you are all right on

You are all spot on with the opinion you give.

But top votes go .-1 to 10.

7-Maryanne. For she allways know just the right
way to put opinions across.

8-Flord . From this a guys point of view
you are spot on mate-- my opinion to.

That low flying angel
10-Cli-max. Well she is talking from within--plus
refining it by looking at both sides.

And at my age you are all teaching me.

Its not how old you are but how you live.---thanks ---hilly---
 
Whoooo Hoooooo

Why thank you kindly sir. Your opinion is much appreciated.

xx :angel1:
 
Waht about older guys

Im an older guy 40+ but love younger women ,,, 18ish I like to think theyneed an old ahnd to steady them... Maybe im just a reandy old guy. Any girls in Kalgoorlie like to contact me

CONTACT
 
Uuuuuuuuuuuummm

I HAVE to answer THIS one James. :laughing1

I wish you luck babe, I really do - BUT - I hope you're not taking me for example of women who like, and learn a lot from oldER men?
I mean, when I was 18 years old, a man pushing 50 was.............. out'a
the question! That was my DAD'S age. :ky:
I really can't see that my folks would have been too happy with a bloke their age 'teaching' their daughter .............anything but math. :BangHead:

Let us know how you go James.
 
Oh Oh

Before anyone bites my head off :ky:
That's speaking personally.
Of course............. TO EACH THEIR OWN!

xx :love1:
 
I think a younger male is great for the ego, plus a lot of fun to teach. My own teenage son learned the art of lovemaking from a woman twice his age, she was a gardener where he worked, nice body too.
 
angelicdevil said:
Hiya all, long time listener first time caller :hello:

Ive always had a thing for older ladies and by that i mean 10years plus min. Theres all those tv shows where you see males together with older women sometimes in their 40's, 50's etc.

Im wondering how often does this really happen and in what situation. For example would they meet online, at a club, at the shops etc. Ive noticed for example that many of the females online seek someone of their own age.

Anyhow id like to know the opinions of everyone is possible! Maybe some info from ladies say 30+ and how they see this matter and if they were looking for a younger male what they would be searching for etc? Would it be a relationship, or purely sex etc?

All feedback is much appreciated!
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