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Threesome

We have had the same thoughts, which have then gone on to become reality.We now have a third guy join us (or we Join him) for play and pleasure. Now, the dear lady would like to have the company of a well endowed dark skinned man, (and he is waiting for the time that this happens). We have about 2 or 3 contacts that we have chatted online to, but, at this stage we have not been able to "connect" due to venue and work commitments etc. But then, as they say, patience is a virtue, oh and haste makes waste.
Mr finds it a real "buzz" watching Ms being pleasured by other gents AND ladies as well.
 
Pink Panther, I loved your descriptions! Now I'll be walking around with with my rod at attention all day, wishing I had been the 3rd party in your mfm experience. Something about the thought of doing another man's wife right in front of him makes me WILD!
 
swingingstories said:
Well Hi Errol,

As a relative newcomer to the swinging scene, I thought maybe some of my experiences insights might be helpful.

Firstly, delving into this particular lifestyle (IMO) should never be undertaken lightly or hurriedly. Similarly, if you think that it might help pre-existing marital problems, then you should probably think again. This is not an experiment to throw around aimlessly.

You and your wife would be very well served to make sure you TALK TALK TALK before you even attempt to look at a club or swingers party. My hubby and I had been talking about it for 3 years before we both finally felt it was the right time to broaden out. I'm not suggesting you take that long (we're very thorough people), but definitely pause before acting.

When we first decided that the time was right, we knew our reasons for wanting to find out about it. We had discussed dozens of hypothetical situations as to get the other's honest opinion and from those conversations we came up with a very clear, mutually agreed upon, set of boundaries. No Go areas, we agreed that both partners had to be equally comfortable with the boundaries, if one partner felt icky about something, then it didn't happen and no arguments about it.

Our reasons for wanting to try it out were:
1. Variety is the spice of life (but just like spices too much and you'll vomit)
2. Very limited sexual experience, wanted to complete education (on my
part)
3. Social aspect, somewhere to socialise and conversate with adults
(we don't get out much)::)

On the first night that we attended a local swingers club in Perth, we telephoned two ads in the paper and was able to discern which one felt more like our vibe. We got dressed up (hubby in a collar, me in see through spanish lace) and headed out. We had already decided before leaving the house that the first occasion was just a look-see. We wanted to see what it was like, whether the people were nice, whether anyone would like us, so we didn't touch on the first visit.

We were surprised to find that not only was the venue very well appointed (not tired looking or grubby), the staff were lovely and very helpful with a guided tour and mini-etiquette lesson when we arrived. The music wasn't too loud, but modern and up tempo (not headache inducing), conversation was still possible.

Now my hubby and I are both BIG (some say HUGE) communicators, so we just started introducing ourselves to people and many of the regulars took the initiative to come up and talk to us too. Funnily enough, even though I was like a woman on a Fact Finding Mission, everyone was very happy to share little bits of their lives and their swinging stories. We got some advice, we got some food for thought, and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves (we did get very horny and ended having sex with each other in a private locked room with mirrors on the wall), didn't leave til closing. (Much to Management dismay, that's become a bit of a habit with us now, we're always getting kicked out with our shoes in our hands.)

The second time we went, about three or four weeks later, almost an exact repeat of the first night. (We had relaxed our boundaries a little in advance) We did have a spa that night and there was some clumsy fondling in the sauna, but that night it was back home still charged and sex at home.

By the third time we went, we felt sufficiently ready to jump in the deep end. We decided that it was open season (other than we knew we wanted to remain in the same room). We had agreed to let each other know where we were at all times and if one of us became uncomfortable we had a signal which was to mean, tactful cessation of current activities. And we also promised to remain aware of our partner's feelings at all times and if need be impose our own boundaries on ourselves out of respect. Interestingly, hubby made a specific choice that he felt was a mark of respect, and independently I made a similar one (and we have both held to them to this day).

It was a huge night that night, Masquerade Ball, and we blew the boundaries out of the water in nuclear fashion. My hubby had a spectacular night and I had an almost spectacular night. Which probably leads to a really important caution: You may think, in theoretical terms, that you will be able to emotionally handle a certain circumstance or dynamic, or that you know exactly how you will feel. I can assure you, you cannot accurately predict it until you are in the situation. Whilst I was completely in agreement with the activities that took place, for the first time I personally found a couple of things challenged me emotionally. However it was extremely positive and I have learned things about myself I could never have learned if I didn't go there.

Since that night we have been fairly regular at the Club every two or three weeks. We have had one experience that was very uncomfortable due to the dynamic of the couple we were with, so I stepped back, and sensing my discomfort hubby stepped back also. We have steadily, but consistently pushed the boundaries. We have had experiences without our partner being present in the room, but present on the premises. Recently we pushed a bit harder and for lack of babysitting decided that one week hubby would go without me, and the following week I would go without him. Well we finally found a boundary that we want to keep. That situation of playing without our partner there felt far too individual and not about us as a couple for us to keep it going. At this time, we've decided to stick together, we're a package deal if someone's interested in one, then they have to accept the other or it's "not tonight thanks, maybe another time" (some of the etiquette we were taught).

We have gone from strength to strength in terms of our personal growth and maturity as a couple and for us it has been a very positive and fun experiment, that we haven't quite finished yet. :toothy2:

This post is already a lightweight paperback, so I'll stop there. I hope at least you now have some food for thought, and I sincerely wish you good luck in your choices.

Love
swingingstories
EX - :newbie:
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Well said, we hgave had similar situations and fully understand and agree with what you have said
 
Our experience with M F M threesomes, first back to the start,
the wife and I met just before our 18th birthdays, I took her cherry when she turned 19 ( she was a good church going Catholic girl), we married at 21 had our family at 28 and 30 and the wife had her tubes tired after our last child.
so all our sex after then was bare back sex. we were married 15 years and she was 35 when she went with her first ever other guy which led us into 25 + years of swinging, swapping and M F M threesomes which I prefer best of all,
I just love seeing her going with other guys and going silky seconds, all this started back in the mid 70’s.
How we met guys through ads for M F M threesomes, we would usually place an add or if we seen an add that appealed to us we would answerer it, I will give you a blow by blow description of how it went.
After the initial contact by mail we would exchange phone numbers (this is BC “before computers”) and their would be a couple of phone calls sounding each other out, if all was well and it looked as if we were going to be compatible then we would arrange a meeting, mostly our meetings were at a local Hotel, that’s pretty well known and easy to find.
After the initial contact was made at the Hotel we would talk things over a drink, it never took the wife long to make up her mind as to if the guy was OK by her or not, usually I would get the first round and when the guy went to get the second round while he was gone we would discuss if he was OK or not, and the wife did not often say “NO” to a guy when we met, but then their had always been a few phone conversations between them so they at least knew the basics about each other and had approved of each other before it got to the stage of meeting. If the answer was yes we would tell the guy when he returned with the drinks and we would finish our drinks and get him to follow us to our place.
When we arrived at our place the fun would begin, in the front door and into the lounge room, sometimes the initial contact was made between the wife and her new friend in the lounge room, other times she would lead him off into the bed room, at our place you can see into the main bedroom from the lounge room while sitting on the lounge, either place it was such a turn on for me watching their first contact,
the hug and kisses between them, the hands exploring and undressing each other, seeing the guy exposing the wife breasts and kissing them, then her getting his hard cock out and rubbing it, I really got off on seeing the look on her face as she took it in her hand for the first time, when they had enough cloths off “and it was usually everything ” her being lowered onto the bed and opening her legs for him to enter her.
I usually watched all this from the lounge room, and then when they were in full fucking stride I would join them (often the wife would call me in) but if she did not then I would go in when I thought the time was right, I am sure that the wife has never opened her legs to receive cock as wide for me as she opened them for other guys, I think she had two reasons for opening them like she did, one so she could get as much of the guys cock in her as she could and two so I could see every inch of his cock going in and out of her, the wife favorite thing was to kiss me as she was having an orgasm with another guys cock filling her with his hot load of spunk.
After he had finished, went soft in her and pulled out it was my turn, sometimes I would go down on her and suck her clit and slowly work my sucking down to her fresh fucked cunt and lick her out, other times (and it was mostly) I would stick my cock in her wet cunt and go silky seconds, I just love the feeling of entering a woman after another guy has been in her and filled her up, while I was doing the fucking the other guy was usually hovering around playing with the wife and as soon as I filled her up it was his turn again,
from there in we would just play it by ear, but when the night was finished and the other guy had left I always got to do the cleaning up and finish off the night with a fuck, I fucking loved it and we enjoyed the lifestyle for 25 + years on and off.
PS we have now been married 46 years.
 
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just curious how a single female would go about experimenting with a couple? (and keep safe)
 
Well we have had a few single females we have played with and our advice to them follows this; First tell someone you trust about what you want to do, get pics of them and also you can ask for something simple like todays date and your first name on a post card in the pics so you know they are real people. If they refuse give them a miss as they are probably men posing as women or couples. if they are full of excuses then they are full of crap. Once you have seen pics, then a phone number so you can ring and chat, and you should be able to talk with both (confirming its a couple). Then meet in a public place and ask for some ID and ring the ID name and number to a friend before going anywahere alone, also their rego number to the friend. If you dont have a friend, write this info down and leave it at home and in your car. make out you ring. I know it seems a bit over the top but if they are caring people they will want you to be careful. if they complain and try and make you feel silly or guilty then they are not for you.

Well after that you can meet and play with them. We have had a few single girls from 25 to 40 and always try and make them feel comfortable and not pressured into anything. SO you should let them know up front what you desire, want to try, not want to try and whats a NO NO. We usually try and pleasure the girl on the first meeting after a few drinks or coffee and a chat about us, her and what everyone is wanting.

Hope this helps you with some ideas and gives you the confidence to think about playing as it can be so much fun.

M & P
 
yeah that is something both me and my wife have been talking about either a 3's or 4's. my wife really wants to experience a female first with me watching then joining in. any takers.
 
I think alot of relationships are open to exploring the idea of a 3rd person, but the whole swingers club experience is too daunting and the process of finding that perfect stranger is very difficult for some people.
I feel its the way you meet that 3rd person is sometimes the key, many of the women feel cheap etc if they the feel they have "advertised" to find them a friend.....they want it to be a more natural experience, particularly the old fashioned, more prudent ones...that are struggling with their shyness and want to break out a bit... my opinion only.
 
That was a big fantasy of min also. It took me over a year to convince my wife to do it. When she finally did it was the best thing we ever experienced.
 
hi we are a M F couple and would love to have a woman join us for some NSA clean and discrete daytime fun
 
would love to see my wife with another guy major turn on, would to join with him to so both are giving her pleasure
 
We are a couple M & F and would love to meet up with a woman for a daytime discrete meet, then progress on to bringing in her partner, watching, participating and full swaps, then who knows from there.

If there are any pregnant women out there in need of sum fun please PM us
 
im only 18 but id love to try this once im older with a wife very hot fetish!!!
 
i found it a real turn on seeing my wife with another guy. Having a FMM was a great experience for both of us and now we are looking at trying a FFM. my wife even surprised me the other day saying that she would like to try a DP. any just make sure you all have fun and you are both ok with it.
 
We have been swinging for a few years now and for me it's a turn on as I know she's enjoying herself and I enjoy that.
If there are any insecurities, I imagine the best thing would be to not get involved in that type of situation.
Unless it's a power thing for her to watch you squirm while she has fun.
I'm not saying it is, just saying.
 
we did the FFM a few years back and have agreed to do the MMF - im not as excited as the FFM but if it makes her happy, lets hope it is fun
 
I love seeing my wife with other guys. We have been married for 30 years and have been swinging or having MMF 3somes for at least 25 years.
 
my hub allways wanted to see me with another guy so we asked our mutual friend one night , i dressed very sexy when he came around in white stockings and white heels and a nice tight white top with very tiny g strings ,i let him do all sort of stuff to me while my hub watched all three of us enjoyed it , now we do it ofton .
 
What an experience - I am looking for a chance like that. If seduction and passion is what she desires-I could be of further assistance. I am just placing an offer if u like to consider.

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Pink Panther said:
A couple of weeks ago me and my wife had our first experience with another guy. We have talked about it for the past year, i told her how i would love to watch her with another guy. and she also said she would like to try.

The other night we were out at a pub with friends having drinks, then got home both very horny so got on the computer hoping to have some web cam fun. After no luck finding people to watch (1.30am) we starting chatting on a adult dating site with some people. We found a guy around our age (28), my wife said his pics looked allright so we ended up inviting him around.

After about half hour of waiting he turned up at our front door. We were both very nervous but had a few drinks in us so we got by.

He came in and sat on the couch and we had a bit of a chat. My wife at this stage sitting between us two guys wearing just a mini skirt and bra. (she is normally a bit shy).

After a bit of a chat she jumped on this guy and started kissing him. She stopped for a second to see if i was allright with it as it was our first time. I told her too keep going as i have never been so excited. Eventually she had all his clothes off and riding his cock in front off me. At this stage i was so horny i had all my clothes off rubbing my hard cock.

Then she told me to put my cock in her mouth while she rode his cock. This went on for a few hours swapping positions. Then he jumped in a cab and went home.

Ever since that night we have had the most/ best sex ever and both can't wait for the next experience.

So if you a both open with each other and trust each other i recommend doing this.
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Thats a wonderful level of experience u both have gone through - I would like to be part of it - would u look into it?

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Ozzie-A said:
I love seeing my wife with other guys. We have been married for 30 years and have been swinging or having MMF 3somes for at least 25 years.
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Hi-I may be of assistance -all depends on what she desires...would you like to discuss?

dash
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hackbat said:
would love to see my wife with another guy major turn on, would to join with him to so both are giving her pleasure
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I;ve told my wife that she's free to fuck who ever she wants whenever she wants and that she doesn't have to tell me. The idea of her being fucked by anothr guy is a turn on for me but its mainly about giving her the freedom to go ahead and fuck someone else if that is what she wants to do.
 
I love to see guys fuck my wife, we have had a number of MMF sessions but now mostly go to swingers parties. I have seen her fuck six or more guys in a night...
 
Wife wants 3way with another woman!

This is like all Christmases and birthdays all rolled into one.

She hung out with her friend tonight and told me tonight that her friend told her all about a threesome she'd had with a married couple. My wife finished by saying she thought married couples who had threesomes are hot and shed like to try it.

I played it cool and told her that I'd be interested in talking about it - what she doesn't know is that my heart started thumping and I got an instant raging hard on just thinking about it - I thought it might turn her off the idea if I got all over excited about The prospect of screwing another woman.

Any advice from anyone on the following;

• how to find a candidate for a threesome? Her friend is not an option for either of us unfortunately, and my wife wouldn't be keen on a W/L joining us either.
• any tips from anyone with experience (I.e. have had a threesome with wife / husband / partner)?
• ladies point of view - what would be the best way to approach a woman about joining us for a threesome?

Thanks!
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Wow, most guy's fantasy come true. Good luck. And give us a review of the experience, including how you chose the 2nd lady.
 
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