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Threesome

Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

My advice is be very careful. Things can go wrong and when they do, it could get very messy.
I would be talking her into using a W/L for this reason.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Perth boy said:
My advice is be very careful. Things can go wrong and when they do, it could get very messy.
I would be talking her into using a W/L for this reason.
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Yeah thanks, I'd agree, though she wants to try sites like aduldmatchmaker etc, anyone know what adult dating sites have some actual real women?

I used to be a member on Ashley Madison but found that the majority of the "women's" profiles are fakes, I think made by the site to make guys thing there is even something close to a chance of hooking up.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Other than dating sites etc I have no clue how we'd find a threesome friend.

I'm a terrible pickup artist when I'm just looking for straight sex let alone anything out of the ordinary.

In pubs / clubs etc I get shot down every time when asking "want to come back for a drink at my house?", would asking a girl "want to come for a drink at OUR house" be harder to pull off (so to speak)? Or would it seem less threatening having my wife there?

Ladies opinions? Have you ever had a threesome (obviously i mean in private life, we all know how it's arranged if your working!)? How was it set up? Who initiated it and how? Were you the girlfriend / wife or the third party?
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

just make the first one all about her .
if you want more
forget your interests for now ..you will grin bigger later !
yes i know easy to say ..
j
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Certainly leave the flirting and picking up to your wife.
Could I suggest you visit bars where you like the clientele. Sit and drink with your wife. Survey the room and discuss the women in the room. Have your wife lead the conversation. Ask her who she finds attractive and why. Ensure she remains the center of your attention. You may want to do this a couple of times at different venues. :occasion14

When your wife is ready and you both decide on a girl, have your wife approach her and start a conversation. It would be best if you watched from a distance. The conversation needs to lead to flirting. If the girl is receptive your wife could then have you join the conversation. It should be easy from here. A few drinks, a few laughs more flirting. Then back to your place for some fun. :la::icon_blow:laughing4

Or

Arrange for a WL to meet you at a bar and have her play out flirting and picking up your wife (unbeknown to your wife, the lady is a WL). This is a scenario I have played out with a number of clients. It seems to work quite well.
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Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Alexandra's suggestion (WL) sounds good. It is probably safer - remember Glenn Close?
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Demon said:
Alexandra's suggestion (WL) sounds good. It is probably safer - remember Glenn Close?
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That is a good option however what if the wife dont like her. Gone with the funds but possible worth the risk.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Perth boy said:
That is a good option however what if the wife dont like her. Gone with the funds but possible worth the risk.
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Risks in life. If you know your wife you have a good chance of getting it right.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Demon said:
Risks in life. If you know your wife you have a good chance of getting it right.
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What would make this more exciting would be to use a W/L that you have had a few times before. Having the two girls in the room with the wife not knowing the W/L you have had great sex with a few times before. HeHe God I lov a challange!!!
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Perth boy said:
What would make this more exciting would be to use a W/L that you have had a few times before. Having the two girls in the room with the wife not knowing the W/L you have had great sex with a few times before. HeHe God I lov a challange!!!
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I like your mind Perth boy. Maybe its our common Perth boy background.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Try the Court or any alernative place where the ladies are a little more open minded than your local pub.

Good luck.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

i would like to recommend myself babe and if we plan ahead we dont have to tell her i am a w/L

the problem with picking up is you are never sure if they will get attached to either of you, at least with w/l's you know it is no-strings attached fun.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Shirazamatazz said:
Try the Court or any alernative place where the ladies are a little more open minded than your local pub.

Good luck.
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Thanks, didn't think of places like that. I'm not one for thinking outside the box if you couldn't tell.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

Jasmine69 said:
i would like to recommend myself babe and if we plan ahead we dont have to tell her i am a w/L

the problem with picking up is you are never sure if they will get attached to either of you, at least with w/l's you know it is no-strings attached fun.
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Jasmine that is more tempting than you know. I think though that it's probably best to stick to the wife's wishes at first though will keep you in mind if luck isn't on my / our side.
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

the woman im having an affair with has mentioned going with a woman, are there any girls out there who may be interested
 
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!

expertsexchanges said:
Yeah thanks, I'd agree, though she wants to try sites like aduldmatchmaker etc, anyone know what adult dating sites have some actual real women?

I used to be a member on Ashley Madison but found that the majority of the "women's" profiles are fakes, I think made by the site to make guys thing there is even something close to a chance of hooking up.
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Hi. redhotpie.com.au seems to have some ladies who are open to this. Could be worth setting up a profile for you as a couple. Enjoy (u lucky bastard!! :))
 
Hi guys my name is Steve and I'm here to ask ppl especially the ladies what do you think about wanting to watch your partner with other guys and if it's normal. We have been together for many years and not that I'm big noting myself but Megan is gorgeous tall European nice skin and toned body with a nice face and large assets. We are very open with eachother and after many years of jealousy back in the day we have opened right up about our fantasies and pleasures. When we first met she dressed what most girls would say sluty and to be honest that's what caught my attention I loved it, she would wear the shortest dresses and have her tits falling out while wearing higher then usual heels make up done cute and long nails. She reminded me of a hot pornstar.
We had our ups and downs and it was hard that everyone checked her out no matter what she wore but we grew up and I think due to our high sex life it kept us close also when all other felt non existent. We liked going out and partying like most young couples and doing party treats if u know what I mean and would always have the dirtiest wild sex together and finally started to get right into the Hotwife/cuckold type porn. She has had a couple of three ways and I loved fantasing about them even imagining her having sex with a guy. We understood how we were and why we were jealous at times but deep down knew we always loved eachother and only wanted one another. We love talking about it and if we ever have the chance we still may have the odd sniff here and there and have a night of insane sex where she will dress up in her sexy lingerie and porn type heels and let me do anything to her and use many toys on her. Is this a normal thing usually and do any of u ladies find it hot and think we should do it? I feel we are stable enough and in love enough to not let this affect us and if we didn't end up feeling how we thought then just to let it go and go back to being happy together. I don't know what it is but she makes me feel things I can't explain and I find it so hot and addictive to atleast try this. I love teing her to dress in sluty clothes and having a night away where no one knows us and we can enjoy our selfs. One thing we have both admitted is how much we love and crave this fantasy but are freaked out to be seen by ppl we may know. Obviously no matter where u are we all know it's a small world and ull see ppl anywhere and where least expected. We thought about a swingers club where u can have a look and get dressed up and join others at ur own choice or just do ur own thing. I'm pretty keen on getting her a male escort at a hotel and watch and maybe join in or just watch while she gets pleasured. We are both straight but I've always wanted at some stage to dp her even watch her with a number of guys!!! What do u ladies think the best steps are and do u have any pointers or ideas?? Thanx heaps ppl hope I'm not the only one haha
 
Hi Steve, its a pretty normal fantasy. This thread got deleted by mistake when we were having a spam attack, so sorry it has not been published before now.
 
Umm or you could not go see a W/L behind your wife's back in the first place...
Perth boy said:
Re: Wife wants 3way with another woman!



What would make this more exciting would be to use a W/L that you have had a few times before. Having the two girls in the room with the wife not knowing the W/L you have had great sex with a few times before. HeHe God I lov a challange!!!
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Steve&megan said:
Hi guys my name is Steve and I'm here to ask ppl especially the ladies what do you think about wanting to watch your partner with other guys and if it's normal. We have been together for many years and not that I'm big noting myself but Megan is gorgeous tall European nice skin and toned body with a nice face and large assets. We are very open with eachother and after many years of jealousy back in the day we have opened right up about our fantasies and pleasures. When we first met she dressed what most girls would say sluty and to be honest that's what caught my attention I loved it, she would wear the shortest dresses and have her tits falling out while wearing higher then usual heels make up done cute and long nails. She reminded me of a hot pornstar.
We had our ups and downs and it was hard that everyone checked her out no matter what she wore but we grew up and I think due to our high sex life it kept us close also when all other felt non existent. We liked going out and partying like most young couples and doing party treats if u know what I mean and would always have the dirtiest wild sex together and finally started to get right into the Hotwife/cuckold type porn. She has had a couple of three ways and I loved fantasing about them even imagining her having sex with a guy. We understood how we were and why we were jealous at times but deep down knew we always loved eachother and only wanted one another. We love talking about it and if we ever have the chance we still may have the odd sniff here and there and have a night of insane sex where she will dress up in her sexy lingerie and porn type heels and let me do anything to her and use many toys on her. Is this a normal thing usually and do any of u ladies find it hot and think we should do it? I feel we are stable enough and in love enough to not let this affect us and if we didn't end up feeling how we thought then just to let it go and go back to being happy together. I don't know what it is but she makes me feel things I can't explain and I find it so hot and addictive to atleast try this. I love teing her to dress in sluty clothes and having a night away where no one knows us and we can enjoy our selfs. One thing we have both admitted is how much we love and crave this fantasy but are freaked out to be seen by ppl we may know. Obviously no matter where u are we all know it's a small world and ull see ppl anywhere and where least expected. We thought about a swingers club where u can have a look and get dressed up and join others at ur own choice or just do ur own thing. I'm pretty keen on getting her a male escort at a hotel and watch and maybe join in or just watch while she gets pleasured. We are both straight but I've always wanted at some stage to dp her even watch her with a number of guys!!! What do u ladies think the best steps are and do u have any pointers or ideas?? Thanx heaps ppl hope I'm not the only one haha
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I'm sure there would be plenty of guys on here happy to vulolunteer haha
 
I'm always happy to assist! But only if you enjoy watching & that jealous streak doesn't come back...
I've been there before, it never ends well!
 
communication is the key here I think. even before you start the "other guy" for lack of a better term, should stop what he is doing if or when you feel uncomfortable at any moment. I would love to volunteer :)
 
I think as per alot of things in Life, these things take time. When i first got into swinging, everything seemed too much for me to see. Now i cant stop looking!!

Xx Bonnie :):):shy:
 
Is there anyone of the girls who likes a trio. And then 2 girls and one men. I am a little addicted for this sex style. It gives me more satisfaction in having sex. Is there more people who havethe same experience to share here. Your welcome to react.
 
Would you find it more erotic if you could both watch each other
enjoying being with someone else?
 
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