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the walk of shame

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why does it feel like when you go to a in call house that you are doing some thing wrong when you are walking up to the door and trying to look if any one is watching you walk in and also when you see other blokes there. or is this just me??
 
I once saw a camera crew set up accross the road from a certain establishment in South Terrace, Fremantle, that would not make me feel comfortable if I were a customer, thats for sure..........
 
I remember one time after parking the car next to the strip show and parlour, a group of men saw me and laughed that I was going upstairs to the parlour.

They the could not believe when they saw me heading towards the door to go upstairs. One replied,'Look he is going up, and does not even care that we know."

I just grinned at them and yelled back, "ozzie ozzie ozzie"- no idea why but that is what I did.

The moral of the story is, most guys would want to be in your shoes and if they see you, well they know you too love sex.

I am sure you do not feel guilty when you have to go for a pee at the public toilet.
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Personally on my punting trips I always park a block or so away then walk unhurriedly and casually up to the place and turn quickly into the doorway.

If there are other men there already I just smile and say "Hi" because it is rather amusing to see their reactions, usually a return greeting but sometimes a quick startled glance which says "s##t!! do I know this bloke or does he know me from somewhere and will my wife/girlfriend find out....?"
 
Other places where one might have the same walk:

Walking into the STD clinic to have a routine checkup
Walking into the psychologists' practice
Walking into the hostipal psychiatric unit to visit your mother
Walking into the gaol to visit your best friend
Walking into the video library to get that R rated DVD
Walking into the sex shop
Walking into the public library and pickinp up that D.H Lawrence novel that you requested they hold for you....
 
Its same when going into a sex shop, especially when you live in a small town. You never know who is watching.
 
This is a true story!
Many years ago a married man went to a parlour and to his shock one of the ladies he was introduced was his daughter. The madam left them together to discuss it. In the end the father and daughter decided this was their secret that their mother/wife would never be told. These days most parlours have a camera so the sex worker can check out the client.
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I went to adelaide about 4 years ago for work. We had 1 free night to have a bit of fun..... my area manager (with some of the corporate boys) and I decided to go to a strip club...... then this nice young lass came out and recognized him....... apparantly his son used to date her back in high school.......... she ended up givin him a lap dance too........
 
My husband and I walked into a adult shop situated right on the corner of a very busy set of traffic lights. We laughed cause every person in every car parked at the lights (which were red at the time cause of pedestrians crossing) was staring at us some with excitement, some with obvious looks of disgust. We don't give a fuck what others think,at all!! Deep down its just jealousy that is making them judge....They wish they had the courage to do what your about too!!!!
 
Why do you call it a walk of shame? You go to brothel to have sex so what's the big deal?
Who gives a fuc what other people think, They don't know you and if they did ,You would only feel ashamed if you were married.So i don't get the topic of the thread.
 
stormline said:
Why do you call it a walk of shame? You go to brothel to have sex so what's the big deal?
Who gives a fuc what other people think, They don't know you and if they did ,You would only feel ashamed if you were married.So i don't get the topic of the thread.
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Now that is a DILLIGAF attitude! Kev would be proud of you, Stormie.
 
I believe by the data available that most who visit brothels are married! Shock horror but hey married men still have a sex drive and enjoy something different every so often.

I am sure most do not eat the same food every day or watched the same movie every night.

Sex and love are two different things. Lust can be enjoyed and if taken as directed should not ruin your marriage.
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before i met Kelth73 i used to got La Cherie on Beaufort street alot (alot at least once a week), never really thought about it like that,

i parked where i parked and went in , if all the girls were busy i just sat and waited

also went moseignors in Vic Park alot and a few private homes also.

i was never embarrassed to enter tho , and would go into langtrees in Perth with Kel aswell even just for a Drink and who knows what else !!!
 
always feels like it was a bad idea when leaving the place- as you cant take same precautions as when entering the house. true story- a friend of mine bumped into his brother in law driving in as he was leaving! now that would be uncomfortable..
 
Its even worse when you run into a w'l who also happens to have been a girl you had been seeing for a while a reasonable amount of time ago. Although she looked familar, what with internet photo adverts and the like, i put it down to seeing her photo online, or maybe being introduced at an inhouse venue. It wasn't until i was literally walking out the door of her apartment that i realised who she was.....
 
Link83 said:
Other places where one might have the same walk:

Walking into the STD clinic to have a routine checkup
Walking into the psychologists' practice
Walking into the hostipal psychiatric unit to visit your mother
Walking into the gaol to visit your best friend
Walking into the video library to get that R rated DVD
Walking into the sex shop
Walking into the public library and pickinp up that D.H Lawrence novel that you requested they hold for you....
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I believe you are right in what you say there Link.... and I for one have certainly felt that pang of anxiety or apprehension when FIRST approaching those situations mentioned... but with time, the more you do it, the easier it becomes... and now I can walk in anywhere, without any feeling of guilt, anxiety or apprehension.
 
I just use the front door and dont bother with the back, although I've only ever punted at night and I do the same as Svengali and park a block or so away and stroll up to the door, its no secret what goes on inside and I'm there for a reason so bugger it if someone turns their nose up at it. Chances are if its a dude they have thought about going to a parlour on more than one occasion.
 
Lisa's retreat when it was in business was my walk of shame ,especially the angled driveway n the front door almost in line with the traffic lights on guildford road
 
Dear Sir Stefan, Yes, I am back, for a little while anyway.

As you say, I did mean those examples in a positive way. I mean why focus on just visiting WLs as something shameful when there are so many other situations that create a similar feel.

I have a great deal of respect for your opinions; if you ever think otherwise, maybe it might be that I haven't expressed what I want to say in as clear a manner as I would have liked. Or it might just be that we are talking across purposes and neither of us realising it. I can be a clumsy oaf sometimes; my ex Mrs Link reminded me of that many a time.
 
Bluegrass9 said:
I believe by the data available that most who visit brothels are married! Shock horror but hey married men still have a sex drive and enjoy something different every so often.

I am sure most do not eat the same food every day or watched the same movie every night.

Sex and love are two different things. Lust can be enjoyed and if taken as directed should not ruin your marriage.
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bravo :) if both parties to a marriage (or other relationship) can have this attitude there would be a lot less divorce
 
aaaaah Bepp712, Lisa's retreat , you bring back fond memories.

I just used to ride my harley straight down the driveway and park it by the back door, never thought of it as my ride of shame, maybe that happened later once i got inside.

mick7
 
I haven't done the parlour walk yet, but if it's anything like the sex shop walk, I imagine you get over it... We're doing what we want to and it's legal right!

John
 
No shame when I go to the sex shop. I normally leave slightly irritated, however, due to poor customer service. Only once has the customer service guy been pleasant and helpful. I've come across a few who are so apathetic that they seem annoyed at the very presence of customers.

I think the first time donating sperm would feel like a walk of shame since hospitals aren't sexual places.
 
How true you are frendoto.
Supplying a 'specimen' for a sperm analysis test involved a serious walk of shame.
You get sent to the 'special' room with a hidden cache of porn. All the staff know about the 'special' room (which a plain box that is about as sexy as cat pee in your hair - don't ask) and they all seemed to be in sight of the door when I came out. Damn that bible bashing guilt ridden youth of mine.
 
Old thread, but I can relate to the original poster.

Recent experience, went to a new place nearby since I saw an ad in the paper and didn't feel like travelling (again) that evening. When I went in, there was hardly anyone hanging around outside, so not too worried and was just keen to try it out.

It was a bit later when I left and there were these teenagers right outside the entrance, as if they knew I was leaving and stood outside purposely. They mumbled "ooooh god someone's leaving [the parlour]" but I just shrugged it off and walked away. In saying that, I don't feel like going back there anytime soon. Do prefer the more discreet places.
 
Interesting post.I have been to a few brothels in my time and used to feel the same way,but soon got over it.
i know that being an older man a lot of people think look at the dirty old man going in there,and he is more than likely married.Women and men alike.But what has to be taken into account is that a lot of older married men do not get sex at home due to the wife going through the change of life.
It can be very very frustrating to not be getting it when you still desire it.
Why are we refered to as dirty old men?We are still men,maybe older but still men.We still have the desire to lay with a lady feel her touch her and have her do the same to you.
I know it is must better than rubbing one out by yourself.
 
kencan said:
Why are we refered to as dirty old men?We are still men,maybe older but still men.We still have the desire to lay with a lady feel her touch her and have her do the same to you.
I know it is must better than rubbing one out by yourself.
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(in true sarcastic tone)

"Any man over a certain age must either be married or in a longterm relationship. If they are not, they must abstain from sex until they are. You have had your youth, now it's time to either cut off your penis or have sex with one woman for the rest of your life. God intended it to be that way, ya know!!"

It's all BS. Live your life.
 
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